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Plus Audi drivers are the new bell ends on the road, well, they are trying to take the Mercedes drivers crown. @Edmond get a BMW mate, you aren't a cunt.
 
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Trem said:
Plus Audi drivers are the new bell ends on the road, well, they are trying to take the Mercedes drivers crown. @Edmond get a BMW mate, you aren't a cunt.
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Never liked BMW's and the people who drive them seem to be very good at going fast in a straight line, but throw in a corner, bend, roundabout, cyclist.....and so on

They seem to lose all co-ordination
 
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I see from that article there were six guys from hsbc sacked for staging a beheading. Didnt hear about that at the time.

Wonder if it was a works outing or a private after work thing.
 
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To be fair, they were watching a show featuring Rambo and Superman by the entertainers, but still, suddenly ramping it up to armed terrorists running into the crowd was insane, though Turkey does have a history of dark humour..like their version of Candid Camera has fake bombs and pretending loved ones are dead.
 
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So i have bit of a problem....

My dad died of pancreatic cancer a few weeks ago and his funeral is tomorrow.

The problem is that i had no reaction when i was told..

I cared more when my cat had to be put down a while ago, but when dad kicks the bucket it was just..... nothing....

Is this a common reaction or is there something seriously wrong with me?

Am i really this fucking coldhearted and uncaring?

The guilt is driving me up the walls soon...
 
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You might find it hits you at the funeral. Grief can be strange.

I was very close to me Granddad who was my father figure as my arsehole dad was never around. When he died I didn't really feel much, we knew it was coming sooner or later, he just gave up when my Gran died. Only at the funeral did it set in.
 
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Ctuchik said:
So i have bit of a problem....

My dad died of pancreatic cancer a few weeks ago and his funeral is tomorrow.

The problem is that i had no reaction when i was told..

I cared more when my cat had to be put down a while ago, but when dad kicks the bucket it was just..... nothing....

Is this a common reaction or is there something seriously wrong with me?

Am i really this fucking coldhearted and uncaring?

The guilt is driving me up the walls soon...
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Too many unknowns. How long was he ill for?what was your relationship with him? reactions vary enormously, and can run the range from shock to full blown PTSD to not giving a fuck, and can vary by person from the second it happens to years later. I wouldn't be beating yourself up just yet...
 
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It hit me 2 weeks after my stepdad dropped down dead...I felt sorry for everyone else first..then the enormity of it hit me while I was just pottering around the house and I bawled for 10 mins.
So sorry to hear that dreadful news...and don't be afraid to cry big guy.
 
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I found a really fucked up facebook page.
 
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Moriath said:
You really are the new bloodomen lol
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For posting a picture?

The spree before was tongue in cheek.

This is off some weird artists page which was weird, not some mainstream forum which everyone has the capability to go on.

Sorry if I offended you
 
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Ctuchik said:
So i have bit of a problem....

My dad died of pancreatic cancer a few weeks ago and his funeral is tomorrow.

The problem is that i had no reaction when i was told..

I cared more when my cat had to be put down a while ago, but when dad kicks the bucket it was just..... nothing....

Is this a common reaction or is there something seriously wrong with me?

Am i really this fucking coldhearted and uncaring?

The guilt is driving me up the walls soon...
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I had no real relationship with my father to speak of. I don't suggest this is the case for you, but I felt the same as you say you do. However, I still struggled to hold back the tears as his coffin rolled back and the curtains closed - and as he'd donated his body to medical science, this was a good six months after he died. Even though I don't miss him, I still harbour feelings of guilt at the fact that he can no longer enjoy the simple things I do, such as a beautiful sunset, or a tasty bag of chips. I wouldn't see him if he was here, but I still wish he was here.

Don't believe anyone who says you have to feel this or that. How you feel is just that - don't try and change it. Just try to learn from your experiences and become a better person.
 
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Gwadien said:
For posting a picture?

The spree before was tongue in cheek.

This is off some weird artists page which was weird, not some mainstream forum which everyone has the capability to go on.

Sorry if I offended you
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So you should be. ;)

Ididnt find it offensive. Ireally dont think i have ever seen anything i havefpund offensive and i have tried!!

Just all the 9gag reddit pictures and comic strips i never find amusing
 
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Ctuchik said:
So i have bit of a problem....

My dad died of pancreatic cancer a few weeks ago and his funeral is tomorrow.

The problem is that i had no reaction when i was told..

I cared more when my cat had to be put down a while ago, but when dad kicks the bucket it was just..... nothing....

Is this a common reaction or is there something seriously wrong with me?

Am i really this fucking coldhearted and uncaring?

The guilt is driving me up the walls soon...
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Everyone handles death in a different way. No rights or wrongs. Just go with it and you will find your way.
 
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Today a cyclist went past the same bit of road where ive nearly been hit by a car 3 times this year and managed to go in front of a car pulling out

The car beeped, cyclist gave him the finger, driver road raged, chased him down and ran him down - cyclist died in hospital earlier today

What the fuck is wrong with people jesus
 
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Ormorof said:
Today a cyclist went past the same bit of road where ive nearly been hit by a car 3 times this year and managed to go in front of a car pulling out

The car beeped, cyclist gave him the finger, driver road raged, chased him down and ran him down - cyclist died in hospital earlier today

What the fuck is wrong with people jesus
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Christ! that's messed up.
 
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Ctuchik said:
So i have bit of a problem....

My dad died of pancreatic cancer a few weeks ago and his funeral is tomorrow.

The problem is that i had no reaction when i was told..

I cared more when my cat had to be put down a while ago, but when dad kicks the bucket it was just..... nothing....

Is this a common reaction or is there something seriously wrong with me?

Am i really this fucking coldhearted and uncaring?

The guilt is driving me up the walls soon...
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Shit.

Whatever you feel is normal.

Lost mine at 4. Still don't know how to feel about it. Or if I should. Or if I should care if I should.

But what I do think is that it's shit but you'll figure it out. Chin up man.

:(


Edit: been drinking all day m8. Just in case the above makes more sense to you than it does me...
 
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