why dont some women like cunnilingus?

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:touch: . need to know tbh. is the feeling unpleasurable for some?
 

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strangely enough i have looked into this aswell.
Some say it's because they can't relax knowing they are just receiving without giving anything. It's usually fully relaxing that is the problem; some might worry that they smell, or that they squirt him... or her in the face :p Even met one who said she just thought it was "yuck" (my mates ex-gf, maybe it was just his style she didn't like :p)
 

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Over the last 15 years or so I have had 3 women who weren't happy for me to do it, I guess they have either had bad experiences in the past or they are worried about odour/hygene issues. Never had any complaints from those that let me going diving for oysters :p
 

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I know some that just find it dirty(not in a sexy sense) also one lass that feels too vunerable with it. and no theyve not had bad experiences or whatever with it its just how they feel about it :)

I supose same things could be said for anal sex.
 

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Outlander said:
I know some that just find it dirty(not in a sexy sense) also one lass that feels too vunerable with it.

Don't stick your finger up her arse next time then matey ;)
 

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I reckon its cause its hard to spell tbh.
 

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cHodAX said:
...diving for oysters :p

Me lovva de oysters, me nevva had any complaint when me encounter de oystah..

Well tbh I've been with women who weren't quite comfortable with me going down on them too. Blackjack mentioned a couple of qualms they might have, that rings a bell. (The difficulty relaxing and don't feel clean parts.)

I think if you really want to do it with her, and she seems uncomfortable when you first try to do it, then you might want to try and ask if it's ok. And if she says no then leave it, and say it's ok. If you meet her later on you might try to bring up the subject again, but remember to always be gentle.

;)
 

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because a lot of guys are clumsy and bad at doing it, so women have bad experiences, at least that's how i figure it. still, i also put it down to the rise and rise of people having far too much premiscuous (sp?) sex, i've always maintained that any sexual act would only be 'good' if i really liked/loved that person. still, it's no one's place to say what people should do with their sex lives, but my firm belief is that if you really love someone, sex and all that goes with it will always be good. i guess that's a rather huge catch-all, though, as everyone has likes and dislikes =]
 

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lol squirt in the persons face, that would be quite amusing
 

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eksdee said:
because a lot of guys are clumsy and bad at doing it, so women have bad experiences, at least that's how i figure it. still, i also put it down to the rise and rise of people having far too much premiscuous (sp?) sex, i've always maintained that any sexual act would only be 'good' if i really liked/loved that person. still, it's no one's place to say what people should do with their sex lives, but my firm belief is that if you really love someone, sex and all that goes with it will always be good. i guess that's a rather huge catch-all, though, as everyone has likes and dislikes =]

I totally agree. At least from my experience I've had the best sex with the women I've dated for a long time. Then you get to know them, and know what they like/dislike.

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imo having sex is for pleasure and intamecy (sp?) - If you liek the girl enough to have sex with her you are have then shared that intamecy with her.

At the end of the day a fuck is a fuck. Atleast untill you settle down with someone. At my age i'm too young to be setteling down, guess thats my downfall :( But don't get me wrong, I just wanna have fun :D But I do think sex is for the bedroom. then again getting caught in the dressing room was quite funny !

Some women like men to go down on them wiether there good at it or not, I generally find its the older women who like that. Younger and my generation just want relationships and babies :eek6: I've met one girl who had the same outlook on life as me, your young so why not have fun while you can. But she got in with my mate so :( oh well.

They say four play is the best part of sex, so it all depends on the women. Why.. preference.
 

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The only bird who turned me down had a smelly snatch, maybe that's why? :p
 

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cHodAX said:
Don't stick your finger up her arse next time then matey ;)

Fu he only does that to me :D

Mikah75 said:
lol squirt in the persons face, that would be quite amusing

You of all people would know ;)
 

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c'mon its ok for you all to admit you don't even know what teh clam looks like in teh flesh...its ok... honest...we won't take the piss!
 

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dunno mostly it seems to be psychological hang ups whether they make sense or not. bit like theres a lot of women out there who never tried a kitkat shuffle (4fingers of fun) cos its 'wrong' or 'dirty'....or they just wanna be able to say all men are wankers without a touch of hypocrisy:D
either that or shes just worried he wont like the taste/smell down there or shes had a bad experience where the bloke has gone down on her then expected to be able to come up for a kiss after:puke:
 

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lilmissnaughty said:
either that or shes just worried he wont like the taste/smell down there or shes had a bad experience where the bloke has gone down on her then expected to be able to come up for a kiss after:puke:

It happens in pron all the time, they even share the spoils! :D
 

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lilmissnaughty said:
dunno mostly it seems to be psychological hang ups whether they make sense or not. bit like theres a lot of women out there who never tried a kitkat shuffle (4fingers of fun) cos its 'wrong' or 'dirty'....or they just wanna be able to say all men are wankers without a touch of hypocrisy:D
either that or shes just worried he wont like the taste/smell down there or shes had a bad experience where the bloke has gone down on her then expected to be able to come up for a kiss after:puke:

christ tell that to half the women that have given me a blowjob, yes I like to kiss, no I dont want a swig of my sperm while we do it tyvm it spoils the mood.
 

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heh some folks just dont like tasting there own.
but they do some weird shit in pron tho too.
just look at the way they kiss - like two blind folks tryna find each other using only their tongue....
plus i saw some live porn thing where she was sticking the heel of a stilletto shoe up her chuff. cant say ive ever been tempted to try it tbh:p
 

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lilmissnaughty said:
heh some folks just dont like tasting there own.
but they do some weird shit in pron tho too.
just look at the way they kiss - like two blind folks tryna find each other using only their tongue....
plus i saw some live porn thing where she was sticking the heel of a stilletto shoe up her chuff. cant say ive ever been tempted to try it tbh:p
aha! so thats why women love shoes so much ;)
 

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I think there's a few things to consider...
Self consciousness - whether its because of smell, weight whatever. When you're coming and you know the other person isn't, its much more important for you to trust them, as you're going to be at your most vulnerable.

Female orgasms....these are complicated. Basically its clit vs G-spot. If the feller can hit the g-spot then the girl isn't going to want the guy to go down on her to make her come as g-spot multiple orgasms >>> all.

If not, then clit's the best chance of getting an orgasm ;)
 

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Naetha said:
Female orgasms....these are complicated. Basically its clit vs G-spot. If the feller can hit the g-spot then the girl isn't going to want the guy to go down on her to make her come as g-spot multiple orgasms >>> all.

If not, then clit's the best chance of getting an orgasm ;)

I would always touch all bases it is never a case of either 1 or the other lol, or is that just me? :eek6:

Ive never had gals say to me ok give me a poke and I will tell you if your hitting the spot, if you aint then its onto the clit for you bucko!

but I supose everyones different in the way they do things.
 

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saw on a prog about sexual accedents once and this guy went for a munch with his gf and he wore braces on his teeth, she started screaming and he came up with bits of flesh in his teeth, they had to go to the emergency room.

that put me off my fetish for school boys tbh.


also i think for some gals its the vunerability, weather or not youve shaved reicently and they get really self consious.

i know my bf wont if ive had a pizza with anchovies on it because i taste like them after (lmao) though last time he pissed me off the first thing i did was call pizza hut and get a huge anchovie pizza, when he got home i told him this "say your sorry or ill sit on your face"

he didnt see the problem with this untill i whipped out the pizza reciept :D

insta apology
 

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Ezteq said:
saw on a prog about sexual accedents once and this guy went for a munch with his gf and he wore braces on his teeth, she started screaming and he came up with bits of flesh in his teeth, they had to go to the emergency room.

that put me off my fetish for school boys tbh.


also i think for some gals its the vunerability, weather or not youve shaved reicently and they get really self consious.

i know my bf wont if ive had a pizza with anchovies on it because i taste like them after (lmao) though last time he pissed me off the first thing i did was call pizza hut and get a huge anchovie pizza, when he got home i told him this "say your sorry or ill sit on your face"

he didnt see the problem with this untill i whipped out the pizza reciept :D

insta apology
ahhh..the scent of a woman..:D

anchovies.. lol :D
 

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Obviously every girl's different, and you're not going to work out what she likes the most until you've been together a few times. Good sex is overhyped but incredibly underrated :D
 

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heh same thing happens with blokes n the old special sauce.

cant recall exactly where i read it (some womens mag) but there was this woman who was allergic to onions in that they would give her mouth ulcers n a sore throat n shit so she cut em out her diet but her bf didnt. every now an again she would keep getting a sore throat an she couldnt figure it out till it clicked that it coincided with when she gave her bf a blowjob the day after he had eaten onions:D
thats either a funny true story or the most inventive excuse not to swallow ever:worthy:
 

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