Need her, want her :(

Boni

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Nugusta said:
I think care isnt the word to describe what she feels for me. I think its more hate? Seriously if it wasnt for school i know i could do this and just ignore her.

I dont understand what theyre trying to pull...i dont know how im meant to ignore them, since i see them everyday at school. She truely cared for me at one point. I honestly dont see what ive done to make her hate me this much...I cant see what ive done to make her even not like me. I gave her everything, she told me herself she was happy with life with me. God this sucks :( Holidays dont start for another month or so and i have exams before then...

If its any consolation they probably arent trying to hurt you, but your strong feelings towards her make everything they do seem worse and more personal than it is. Its nasty that you are in the same environment all the time, but as you say just a month till holidays, perhaps you could just spend some quiet time studying for them exams away from her and anyone likely to be hanging round her. I know it will be hard.

Anyway, ill give you no more advice on this matter, as im really no expert, just seen you in the same situation I was a few years ago. Theres no magic cure except time, just try and keep yourself busy and dont dwell on the past too much.
 

Mimen

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Sissyfoo


1 word,

Class


ps nugusta just go out and have some fun ( at least try to ) things will get better and you will get over it.



Ps Sissyfoo stamp with wtfpwned would be better imo.
 

Nugusta

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Brynn said:
just back from work - and im gunna cheer ya up :D



a bird of mine broke up with me before (day before) maths higher exam - really fucked me over (had the calculater on rads) but i managed to get a fail....but that was nothing to do with her - i would have failed anyway but none the less.

Cheer up - he licked her belly? so - probably mingin and covered in belly button fluff (dont mean to be rude)

your 14 i have to keep stressing that point - im 20 and have just found the 1st girl i love, you probably aint even in love (sorry just feeling brutal) you know when your in love. This is probably the 1st girl you have liked so you assume its love. Chill out - go out 2nite with mates, its a sunny day play football get your mates to remind you why ur better off without her. or as my good pal chilly said get stoned and drunk - makes you forget everything.

Im 15 :p I have been in love before, not fancy. Im not one of these morons that say "Ric lovin jess :p" and then have some picture of some naked chick on my wall or on my display pic or avatar. That just doesnt seem right to me. You love ONE person. I never even took notice of any other girl. Im trying to get mates round here but cant get hold of them :( I have a cardiology problem so drinking isnt really a good idea :p
 

evzy

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Go bone a cheap slapper... soon you will see the error of your ways.
 

Sissyfoo

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Another man with sense!! \o/

Just in time to catch Armageddon, old chap! :D eOT dies a painful death tomorrow. :mad:
 

Tilda

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Chilly said:
just had an idea.

then spend hours slicing the ribbon up into the smalles pieces you can possibly manage and mix it with the salt petre (if it was a solution you can just leave it in the sun in a bowl to evaporate+crystalise) then put a tiny blob of craft glue (the polycement stuff that u put airfix kits otgether with) onto it and make a little ball of the stuff bout the size of the end of your thumb, next time your near a fire throw one on and get to a respectalbe distance and watch the fun!
Best fun is if you put it in a door hinge, then when someone closes the door... :eek:
<ahem>

Asha's advice is pretty sound imo.

Tilda
 

yaruar

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Boni said:
Listen to your mums advice, move on, your young and im sure theres a thousand girls out there that deserve and want you more. Dont waste the best years of your life chacing something thats messing you around.

or just play computer games and drink beer, both are dependable, emotionally satifying and make you feel good.
 

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Sissyfoo said:
Ack...if only I had known I was about to propel myself to super fame I would have taken the time to sort out my hair...and mebbe have some half-nekkid chicky babes walking around in the background to give the impression that I was some kind of stud muffin.

It is nice to think that one day my grandchildren will be whining on some forum about getting wtfpwned in DAoC IV - Legion's Revenge and someone will post a piccie of their gramps and then tell 'em to stfu. :)
https://forums.freddyshouse.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=445&stc=1

Fixed!
<uninstalls paint>

Tilda

(If anybody knows how to make my image that ive uploaded just show in the thread without people having to follow a link tell me please :( )
 

Chilly

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Tilda said:
https://forums.freddyshouse.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=445&stc=1

Fixed!
<uninstalls paint>

Tilda

(If anybody knows how to make my image that ive uploaded just show in the thread without people having to follow a link tell me please :( )
And you call yourself a mod? use the
tags as you would tags.

Aye Nugusta, hows that bomb coming along? and dont listen to tilda, it wouldnt explode in a door hinge, altho it WOULD if you mixed sand+match heads with the ogininal Fun Mix before glueing it solid.
 

Sigh

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treat em mean to keep em keen !

good advice from my good friend Doctor Love

I bet if she likes you, give her space then she'll come back, if on the other hand she doesnt, then you might have lost a GF but still have a person you havent pushed away!

p.s Doctor Love wanted to be a vet or a dentist;<
 

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Chilly said:
And you call yourself a mod? use the
tags as you would tags.

Aye Nugusta, hows that bomb coming along? and dont listen to tilda, it wouldnt explode in a door hinge, altho it WOULD if you mixed sand+match heads with the ogininal Fun Mix before glueing it solid.
Problem is, when you upload it to FH, it dosnt give you a link that ends in your files name, just a funny shortcut thing. So although the link sends you to he picture, the tag dosnt work, i guess due to the fact the link dosn't end in .jpg

Tilda
 

Nugusta

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Ala said:
Feeling any better today Nug? :fluffle:

A little, got my friends round got them to read logs and they agree with you.

She likes him and she likes to show it now...Helps get over her.
 

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Daws said:
At 14, a lot of girls are sluts and whores. Most of them need boyfriends to validate themselves. I know one girl who hasn't been single for a week since she was 11. She's had about 20 different guys on the go. They just love to wind you round their fingers and use you. Women suck tbh.

I have been with the girl Daws talks about, and she seems very much like the girl you're dealing with......even to the point with Daws licking her and stuff :p

I think Ashas advice was best, just try and do things that take your mind off of her and just wait for a much better girl to come along when you're older...they do exist when they mature....
 

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Nah sissy, all he did was take the pwned sticker off your forehead revealing YOUR GRUSOME FACE! and an automatic filter manned by a 99 year old granny given a part tim job by deebs to keep her active has taken it out do to excessive obscenity!

/edit Oh and Nugusta, good to hear your feelin better today, mark my words 6 days from now (a week from yesterday) youl be a hell of a lot better!

If youv got an older brother now is the time to give him a tenner and tell him to buy you a slab of beer tbh, fuck school tomorrow!
 

Nugusta

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Chilly said:
/edit Oh and Nugusta, good to hear your feelin better today, mark my words 6 days from now (a week from yesterday) youl be a hell of a lot better!

If youv got an older brother now is the time to give him a tenner and tell him to buy you a slab of beer tbh, fuck school tomorrow!

Brother is 19 but looks younger then me :p
 

Chilly

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well if he looks younger than you then kick the crap into him! thatl cheer you up no end, i always enjoyed fighting with my bro who has alwyas been a) shorter than me and b) stronger than me and c) 5 years older than me.
 

Drummer

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It's clearly that she doesn't like u anymore (think u figured that out yerself:p).
U can't just forgot her with one movement. This takes time.

So don't go feeling pity for yerself (tho u have the right) but live your life.
And please put those suicidal thoughts in a place where the sun doesn't shine.
As previously said by Chilly etc before : hang out with you're mates, you're real ones. As that Josh bloke is clearly a prick and not worthy of the title friend. He must have felt really mature when he said he licked her..belly :wij:.

Anyway I just turned 15 today so I know how u feel :p. No situations as bad as yours but similars :p


Hope u find some fun in your life,
 

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hey nug mate.

dude, i totaly know how u feel 200%

ive been in love with the same girl for nearly 6 years (im 18 now)

it hurts mate,it should pass but i cant garuntee it will for a while, im still waiting for my pain to stop :(
 

Nugusta

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Squalion said:
hey nug mate.

dude, i totaly know how u feel 200%

ive been in love with the same girl for nearly 6 years (im 18 now)

it hurts mate,it should pass but i cant garuntee it will for a while, im still waiting for my pain to stop :(

It helped alot coming here and asking for help, seriously I cant stress enough how much it has helped. Was it similar? Were you ever together? Or you just love her but cant have her?

The pain's going, but I still find myself thinking of her and the times we had together and it makes me jealous knowing shes out their doing things with other lads that we used to talk about.
 

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Nugusta said:
You have to understand this though. I still care about her. Now shes just messing me about. Shes gone to the cinemas apparently with just one of her mates. Now i talk to josh he says hes off aswell, but with different people. I talk to another person going with them and Josh and Jess are going together - but too see their own movie. Now josh bragged about his sex life with his ex. I still care about her and theyre just making things to obvious...She puts on her name...:I got my belly licked!
He puts: Yumm Yumm Bellies...

Seriosuly the knife idea is looking pretty good right now..
First he is 15 and bragging about a sex life?. Like lol he prob shagged her leg. and 2nd Brynn you shouldnt be telling someone who is 15 to get stoned and drunk. Tbh >;/
 

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Delrith said:
First he is 15 and bragging about a sex life?. Like lol he prob shagged her leg. and 2nd Brynn you shouldnt be telling someone who is 15 to get stoned and drunk. Tbh >;/

He shouldnt but enough of it goes on in school. Both the sex and the drugs and booze :p
 

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Nugusta said:
He shouldnt but enough of it goes on in school. Both the sex and the drugs and booze :p
Just punch him in the head, you'll feel a lot better for it and u'll get the bragging rights
 

Nugusta

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Krazeh said:
Just punch him in the head, you'll feel a lot better for it and u'll get the bragging rights

I wouldnt punch him, he'd probably own me. :p
 

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