Advice Explanation for a friend

Kahland

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I made out and sleept at a friend this weekend, it happened at a party and i was very drunk. When i woke up in her arms i really just needed to get out of there. So i kissed her goodbye and told her i had to go do some stuff.

Now, 2 days later, i really need to explain to her that im not seeking for a relationship at this point, as i do not want another person to commit to. She's a really good friend of mine. How the hell do i explain myself?!

We did not have sex; we just made out and cuddled in bed.
 

Lamp

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Just tell her straight & simple. The other night was good, I'd like to remain friends, but I'm not looking for a relationship. If you start faffing about its going to get messy.
 

Kahland

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Should i tell it to her in person or just text?
 

old.user4556

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Write it in a note and get your mate's mate to give it to her across the classroom.

Best way.
 

CorNokZ

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tell her in person and just be straight forward about it
 

Tuthmes

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Just have sex and marry her already. If she can stand you beeing drunk you've got a winner.
 

Lamp

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Good lord, not by text! Meet her in person @ an alcohol-free venue. If you both start quaffing the giggle-juice, its game over.
 

Aoami

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tell her you cant see her again because you have too many raids to go on? im sure she'll understand.
 

Billargh

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Can't believe it was the 10th reply before someone said something along those lines, you lot are slacking.
 

Kahland

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Meeting her at a coffeeshop in some minutes! see you
 

old.user4556

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And you did that why when you weren't looking for a relationship?

Good luck trying to explain that.

It's a good man tactic, it leaves the door open for a potential booty call.

Not interested in relationship <> not interested in sex.
 

Wazzerphuk

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Invite her round to watch you raid, that'll kill it right off.

Although actually, since you hate people so much you might as well get her to skype in to watch it, that way you don't have to dare see her face and actually deal with some real human interaction. You know, like you fucked off your family.
 

old.user4556

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I reckon life would have been much easier had I been born gay. I envy those that are blessed with the gay.
 

Zenith.UK

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I reckon life would have been much easier had I been born gay. I envy those that are blessed with the gay.
You think so?
My sister's not just gay, she's GAY! She's also more of a manhom than most men I know. If it wasn't for her obvious femininity, I'd say she acts exactly like a man.
 

Fafnir

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You think so?
My sister's not just gay, she's GAY! She's also more of a manhom than most men I know. If it wasn't for her obvious femininity, I'd say she acts exactly like a man.
Yeah but shes still a woman, and they are all just fucked up... :flame:
 

old.Tohtori

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It's nice that you think it was your decision to have sex* with her, she ofcourse has no power over a magnificent raid legend such as you ;)

*or make out, or hug, oh gosh how terrible.
 

Ch3tan

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It's nice that you think it was your decision to have sex with her, she ofcourse has no power over a magnificent raid legend such as you ;)


He could have slept with her, but there was a new WoW expansion due out, so he didn't have time.
 

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