I'm sure the parents of that 13yo boy who died would've loved to look at it from "a parental point of view" when they weren't allowed to so much as say goodbye to him or go to his funeral. What would you have them do, storm the hospital? There are stories from all over about families that have made sacrifices because they were "following the guidance" and then it turns out that one of the architects of the guidance has basically ignored it because he thinks it doesn't apply to him. As has been said, even if it was a justified trip, the optics are dreadful.I also don't give a shit about him or who he is. He can go or stay. I am looking at this from a parental point of view.