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My son started school not long ago as some of you know. Every day when he gets there he goes off and plays as we have to wait until 9am to go in, we are always early because I'm like that. He runs around and plays with his best mate and he also plays with the other kids much like boys do.
There is a lad who is brought to school by his nan, now yesterday this lad was playing with the others when Dan pushed him...slightly more a laying on of hands...you know...like boys do. So this lad comes crying to his nan and shes over reacting really quite badly. So I shout Dan over and say to him "did you push him mate?" he say "no" and so this old fucking battleaxe butts in and says "YES YOU DID I SAW YOU DO IT" like my son is a 15 year old knife wielding maniac. I let that go and told Dan to say sorry, so he did then he gave this lad a hug and gave him one of his toys, then the lad says "leave me alone" to which his nan laughed.
So I stewed on that yesterday, the fact that I let her pretty much tell my son off, that was not on.
We get there today we were the first there closely followed by Dans mate and his dad. Dans off running around and playing great then this woman and her forrest gump...sorry grandson turn up. He says to his nan "I want to go play" so she lets him at which point he starts playing with Dan and the others. Now today I made sure I could see where they all were in case anything else happened. A minute or so goes by and Dan pretty much touches the lad with both hands, doesn't push I can't even say it moved the lads jumper even. At this point this woman screams "I CAN'T BELIEVE THIS!!" and goes storming over to Dan and her rainman and she starts telling my son off.......
....I flipped at this point and steam over there myself and say "jesus you are over reacting, it isn't like hes just done a drive-by shooting" she says "how would you like it if your son went in crying everyday" her grandson was not crying or even really that bothered, so I say "well I saw your boy slapping Dan on Monday but thats ok I take it?" (this lad had windmilled on Dan and Dan just ignored it and carried on playing), she totally ignored that point.
In the end I said "look just chill out will you" and she said "but hes only little" I could of known that line was fucking coming. Its like a mirror of when I was at school, quite big for my age so that automatically means I'm the bully and this is what I was worried about with Dan, he will not have the sort of schooling I got. I was being picked on once by this lad so I punched him, he ran off to the teachers and I got the cane for it, I won't have that for Dan.
I don't suppose this is a question of if I'm wrong I just needed to vent and hear some other points of view, I didn't do anything wrong actually but if this woman was a 30 year old bloke telling my son off things may of turned out quite a lot worse.
Its funny theres this old cow (probably not that old actually, maybe 55/60) who is a fucking prick and theres me 6 foot 4 with tattoos who would do anything for anyone really and theres this other bloke with tattoos up his neck and on his hands and he is a diamond as well, really nice guy. I never thought I would have this, I am actually quite upset, passed livid now.
Sorry for the rant and the tangents, sorry if this seems like nothing but it is a massive thing to me.
There is a lad who is brought to school by his nan, now yesterday this lad was playing with the others when Dan pushed him...slightly more a laying on of hands...you know...like boys do. So this lad comes crying to his nan and shes over reacting really quite badly. So I shout Dan over and say to him "did you push him mate?" he say "no" and so this old fucking battleaxe butts in and says "YES YOU DID I SAW YOU DO IT" like my son is a 15 year old knife wielding maniac. I let that go and told Dan to say sorry, so he did then he gave this lad a hug and gave him one of his toys, then the lad says "leave me alone" to which his nan laughed.
So I stewed on that yesterday, the fact that I let her pretty much tell my son off, that was not on.
We get there today we were the first there closely followed by Dans mate and his dad. Dans off running around and playing great then this woman and her forrest gump...sorry grandson turn up. He says to his nan "I want to go play" so she lets him at which point he starts playing with Dan and the others. Now today I made sure I could see where they all were in case anything else happened. A minute or so goes by and Dan pretty much touches the lad with both hands, doesn't push I can't even say it moved the lads jumper even. At this point this woman screams "I CAN'T BELIEVE THIS!!" and goes storming over to Dan and her rainman and she starts telling my son off.......
....I flipped at this point and steam over there myself and say "jesus you are over reacting, it isn't like hes just done a drive-by shooting" she says "how would you like it if your son went in crying everyday" her grandson was not crying or even really that bothered, so I say "well I saw your boy slapping Dan on Monday but thats ok I take it?" (this lad had windmilled on Dan and Dan just ignored it and carried on playing), she totally ignored that point.
In the end I said "look just chill out will you" and she said "but hes only little" I could of known that line was fucking coming. Its like a mirror of when I was at school, quite big for my age so that automatically means I'm the bully and this is what I was worried about with Dan, he will not have the sort of schooling I got. I was being picked on once by this lad so I punched him, he ran off to the teachers and I got the cane for it, I won't have that for Dan.
I don't suppose this is a question of if I'm wrong I just needed to vent and hear some other points of view, I didn't do anything wrong actually but if this woman was a 30 year old bloke telling my son off things may of turned out quite a lot worse.
Its funny theres this old cow (probably not that old actually, maybe 55/60) who is a fucking prick and theres me 6 foot 4 with tattoos who would do anything for anyone really and theres this other bloke with tattoos up his neck and on his hands and he is a diamond as well, really nice guy. I never thought I would have this, I am actually quite upset, passed livid now.
Sorry for the rant and the tangents, sorry if this seems like nothing but it is a massive thing to me.