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I thought it was going to be a jimmy saville joke
 
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Its a time for reflection....
Looking in the mirror

Just made that up...emails tim vine
 
Bahumat

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So what you're saying is she wants to slow things down, but you can't give her a moments peace? :p
Calm down and don't over analyse everything or you will create ficticious scenarios about what she may have meant in an email or text. Also having a sulk when she wants to slow things down show's you're really into her, but it also shows you're maybe a bit needy.

You know when women say the evil "lets have some time apart" and the guy stupidly contacts her every 5 seconds? It sounds like you really like her, but you're being a bit 'full on'.

I am not saying play hard to get, but why not wait for her to text you first tomorrow? And don't instantly reply as it gives the impression you're busy doing something else.

Maybe she is worried that you're so great, it can't be true as all the others were bastards so she does not want to get hurt again so soon after.
 
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Maybe you should find another boyfriend Cho :D

Tihihihihi!!

I said boy friend!

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Bahumat said:
So what you're saying is she wants to slow things down, but you can't give her a moments peace? :p
Calm down and don't over analyse everything or you will create ficticious scenarios about what she may have meant in an email or text. Also having a sulk when she wants to slow things down show's you're really into her, but it also shows you're maybe a bit needy.

You know when women say the evil "lets have some time apart" and the guy stupidly contacts her every 5 seconds? It sounds like you really like her, but you're being a bit 'full on'.

I am not saying play hard to get, but why not wait for her to text you first tomorrow? And don't instantly reply as it gives the impression you're busy doing something else.

Maybe she is worried that you're so great, it can't be true as all the others were bastards so she does not want to get hurt again so soon after.
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You are right mate, I am definately over-thinking it, probably overdoing it as well. Never normally like this, been out with alot of women over the years I am normally too laid back if anything, not sure why this time is different. Think I must be menopausal. :p
 
old.Tohtori

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cHodAX i'm saying this as a ...err...friend? Stop being such a girl about it :D

(Rest is mumbojumbo, point was made there)

She's busy, you got gaming(etc alone wanky) time, she's asking you to be in a place where you don't panic about it being over so act like a daft silly man and think everything is fine. Don't assume and don't commit.

There's no "i must be a monk and wait for this woman" formula, just live your life as you would and keep contact as much as -you- want to and there will be a BJ in your future.

If not by her then Wij will provide.
 
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You'd think people would know not to resist arrest, even if the cop did throw the first punch.

Can't really say what was going on in the clusterf*ck, or what the other elements were.
 
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cHodAX said:
Well, 3 weeks on and it's all gone a bit pear shaped. She is definately not over her last relationship which ended just a month before we got together. Not long after I made that post we had a really odd chat, basically the night before we were cuddled up on the sofa kissing and talking until after 3am, lots of really nice stuff was said and it was looking like we we were going to try and make a go of it. Later that morning I got some lovely texts from her, hell even in the afternoon everything seemed perfect. That evening I get a text message mentioning a moonlight walk, as you can imagine I jumped at the chance as I am really taken with this woman.

When I arrived at her house the atmosphere seemed a little bit cool, wasn't sure what the problem was but I didn't mention it and carried on as before, eventually we went for a walk. A long walk. At the start it was really nice, hand in hand, arm in arm, just chatting and laughing. After about an hour we stopped for a rest, I went in for a kiss and she seemed a bit reluctant. She just didn't seem comfortable, later I tried again and pretty much the same. Now I was confused, thinking I had done or said something wrong, so we stopped and talked about it but basically the gist was that she needed to slow things down as she wasn't ready to get so involved so quickly. The night before she told me that she thought we could be great together, now she is telling me that we need to rewind a bit, actually to the point where we met. Utterly confused I must admit I sulked a bit, wasn't very happy even when we chatted about it back at her place and left pretty much expecting a 'dear john' letter in the near future.

So, we spoke the next day on the phone, again I didn't take it too well but when she reassured me that this wasn't the prelude to being brushed off 2 weeks down the line I kind of got to grips with it all and just decided to back off a bit, give her time and space. So, since then we have met a couple of times for really simple stuff and just to spend some time together, she has again assured me that I haven't done anything wrong, quite the opposite infact but that she just isn't ready to jump into another relationship just yet and that was going to end up happening if we carried on at the pace of before. The time we spent together since has been okay, fun at times as we really get on, that is a big part of the attraction, she really is a lovely woman but she has had a number of bad relationships and the last one has left her in her own words 'bruised'.

Anyway, it might just be me but I am starting to get a bad feeling about it all. For various reasons she has had to cancel or move arrangements we have made to meet, the text messaging has all but dried up whereas 2-3 weeks ago it was intense but in a very nice way. Suddenly I am just left hanging in limbo, nothing arranged and the things I have tried to arrange she has been non-committal over, just 'yeah that would be nice, let me see if I can make some time' and then nothing. Now to be fair to her she does have alot on her plate, promoted at work and currently having to solo manage a project with an entire team needing to be hired, she is also getting ready to move after selling her house and buying another and of course you have the raw emotions of the previous relationship niggling away at her. She is not in a great place at the moment, me coming along has only made things more confused but the truth is that I don't want to just leave it, she is an amazing woman and I don't say that lightly. Every fibre of my being is telling me to hang on in there, I know she is worth it but constantly being in limbo is now starting to mess with my own emotions and confidence.

It seems daft to pour all this out here but to be honest I think it does me good just to write it down and get things clear in my head, I could easily fall for this woman if she let me but I am starting to get the feeling that is not what she wants, she knows she isn't anywhere close to being ready and is trying to protect me. Least I hope that is it, nothing else really makes sense.
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TdC said:
shag her mates, film yourself doing it, and post on here (get a shot of your hairy bum crack for Toh to lust over).

everybody wins man. eeeeeverybody.
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sorry :D
 
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old.Tohtori said:
You'd think people would know not to resist arrest, even if the cop did throw the first punch.

Can't really say what was going on in the clusterf*ck, or what the other elements were.
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I can't believe you've said that after watching that video. It's obvious and prolonged brutality. I started counting the number of punches and baton hits that the guy took and lost count.
 
old.Tohtori

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Can't see if he's hitting the cops, surely seen he pushes one away at one point, resisting arrest is a stupid idea, cops shouldn't throw punches. Problem?

Or is this one of those weird Scouse cases where if i don't completely agree and JUST judge the cops, i'm somehow defending police brutality? :p
 
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Yes Toht,, resisting arrest is a bad idea but there's no way he deserved a beating like that.
 
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