Gorbachioo
Fledgling Freddie
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Congax said:You are fortunately mistaken, Gorbmate! :>
So your parents wont mind if i sleep in your bed at new years eve?
/who muffeli in i50 sleezm8 !
Congax said:You are fortunately mistaken, Gorbmate! :>
/what realm?!Gorbachioo said:So your parents wont mind if i sleep in your bed at new years eve?
/who muffeli in i50 sleezm8 !
givf/guild grp for my menta tbhCongax said:/what realm?!
/who nynaeve (and variants) on Hibernia!
And olol, I don't have a bed atm. So goodluck sleeping in it
Congax said:/what realm?!
/who nynaeve (and variants) on Hibernia!
And olol, I don't have a bed atm. So goodluck sleeping in it
Congax said:I am whatever you want me to be, dirty Nate
redoing rooms in the house etc, basically threw away all furniture and I'm stuck sleeping on the couchGorbachioo said:all realms!
and wtf? no bed? you batman or something? COWMAN!??!
explain.
Please do explain further.Ingafgrinn Macabre said:Spoken like a true 16 year old....
psyco said:the elders are right bugz, you should act like an adult, most parents wouldn't except that kinda of thing to start off with... though essentially you've fucked yourself(not literally)... now you've made a scene theres no way in hell they will agree to your terms
i assume you kept your gf secret until now(ish), also i assume you have only been going 'out' with her for no longer than a month, i also assume you act very childish around your parents(no offence)
if she came over to your house regally and you parents at least got to know her a little im sure they would have no problem, though the 'part-ay' puts a spanner in the works... they probably want you to goto the party with them, parents are stubborn like that(or at least mine are, until i broke them in now i can do whatever the fuck i want)
also, they probably dont trust you to behave, tell me have they ever left you home alone when they went on holiday? or for a day&night+ period? probably not
though this is all theory
Bugz said:That's the thing.
It's been nearly 10 months, they've met numerous times and to be honest, me and the parents don't have much of a relationship, so offence is possible to be taken
I'm more of a 'on my own' person. As soon as i'm able to become independant, I will take it and not look back at all. Maybe this is part of the problem...
The home alone thing isn't a problem. I've babysitted my sister till the early hours of the mroning and I've stayed at home for a night or two when they drift off somewhere.
It seems to me that the problem I have is they simply do not understand that i'm in a serious relationship. Because they are so stubbornly hard to talk to, I'll have to just wait & hope.
The good news is however, I will be sleeping round the gf's house on the saturday night (her dad is such a ledgend). It isn't the same as seeing the new year in together...but we'll manage.
Thanks for the advice all I appreciate it.
Tilda said:Do they acknoledge her as your gf? Have you had a propper "meet the parents" meal type thing?
Tilda said:Its ok Gamah, my parents said you were really nice.
what where he knocks over her grandmas ashes and lets the cat crap in them?Tilda said:Do they acknoledge her as your gf? Have you had a propper "meet the parents" meal type thing?
Bugz said:It seems to me that the problem I have is they simply do not understand that i'm in a serious relationship.
tris- said:they probably wont believe it because you go about locking your self in a room with loads of chocolate and your own fridge. im guessing youve done this some other time along the line.
btw at 16 you can have your own independance if you want it as much as you make out. you simply leave your parents, register it with some government agency and live on your own with all the money that paper round rakes in for you.
we gave you vlad and look what happened !Tilda said:When bugz grows up, ima gonna train him up good!
Get your own flat.. presume your 16? IMO your parents seem very over protecting .. "are you an only child?" or the youngest?Bugz said:Right...
I want my gf to stay over for New Years Eve. I have a double bed, a huge room, my own fridge etc. so there'd be no issues and my family are fucking off to a part-ay anyway. So seems a fair trade off to me.
Only it was a direct 'no, she can't.'
We can't see around her house because I have a paper round in the morning (which I'd do if we stayed at my house - yes, yes, sucks2beme).
To try to put a protest in, I've gone commando and have basically shut myself in my room with a lot of choclate and stopped any communication with them what-so-ever.
I have tried telling them that all we want to do is spend the night together but my mum seems to think we'll be 'at it all night.' It's really starting to annoy me as I ask for fuck all during the year (never once did I get money during the year minus x-mas/bda) and often I get the old 'you need more responsibility' speech. Surely this is responsibility? I also got the 'you need to give us some respect' speech which is a bit contradictive considering they don't respect me enough to let me have one thing during the whole of 2006...
Sorry for the mini-rant but yeah, i'm annoyed big time.
Main question is ofcourse - what other ways can I go about getting my message across? Note: Reasoning doesn't work very well...
[HB]Jpeg said:Get your own flat.. presume your 16? IMO your parents seem very over protecting .. "are you an only child?" or the youngest?
Maybe if u tell em your moving out to a flat.. because u wanna have your own space without sum1 treating you "like a 5 yr old" then MAYBE that might shock them into realising u are growing up.. and that they need to give u a bit more freedom and responsibility.. if it backfires and they still dont let her stay.. fuck it. move out anyways. then u can have her at your place anytime.
Qftpsyco said:once you own property, you are no longer a child and you loose your childhood... and from that day on your have to work till you retire...
elbeek said:Your first serious relationship? My guess is they will drop next but who really knows!
On a more serious note, do you really think that behaving like a 12 yr old girl will really convince them that you are mature enough to even look at a vagina let alone interact with it. You appear to be as petulant in rl as you are on these boards so my tip to you is..."GROW THE FUCK UP".