The .ex GF..

[Sar]

Tell her if she wants to keep the apartment to ring the company you're renting them from and rent it herself, otherwise she has exactly 1 month to move out before THEY send the bailiffs round to empty it for her.

 

[TdC]

what Sar said seems the decentest way imo

ofc, tell her this after you've already arranged it.

 

[pez]

Assuming its not your apartment then just terminate the contract - whats the issue?

Worst case scenario she fuckes the place up and you lose your deposit but ultimately its the owners who have a unlawful tenant issue, not you.

You hold ALL the cards here, unless like Scouse says you're still carrying a flame for this girl.

Basically though you've just gone on the internet and said, 'hey guys, could you all tell me to man up and do the thing I know I need to do?'

 

[fettoken]

There.

 

[fettoken]

Basically though you've just gone on the internet and said, 'hey guys, could you all tell me to man up and do the thing I know I need to do?'

I need to do this.. i know.

I appreciate that i get to hear what i need to hear, and not what i want to hear.

 

[Scouse]

I need to do this.. i know.

Got a lot of sympathy for you m8. Honestly.

But get it done. Today.

 

[Zenith.UK]

Sorry to be harsh - but get fucking shut m8. Don't ring her to say "that's what I'm going to do". Text her when you've already done it.

THIS.
Don't call/text to say that you're *going* to do it. Call/text to tell her you'd *DONE* it.

Only other option is to tell her to GTFO and physically throw her stuff out. She's not paying rent so she hasn't got a leg to stand on.

 

[old.Osy]

The man is clearly nostalgic, i empathize. In the end, if this turns out ugly and they fight over it, he will take it at heart and look back as if he'd made a mistake.

My advice is to wait for as long as it feels comfortable and only do something drastic if the circumstances force you.


Also, nice boat.

 

[Raven]

You grown a pair yet?

edit. she isn't anything special to look at and she treats you like a dick.

Not sure where the attraction is...

Bin her and whatever shit she has left in the apartment. Leave it out for the binmen

 

[Soazak]

You grown a pair yet?

edit. she isn't anything special to look at and she treats you like a dick.

Not sure where the attraction is...

Bin her and whatever shit she has left in the apartment. Leave it out for the binmen

This ^^

There's one thing being friends with an ex, but I think she's taking the piss a little bit.

 

[Uncle Sick]

Saddest thread of 2012 so far. I like it.

 

[Punishment]

All this over a rather homely looking ginger ?

 

[Reno]

So you didn't pretend to like shoes?

 

[fettoken]

All this over a rather homely looking ginger ?

It seems so.

Saddest thread of 2012 so far. I like it.

https://forums.freddyshouse.com/threads/ferris-bueller-2.247703/

Personally, i would pick this thread.

 

[MYstIC G]

change the locks, man the fuck up.

This.

PS: You're not being nice, you're being mugged off and probably still have feelings for her. Toss her in the bin because she is treating you like garbage.

 

[old.user4556]

.. and she's minging.

 

[Olgaline]

Fucking hell, you lot are ruthless!
The guy clearly still has a thing for her and you lot are ripping on her like she's garbage... :/

 

[Ch3tan]

She's using emotional blackmail for financial gain at his expense. She is garbage.

 

[Olgaline]

I'm not arguing that, but hell, show some curtesy for his feelings man

 

[MYstIC G]

I'm not arguing that, but hell, show some curtesy for his feelings man

Truth hurts. I'd rather tell him the truth and try to help him in a meaningful way than go "there there it will all be better soon, wanna sweetie?"

 

[megadave]

post her number and details on here, i've got a few hours spare

 

[pez]

I think you're all being very childish about the photo. The problem with posting a girl's photo on the internet is that theres millions of photos of ridiculous hotties already on the internet. She's as beautiful as he thinks she is in real life. Get some perspective.

That doesn't change the fact you need to man up.

 

[Punishment]

What we supposed to say ? "Atleast she has a nice personality" ?

She is taking our boy here for a mug and it's either a case of they have history and she has something on him or he still likes her/doesn't think he can do better while she uses him as a doormat when it suits her for digs.

Get Rid.

 

[old.user4556]

Wait, what? In light of the shit she's causing, people are defending her?

Lulwat?

 

[Wij]

You have the keys?

Shit on her stuff when she's out.

 

[Wazzerphuk]

Inside her pillowcase is the best.

 

[georgie]

Or her mouth when she's asleep!

 

[russell]

Love to meet all of you guys -who are such magnificent sexy beasts to cast such criticism over a girl in the wind, with the sun in her eyes (NEVER post a pic of someone you love/ loved as people will be cuttingly mean on here -reality seems to get blurred with all the internet pron)
But anyhow - MAN UP. SHE IS USING YOU.

 

[old.Tohtori]

I couldn't give two flying testicles about how she looks, but what he's doing to a guy i know, albeit only from forums, makes her one of the ugliest b*tches i know.

 

[Scouse]

Don't give a fuck how she looks. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder m8.

However:

she's garbage...

She is.

100% cunt. And not in a nice way. GET SHUT.

Gonna hurt, but the longer you let it go on the more you're likely to get fucked over by women in the future - you're training yourself to be a doormat - and there's no shortage of bitches to skank you until the day you die.

Get some self respect. Get shut. Laugh in her face then go home and cry in private. You'll feel better soon.