Rant Munters

[Belgerath]

Naturally flirtatious though is yummeh.. those who flirt without knowing and who have childlike qualities in that they are playful and slightly temperamental also yummeh.

Bloody hell you know me irl?

 

[Nate]

You go to a pub/bar for the conversation/flirt most clubs are too noisy for anything other then the approach from the back stuff. You could be shouting and waving your arms frantically at some women right in front of you and she'd take no notice, because she'd think your doing some fucking nuts dance moves and singing along to whatever it is thats making you deaf at a young age.

 

[old.user4556]

Ok lets turn things around a bit; where do women expect to meet men?

 

[russell]

I have met my boyfriends in pub, pub, on holiday waiting for a bus, pub, club, friends house, friends house, BBQ, work and at a party.

 

[Yoni]

The last partner I met in a pub was my ex husband... nuff said

 

[Scouse]

Needy guys are a big no no.

Never met a girl who wasn't needy that didn't turn out to be a massive uncaring bitch instead

 

[tris-]

maybe its just me but most women i know are insecure (?) and usually needy too.

i dont think ive met a woman who doesnt moan about her self.

 

[russell]

True - but then I havent met a man who doesn't moan about himself.

I think we all do a little... I prefer that to arrogant and too cock sure, but only a little -its all about balance.

I dont like it when people go on and on and on about something, cos then I think -shut up and change it then!!!!

 

[old.Tohtori]

True - but then I havent met a man who doesn't moan about himself.

I don't! But then again, i got more to moan about then the usual fella :lol:

 

[lecter]

I went up to this girl in a bar and said to her, "Would you like to dance?"

She replied, "I don't like this song, but even if I did, I wouldn't dance with you."

So I said, "I'm sorry, you must have misunderstood me, I said, you look fat in those pants."


Must remember this for next time.....

 

[Yoni]

Ok lets turn things around a bit; where do women expect to meet men?

Personally I have never gone out of my way to meet a man. I don't go to a certain kind of environment stuff like this should kinda just happen during the course of every day life.

 

[Scouse]

stuff like this should kinda just happen during the course of every day life.

Yeah right. If you're a girl...

 

[Yoni]

Well if it happens for a girl surely it happens for a bloke?

Are you telling me that ALL men go out of their way to find their perfect partners.. In my experience I do not find this to be true.

 

[old.Tohtori]

Generally speaking, men go out to get laid/hook up. So do women.

Reality speaking, not all. But then again, same with women.

Just like girls stare at mens crotches, grab asses, harass, dance behind men to attract attention, go out to get laid etc etc.

There's no difference, except that women make a deal out of it :lol:

To be fairly blunt, the female cop-outs that worked ten years ago, don't work anymore as women have become just like men.

 

[russell]

Generally speaking, men go out to get laid/hook up. So do women.

Reality speaking, not all. But then again, same with women.

Just like girls stare at mens crotches, grab asses, harass, dance behind men to attract attention, go out to get laid etc etc.

There's no difference, except that women make a deal out of it :lol:

To be fairly blunt, the female cop-outs that worked ten years ago, don't work anymore as women have become just like men.

We live in different worlds.
Maybe its cos all my friends are 33+ and mostly married?
We do not go out to get laid -male or female. We go out to have fun.

But if you are talking about women going out and being predatory, like men, then yes I've seen that, but only the few, and alot of media hype about that ie 'Sex and the City'.

 

[old.Tohtori]

We live in different worlds.
Maybe its cos all my friends are 33+ and mostly married?
We do not go out to get laid -male or female. We go out to have fun.

But if you are talking about women going out and being predatory, like men, then yes I've seen that, but only the few, and alot of media hype about that ie 'Sex and the City'.

Please don't assume you go out by different logic or reasons, simply 'cause i speak of general terms.I've never gone out to "get some", i go out for beers and laughs.

Ofcourse it depends on people, marriage status, single/relationship, person itself etc. Age comes to play only when a person is "tired of it", so to speak.

The thing is that women are as if not equally and even if not more so predatorial then men, but hide it better.

Men are active hunters, women are passive.

Also, as a woman, you don't notice the women predators as much as the male predators, as you're a "target".

Next time you're out, look around with the point to spot "predators"

To put it in simple terms:

Men:

Women:

 

[Scouse]

Well if it happens for a girl surely it happens for a bloke?

Are you telling me that ALL men go out of their way to find their perfect partners.. In my experience I do not find this to be true.

What I'm saying is that most times you've "just happened" across a bloke in normal everyday life you probably actually haven't. He's most likely consciously made a play and come on to you.

Men do it in ways that make you think that we haven't because it gives us an easy out if it becomes apparent that you're not interested. But it's still technically making a gambit.

The idea of two people just meeting and "realising" they've hit it off, sizing each other up and then going for it is fantasy. Within the first second of him seeing you he's already sized you up and imagined you naked. It's in our nature and we can't help it

Oh. And yes. We've sized up every single one of your friends. And every woman we pass on the street. Maybe even found some attractive. It doesn't mean that we'd have a go though.

 

[Scouse]

We live in different worlds.
Maybe its cos all my friends are 33+ and mostly married?
We do not go out to get laid -male or female. We go out to have fun.

Men who are married generally don't go out to get laid. (Can't speak for women tho)

How many married men go clubbing tho eh? They don't bother because, unless you're out for some, most men don't enjoy it.

 

[old.Tohtori]

Oh. And yes. We've sized up every single one of your friends. And every woman we pass on the street. Maybe even found some attractive. It doesn't mean that we'd have a go though.

Like brian setzer said; If you see me with another woman, don't mind me i'm just window shopping

 

[old.Tohtori]

Oh and if a married person goes out solo into a club, not a pub, they are most likely trying to get some :lol:

 

[russell]

Within the first second of him seeing you he's already sized you up and imagined you naked. It's in our nature and we can't help it

Oh. And yes. We've sized up every single one of your friends. And every woman we pass on the street. Maybe even found some attractive. It doesn't mean that we'd have a go though.

So what about if you are just friends with the opposite sex (yes I know this is a whole other previous thread) just curious on your opinion Scouse.
Does this 'checking out' happen all the time, everyday to men? Is it just part of daily life iyo?

 

[old.Tohtori]

If there hasn't been intercourse between said friends, there's always a miniscule thing in the back of the brain that's pushing the idea forwards.

Only exception to this rule of "imagine naked" comes from family and..well..ugly people.

Ofcourse after this imagining naked is done, it's over with, especially with friends. But at some point, he's thought about it, and more then often, so ahs she.

 

[russell]

If there hasn't been intercourse between said friends, there's always a miniscule thing in the back of the brain that's pushing the idea forwards.

Only exception to this rule of "imagine naked" comes from family and..well..ugly people.

Ofcourse after this imagining naked is done, it's over with, especially with friends. But at some point, he's thought about it, and more then often, so ahs she.

Yeh I get that on a biological, innate human male thing. Men are renouned for being visually turned on, hence porn, big boobies, strippers, lap dancing etc.

Women usually go to a strip show to laugh rather than get turned on (Yuk -cant understand the point myself).

I myself, do not check out mens trousers, or touch them up in a sexual way. If it happens its all for a laugh and I have not imagined my male friends naked in a sexual way. On the rare occasion I ever have, its in a curiosity way -such as 'I wonder if he is all hairy, has a concave chest etc?' Not a FWORRRR way.

 

[old.Tohtori]

On the rare occasion I ever have, its in a curiosity way -such as 'I wonder if he is all hairy, has a concave chest etc?' Not a FWORRRR way.

And there ya go.

We all do it, different reasons, different interests, but we all do it

And touching men for a laugh, men do it for a laugh too, just a different laugh with a hint of "eh?" in it.

And ofcourse the individual rule comes to play as always.

 

[russell]

Ok Ok I agree with you!!!

 

[old.Tohtori]

Ok Ok I agree with you!!!

Knowing women, that must've been the most difficult choice of your life

Kidding. I do get your point aswell, not all are horny nympho women, but have to say, not all men are either.

 

[Scouse]

not all are horny nympho women, but have to say, not all men are either.

True. I even met one once!

Fucking weirdo

 

[Yoni]

All relationships between men and women are based on some form of attraction absolutely all of them.

 

[Belgerath]

All relationships between men and women are based on some form of attraction absolutely all of them.

Really?

Im just with my wife to ensure because she makes me misrable, that i make her just as misrable

(jk btw)

 

[Nate]

Saves money staying together after a while too