Sharkith
Can't get enough of FH
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- Mar 11, 2005
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Thorwyn[B&Q] said:I agree with you about respecting people from other realms etc. but what difference does it make if someone is a nice guy IRL? I only see the actions of people ingame and their behaivour here on FH, so that´s the deciding factors for my evaluation of people. I don´t care whether they´re nice guys or jerks IRL, because I´ll probably never meet them IRL. At the moment, the term "being nice IRL" has a tendency of being abused as some form of double-standard excuse for dodgy actions, something along: "tehehe, yeah, he´s a prick, but that´s ok because I know him".
Just turn it around... imagine someone´s a Saint ingame, good player, always helpful, always polite on FH. Now someone says "yeah but he´s a jerk IRL". Would that change your views of that person? And if not, then why should a "nice IRL" do?
Precisely! It is an attempt to displace the discussion and close it. Its why Censi was totally right to point out that in fact if people are going to try and justify their actions here that this is a dumb way to do it.
There are a few other statments like it 'he pays his subs' is a similar displacement from in game to out of game. Generally speaking these arguments are very immature and poor justifications for behaviour.