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old.TUG
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lol, u ride them like a horse eh m8 
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Funny you should say that but.....
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My ha'pennys worth
I think many of us have old shooltime crushes we regret. I remember......
(skip to ***** if u r easily bored ******).......
When I was at school there was a half french girl who was dark haired, brown eved -not that special looking & a bit geeky, all the boys ignored her. One time I was jokily (I thought! ) told she was looking at me in a cretain way even... everyone laughed...
3 years later on I met her in a club at a college do.. she was reeel pleased to see me... I made no move, surprised as I was..... later thought she looked great! DOHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH! Told my mates, they said shame you didn t get a number, shes a fox....
..... Saw her in town a couple of times during the next few years (when shopping, & not in 'shark' mode <women run screaming from that 'D for desperate', cutting through the water like a predator> )..... More years...
Met her in Student Union cafe.. She waved and <after a time lag> I said to my mates 'I know her from school',.. they looked impressed.. she came over to say 'hi', she looked great, pleased to see me again, got chatting (first ever conversation), she turned out to be VERY INTELLIGENT (a turn on for me), she was visiting home before going off on some Fantastic Job. Chatted more, reminisced.... Talked about my sad student life, her Great New Job In FRANCE!,.. music, (/me thinking 'yeah could maybe move to France' to myself), her boyfriend/fiance (can't remember which now, went a bit hazy at this point)..... and then Bye (apparently forever)...
I remember another girl when I was at school......
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***** if u r easily bored *****
The moral is :
wafffle waffle.. there I go again....
There.... I have said my piece & will rest.
btw I missed: Intelligence & Personality can be far more important (yes believe it, a hairy arsed bloke saying & thinking that!)
Hmm well (/me attempts to speak from <relative> age & <supposed> wisdom)............
I think many of us have old shooltime crushes we regret. I remember......
(skip to ***** if u r easily bored ******).......
When I was at school there was a half french girl who was dark haired, brown eved -not that special looking & a bit geeky, all the boys ignored her. One time I was jokily (I thought!
) told she was looking at me in a cretain way even... everyone laughed... 3 years later on I met her in a club at a college do.. she was reeel pleased to see me... I made no move, surprised as I was..... later thought she looked great! DOHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH! Told my mates, they said shame you didn t get a number, shes a fox....
..... Saw her in town a couple of times during the next few years (when shopping, & not in 'shark' mode <women run screaming from that 'D for desperate', cutting through the water like a predator>
)..... More years...Met her in Student Union cafe.. She waved and <after a time lag> I said to my mates 'I know her from school',.. they looked impressed.. she came over to say 'hi', she looked great, pleased to see me again, got chatting (first ever conversation), she turned out to be VERY INTELLIGENT (a turn on for me
), she was visiting home before going off on some Fantastic Job. Chatted more, reminisced.... Talked about my sad student life, her Great New Job In FRANCE!,.. music, (/me thinking 'yeah could maybe move to France' to myself), her boyfriend/fiance (can't remember which now, went a bit hazy at this point)..... and then Bye (apparently forever)... I remember another girl when I was at school......
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***** if u r easily bored *****
The moral is :
- act on it earlier rather than later
- plain girls can be more fun
- some women don't get their looks until later in life
- don't always concentrate on one Ultimate goal
- If things don't work out, you will be down for a while, but then Move On, it wasn't meant to be, you're probably better off.
- Don't worry 'bout me.. the dissapointment passed easily (I exaggerate a bit ;-), I have a brown eyed girlfriend I am very happy & settled with (and soon going to bed with, she prolly thinks I am having unfaithful cybersex, but no! Why would I when she's waiting for actual sex?)
wafffle waffle.. there I go again....
There.... I have said my piece & will rest.
btw I missed: Intelligence & Personality can be far more important (yes believe it, a hairy arsed bloke saying & thinking that!)
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*Sob* Awwwww *Sob*
No - seriously - I think that there is some great advice in there
No - seriously - I think that there is some great advice in there
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Summo
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Agreed. I too have a beautiful girlfy who I'm settling with. Couldn't be happier
Remember the days I had Perplex's attitude then I actually met somebody who I really loved and didn't just think I did.
/end patronise
Remember the days I had Perplex's attitude then I actually met somebody who I really loved and didn't just think I did.
/end patronise
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Wij
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Re: My ha'pennys worth
too much info thanks
too much info thanks
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old.Hooligun
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I gotta stop readin this thread at work.
I get caught and my desk is gonna be knee high in
Photo-Luv mags for weeks
I get caught and my desk is gonna be knee high in
Photo-Luv mags for weeks
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I used to have a very nice g/f but she dumped me 3 weeks ago the day I got back off that fucking boat. The pisser is that I was SURE I could trust her.
Seems not.
Some bloke called Ed filled in for me while I was away. Never met the guy, but I have it on good authority that he thought I was someone else and is now apprantly terrified of me.
Excuse me while I go and apply a shard of glass to my throat......
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Perplex
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Errrrr? I've had plenty of long term relationships, longest being 5 years. Trust me son, I've been places and done things you've only read about, and I learnt how to tell which girls are fit for nothing more than a muckabout, and which are worth a lot more. The point being that in neither situation do I let them take the piss.
Something that tug, and staz both need to learn
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Stazbumpa
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Excuse me but I had no idea she was fucking about. I happened to be on a big ass fucking boat at the time.
Also I been with her for 4 years and everything I had thought about and planned for has sort of been flushed down the toilet.
Its alright saying you shouldn't let them take the piss but up until the moment she opened her mouth and told me I didn't think she was.
Trying to turn off the last 4 years on account of 1 sentence is an exercise in futility, try as hard as we might.
If I never cared about her in the first place then this wouldn't be a problem.
Also I been with her for 4 years and everything I had thought about and planned for has sort of been flushed down the toilet.
Its alright saying you shouldn't let them take the piss but up until the moment she opened her mouth and told me I didn't think she was.
Trying to turn off the last 4 years on account of 1 sentence is an exercise in futility, try as hard as we might.
If I never cared about her in the first place then this wouldn't be a problem.
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Perplex
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Fair dues, that's almost exactly what happened to me in that really long term relationship, and I learned a valuable lesson. I just hope you do too staz
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be glad she told you tho matey
I think it's better to know than to wonder what the hints mean
I think it's better to know than to wonder what the hints mean
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Perplex
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Very true
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Wij
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Back to High School stuff...
Most blokes go through a phase just after puberty where they really fall for a certain lass and it patronisingly gets dismissed as a crush. It happened to all of us. Gawd knows I had a few
My theory is that it's your brain's love mechanism giving itself a test run. They tend to wear off after a while no matter how strong the feelings. Unless you really actually know the person then they are bound to. Don't sweat it.
If you do have the opportunity to talk to this girl then go for it. If not, don't worry. Try talking to some girls you do know and see what happens. You may find they're actually miles more interesting than this girl and ... you can guess the rest
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Most blokes go through a phase just after puberty where they really fall for a certain lass and it patronisingly gets dismissed as a crush. It happened to all of us. Gawd knows I had a few
My theory is that it's your brain's love mechanism giving itself a test run. They tend to wear off after a while no matter how strong the feelings. Unless you really actually know the person then they are bound to. Don't sweat it.
If you do have the opportunity to talk to this girl then go for it. If not, don't worry. Try talking to some girls you do know and see what happens. You may find they're actually miles more interesting than this girl and ... you can guess the rest
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Does the wife know ?
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Wij
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teehee. u old kidder
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The only reason she told me is because if she didn't, someone else would have. And although I know that if she can do that then she's no good anyway, it doesn't stop it from hurting like a bastard.
Remember, 4 fucking years gone in less than 5 minutes.
As for the whole school "crush" thing, not one single girl was even remotely interested in me until I had left school for about a year.
By this time I had took up DJ'ing for something to do and that raised my profile no end.
Then the demons come calling, if you catch my drift. To be honest, I'm sick of DJ groupies as they are possibly the most 2 dimensional people I've ever met. They only like you for what you do and how you look and it pisses me off.
So I say be yourself mewizard, and stick to it with a vengeance. She may be the one, she may not, but keep the faith. Wij put it best actually. Blinkering yourself into believing this girl is the be all and end all can only blind you from what may actually be right under your nose.
Like he says, talk to the ones you do know, they are probably miles better than her and you just don't know it yet.
Besides, by the time you reach my age you'll have had enough of them anyway. I'm off to live in a cave and practise tantric DJ'ing where no DJ groupies can bother me.
Actually the cave may have a better chance of being in a cable area than I am at the moment
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"stazbumpa and the zen of being a tantric cave DJ"
I know it hurts like bastage Staz. When it happened to me, all I could see was my xgf's lips moving because the sound in my ears of toilets flushing 3 years of my life away drowned out her "goodbye" speech.
I know it hurts like bastage Staz. When it happened to me, all I could see was my xgf's lips moving because the sound in my ears of toilets flushing 3 years of my life away drowned out her "goodbye" speech.
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Wij
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ouch.
/me dccs staz n tdc a nice bird wiv big tits
/me dccs staz n tdc a nice bird wiv big tits
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Uhm, sorry to be the one negative person, by all means go for it, but expect to de rejected. She's 15, that means at the minimum she will be looking for someone aged 17/18, I'm sure anyone circa 20/21 can testify to the amount of attention they get from younger girls if they brush up reasonably well.
Ah well, best of luck regardless, I've heard Rohypnol has some wonderful properties
Ah well, best of luck regardless, I've heard Rohypnol has some wonderful properties
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Perplex
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Originally posted by Scooba Da Bass
Uhm, sorry to be the one negative person, by all means go for it, but expect to de rejected. She's 15, that means at the minimum she will be looking for someone aged 17/18, I'm sure anyone circa 20/21 can testify to the amount of attention they get from younger girls if they brush up reasonably well.
Ah well, best of luck regardless, I've heard Rohypnol has some wonderful properties
You were not the only negative person here, read the thread
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Originally posted by Wij
/me dccs staz n tdc a nice bird wiv big tits
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Perplex
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Hmmmm, the combination of this thread, and a new album I got today has brought back memories/emotions I thought i'd dealt with...or at least buried/hidden away
Wonder if my counsellor can fit me in for an appointment this week
Close this thread!
Wonder if my counsellor can fit me in for an appointment this week
Close this thread!
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Wij
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aw, cheer up perp
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old.TUG
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he he he he he
I am gonna become a DJ too, gettin' some dex soon.. schoolboy dream avin dex.. hoorah
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Greef
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Men that strump another man's woman
I had this happen to me I suspect and I thinks it's better not to know. I thought at the time we just drifted apart after 18 months, but now I think she drifted to some1 else (hindsight is the only 20/20 vision) while still seeing me (halfheartedly...). I was just sad for a while, whereas if I found out I would have gone insane.
That really sucks, I feel for you there m8. Personally I think men that would seduce another man's woman are lowlife scum (they may say 'I din't know, sorry huhuhuh', but you can tell if someone's attatched.) There is no excuse for knowingly inflicting thar sort of pain.
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gawd, thats the worst, i had this one girl once upon a time, nicest person i ever met, then we got together, then we broke up, problem was, i was told by others it was gonna end before she told me, i was not a very fucking happy bunny, heh, got her back tho, made her feel like shit
, but the moral of the story is that the above well and truly sux wij nob (no offence)... and and and and and and , oh well, to the future
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Wij
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eek
i've got a headache, leave me alone
i've got a headache, leave me alone
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Sir Frizz
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/me wubs wij
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