dysfunction
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Bit of a waste of a life though. I thought she was a very good singer regardless if you liked her style of singing.
how do you get forced into drug abuse?Good riddance. No time for drug addicts. Different story if you were forced into it, and I very much doubt she was.
how do you get forced into drug abuse?
i dont get it, if she didnt die from an overdose would you be saddend then?
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Lot worse than that mate, look at the eastern European and Asian sex/slave trade. Even babys get snatched and taken over the border quite often, but different story and threadNo I would not care either way as I don't think much of her as a person from all you see of her media antics.
What I meant about forced is like those girls in Taken. Ok it's a film, but if it did happen and people were given drugs with no real choice in the matter, I would feel sorry for them.
You hear about these people who come to England from another country and have to borrow loads of money to get here, then the people who got them here force them into unwanted jobs to pay back the money.
She never hurt me. Never said anything to upset me, never upset my friends or people I care about. I never met her, she didn't cost me any money and brought me only happiness when I listened to her music, of which "Love is a Losing Game" is my favourite.
So quite why some people feel the need to gloat over her untimely death and lecture us all about how "anyone who touches drugs is an idiot mkay" is beyond me. Why must people always be so judgemental?
How do you know that those around her failed? She has to consent to their help and could have denied them.
The blame would firmly lie at the parents as they should have sectioned her (if possible). I am not saying that the parents are at fault, just that I am fed up with people blaming those around her for her death. Ultimately, she is responsible for her life. Not others.
It is alot harder to quit any habit if those around you are working against it, it's the same for every addiction.
That doesn't mean it is their fault. Everyone is saying she was let down by friends and family, that is fucking crap.
My family keep on at me to give up smoking, I chose not to, did they fail me? NO.
Unlike others Tom, she had the network and money to get help. She basically pissed on all of that and kept on going.
If people don't want or make an effort to help themselves then maybe they're better off dead tbh.