My best friend is a boy, discuss...

[russell]

My best friend is male.
My 9 year old came home from school today to tell me that in the playground during lunchtime her friends could not believe that her mummy had a male bestfriend. Hollie says its wierd, Kezia says its cool.
It was their sole topic of conversation, aged 9, whether boys and girls should be best friends... made me think why, even at 9, is there a clear divide between some children who think it is cool and normal, and some who see it as a taboo?

 

[Punishment]

1 of my 3 best friends is a girl, she is a real looker too but i just dont see her that way, its completely normal tbh

 

[Gwadien]

Eww, your best friend is a boy? that's odd.

 

[xomer]

2 of 5 are girls.

 

[georgie]

I don't have any friends.

 

[Scouse]

I couldn't have a best friend as a girl because if I did I'd wanna fuck her.

Like your male best friend wants to fuck you

 

[old.user4556]

"male best friend!" - n!gger please...

This needs some Chris Rock explanation - watch and PAY ATTENTION:

YouTube - Chris Rock - Women's Platonic Friends

 

[Deebs]

My best friend is male.
My 9 year old came home from school today to tell me that in the playground during lunchtime her friends could not believe that her mummy had a male bestfriend. Hollie says its wierd, Kezia says its cool.
It was their sole topic of conversation, aged 9, whether boys and girls should be best friends... made me think why, even at 9, is there a clear divide between some children who think it is cool and normal, and some who see it as a taboo?

Would I be on the right track if I was thinking of a certain someone? If so, so what, I have some great best girl friends in life.

 

[russell]

Would I be on the right track if I was thinking of a certain someone? If so, so what, I have some great best girl friends in life.

Exactly.
[One of them currently needs alot of TLC after her recent trip to Hospital]

 

[Deebs]

Exactly.
[One of them currently needs alot of TLC after her recent trip to Hospital]

Hmm, the person I was thinking of is not a she....

 

[russell]

I couldn't have a best friend as a girl because if I did I'd wanna fuck her.

Like your male best friend wants to fuck you

Why?

 

[Gwadien]

Why?

nothing wrong with a bit of casual.

 

[Deebs]

bunch of retards. You can have best friends of the opposite sex. Life does not always revolve around sex.

 

[russell]

"male best friend!" - n!gger please...

This needs some Chris Rock explanation - watch and PAY ATTENTION:

YouTube - Chris Rock - Women's Platonic Friends

I hate Chris Rock. He is a dick.
But thanks for the contribution BG.

 

[Deebs]

I hate Chris Rock. He is a dick.
But thanks for the contribution BG.

Oi! MSN!

 

[Gwadien]

Life does not always revolve around sex.

That's the most incorrect statement ev0r, in order to have life, sex must be in play at some point, well... 9 months before life.

 

[russell]

bunch of retards. You can have best friends of the opposite sex. Life does not always revolve around sex.

Blimey Deebs, you have gained wisdom in your old age... and I was refering to your one of YOUT female friends before, who has recently been poorly.

 

[Nate]

Is it the new barbeque? He is a beast!

 

[ford prefect]

I've always had female friends. I have never really thought about it to be honest. Maybe I am missing something here, but the way I see from a friends gender has little to do with anything.

 

[old.Tohtori]

Most of my friends are female, especially good ones, men are usually drinking buds.

No idea why it's a problem for some.

 

[Deebs]

That's the most incorrect statement ev0r, in order to have life, sex must be in play at some point, well... 9 months before life.

Yes but some of us have done that. Both myself and Russel have children.

Blimey Deebs, you have gained wisdom in your old age... and I was refering to your one of YOUT female friends before, who has recently been poorly.

Hmm, are you talking about someone whose name starts with a P? I am intrigued.

 

[Ingafgrinn Macabre]

I hate Chris Rock. He is a dick.
But thanks for the contribution BG.

wah-whaaaaat?

He's the best!:worthy:

 

[Deebs]

wah-whaaaaat?

He's the best!:worthy:

Chris Rock is a ****. Simple and easy. All the fucker does is shout as loud as Concorde unless I am thinking of the wrong person.

 

[russell]

I've always had female friends. I have never really thought about it to be honest. Maybe I am missing something here, but the way I see from a friends gender has little to do with anything.

Spot on. :worthy:

 

[old.user4556]

bunch of retards. You can have best friends of the opposite sex. Life does not always revolve around sex.

Let me put it a different way; men can be friends with women as long as there is no sexual attraction. If a man is easily friends with a woman, he's not attracted to her.

 

[Lamp]

Thought Chris Rock was excellent as Rufus in Dogma

 

[Deebs]

Let me put it a different way; men can be friends with women as long as there is no sexual attraction. If a man is easily friends with a woman, he's not attracted to her.

The point I am trying to make is "if you have a best friend of the opposite sex you must want to shag them" is simply wrong. Why does friendship have to revolve around sex? It is just wrong. Plain and simple.

 

[russell]

Thought Chris Rock was excellent as Rufus in Dogma

Good.
Now do you have any friends who are female Lamp? -apart from Mrs Lamp.

 

[Lamp]

Good.
Now do you have any friends who are female Lamp? -apart from Mrs Lamp.

Yes, most definintely, but I wouldn't say they were my "best" friends.

 

[Gwadien]

Actually, on a serious note, come to think of it, I don't have many male friends, not sure why, a vast majority of them are female, guess it's because I'm not one of those who goes around robbing things, and acting like a bad man