Advice.

[Gumbo]

Paste what you have here and we'll help you work it out

 

[S-Gray]

tried different variaties... none show as being in that town.

grr :/

Everytime i dont bring my mobile into work... somethign important happens. fuck fuck :/

 

[Big G]

However, as Billy Connoloy once said, you could miss the chance and end up becoming "just a really good friend".

"I DONT WANT A FRIEND, IVE GOT FRIENDS! I WANT A SLUT!!"

That's womens way of saying, "you're nice, you're funny, i like you, no i won't have sex with you / live with you / bear your children".

If it's meant to be that way though, then so be it.

G

 

[Mr TNT]

just show her this post

 

[L_Plates]

Originally posted by CptDoom
Trainers for teh win arguments are now over.

Your suit, my trainers and ur boyish good looks will win you an endless stream of adoring females

Rock a bye baby on the tree top when the wind blows the cradle will rock and the cradle fall !!


FALL !!!! BREAK !!!

MOMA YOU BEEN BAD !!

 

[Farsight]

Mobius, have you ever wondered that perhaps Sophie likes to spend time with you precisely because you DONT make a move on her?

If she is as gorgeous as you say, she probably has to fend off men all the time who see the package and fancy a shag.

She obviously wants to spend time with you, and she feels relaxed and unthreatened by you. Work on that, really get to know her, and what she wants, and what she likes.

Once you know enough about her, you'll be able to work out the things that turn her on , and then perhaps you can take the friendship on to something more.

Otherwise, just enjoy having a woman around you who enjoys being with you for no other reason than she likes your company. Many men never achieve that, you know

 

[dr_jo]

The most important thing is self confidence. That's what everything else is leading to, really. If you find that you feel self concious about the way you dress, then you should probably alter it a bit. If not, then feel free to wear what ever you like.

Being 16 was one of the worst times of my life. You start to have feelings for people, but not knowing what they mean. It's hell. But when people say "You're only 16, don't worry about that stuff yet", ignore tham. I met my current boyfriend when I was 16, and now we're together. We'd been best friends for 2 years, and I believe that's why we have such a close relationship.

As for improving self confidence, you mentioned something about depression? If so, then look into getting yourself some CBT books. One about overcoming depression, and one about self confidence. CBT has turned my life around. And I honestly believe that self confidence is vital in any relationship, be it friendship or something more.

Believe in yourself.

 

[~Mobius~]

Originally posted by Farsight
Mobius, have you ever wondered that perhaps Sophie likes to spend time with you precisely because you DONT make a move on her?

If she is as gorgeous as you say, she probably has to fend off men all the time who see the package and fancy a shag.

She obviously wants to spend time with you, and she feels relaxed and unthreatened by you. Work on that, really get to know her, and what she wants, and what she likes.

Once you know enough about her, you'll be able to work out the things that turn her on , and then perhaps you can take the friendship on to something more.

Otherwise, just enjoy having a woman around you who enjoys being with you for no other reason than she likes your company. Many men never achieve that, you know

I think you might be right. She doesnt feel anything for me but likes me as a friend. I doubt she knows many people like me and probably finds it refreshing that I'm a boy who isnt hell bent on shagging her.
I dont mind being friends, my time will come.
But damn I love her.

 

[Farsight]

I didnt say she didnt feel anything for you, Mobius.

She likes you as a person, thats a really good start... and believe me, when a girl likes you as a person, anything can happen

 

[Uncle Sick(tm)]

Originally posted by ~Mobius~
P.S - Added pictures of myself for comedy value.

We-ell... you look nothing like your avatar.

Your chances to get the girl just increased by a whopping 100%!

*always happy to give helpful advice*


I suggest a "Dear Abby" sub-forum by the way.

 

[~Mobius~]

Ok. Decided. Just friends! .... for now.

 

[evilmonkeh]

let er do the askin n take it from there. although hints are good, if you try too hard now and it goes wrong then your buggered. so maybe that was a good idea.

 

[Deebs]

Originally posted by ~Mobius~
I see. Damn there is so much to learn with this women thingy. :/
What sort of shoes should I get then? And what goes well with it in a casual but not to casual but not to much like I am going to court way?

Loafers are good but without the pikey buckles on em.

 

[Deebs]

Originally posted by Y0ni

Oh and DBs is correct - no one is ever out of your league. If you do decide to tell her how you feel and she rejects you then tbh its her loss not yours.

Seem to be on a roll here. Being correct twice in one day is a big plus

 

[L_Plates]

Originally posted by dr_jo
The most important thing is self confidence. That's what everything else is leading to, really. If you find that you feel self concious about the way you dress, then you should probably alter it a bit. If not, then feel free to wear what ever you like.

Being 16 was one of the worst times of my life. You start to have feelings for people, but not knowing what they mean. It's hell. But when people say "You're only 16, don't worry about that stuff yet", ignore tham. I met my current boyfriend when I was 16, and now we're together. We'd been best friends for 2 years, and I believe that's why we have such a close relationship.

As for improving self confidence, you mentioned something about depression? If so, then look into getting yourself some CBT books. One about overcoming depression, and one about self confidence. CBT has turned my life around. And I honestly believe that self confidence is vital in any relationship, be it friendship or something more.

Believe in yourself.

Great advice i say.

i love the end qoute. Im off to be nice to my wife

 

[Jupitus]

Originally posted by ~Mobius~
But damn I love her.

Love's a curious beast.... it'll hide away and then just whack you straight in the heart when you least expect it. You have no defense from it, and there is nothing you can do about it. It hurts. It heals. It will take you to the far reaches of your emotional capabilities. Learn to live with that. Learn to die with that.


Learn to love Love.

 

[Summo]

Love is a many-splendored thing. Love lifts us up where we belong. All you need is love...














I just swallowed my own vomit.

 

[MYstIC G]

Originally posted by ~Mobius~
I tried growing it + a beard but it was such high maintanence.

tbh I'm not big on giving advice other than be yourself. The beard thing can work though (*waits for jokes from anyone knowing/having seen pics of me to spring forth*). I'm not saying grow one but maybe you should reconsider thinking of your own face as "high maintanence" as a starting point. The more you put in, the more you get out & all that contrived shite :/

 

[leggy]

You're a good looking boy so I wouldn't worry about that too much. Same goes for clothing. Buy a couple more t-shirts by all means but dress sense and individuality come with time and experience. You won't know what you look good/bad in until you make some serious fuckups first.

I cringe at pictures of myself at 16. Fuck, I still do now half the time and I spend a fortune on clothes now that I can fit into them :/

On the gaming front, it's what 16 year old boys do mostly. Other than masturbate. Like yoni said if she's worth her salt she won't hold this against you. I know this goes against my other post but I was being a twat basically.

I amn't the best person to give advice by any means but I have seen a few girls the last couple of months and never have a problem talking to them. Maybe that's because I have a big mouth, you never know. If you need a chat then pm me.

 

[Krazeh]

Originally posted by ~Mobius~
She doesnt feel anything for me but likes me as a friend.

Just out of curiousity how do you know that? Has she actually said something to that effect or is it just something you've decided is true?

 

[Jonaldo]

It's what every person with little self-confidence thinks about women.

 

[Uncle Sick(tm)]

Oh teh love in hear!11

 

[L_Plates]

Group HUG !!!!!

 

[old.D0LLySh33p]

I say hit her with a club and drag her home.

 

[~Mobius~]

Dont say that please.

 

[L_Plates]

She maybe into that sort of thing

 

[~Mobius~]

This girl who started at work yesterday kept ignoring me and speaking to other people all the time, then I asked her why and she said she was trying to make me jealous....she said I have a gorgeous arse and I'm beautiful and kept saying I just want to grab hold of you and kiss you now. WHAT SHALL I DO?!

She's nice but I've only known her 1 day and she already asked me for a "quickie"

 

[Krazeh]

Go for it, she's obviously a slag with questionable morals, just get what you need and fuck her off

 

[Summo]

Originally posted by ~Mobius~
kept saying I just want to grab hold of you and kiss you now. WHAT SHALL I DO?!

Do you realise what you're saying?

 

[MYstIC G]

Originally posted by ~Mobius~
She's nice but I've only known her 1 day and she already asked me for a "quickie"

Do what Krazeh said or come out of the closet tbh.