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Failed Geordie and Parmothief
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- Jan 2, 2004
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long story short, i split with my girlfriend. to give a background, im pretty blunt speaking and just say as it is. apparently she didnt like this and a few times it caused a problem. but thats me and my personality and no one else i know has a problem with it. i did say to her, many times "i can try talk a bit different, but it is my personality so i might not always do it how you want". i was willing to change a bit.
the thing that really fucked me off is she dumped me via a text! shes always said "i love you" and said she cares about me, but did she? can you dump someone via text if you give a shit about them? and then has the cheek to ask if we can still be friends? obviously i said no and she should go fuck her self.
this initiated a slagging match, started by her. calling me immature, spoilt etc
i kept telling her each time "please stop texting me" but she kept on doing it anyway. then says shes sent me an email.
so i reply to the email ending with "please stop contacting me" but she keeps replying, and so i reply and say ^^.
obviously it was more of the same, slagging. her saying "yes i did care about you" and me saying "of course, thats why you dumped me with a message" etc. all i can think because of that is she fained caring, and i feel like ive been played for an idiot. she gave examples of how she cared for me. sure she visited me in hospital and helped me through recent medical problems. but i cant see how she actually cared, if she can dump me with a txt. i did honestly think at the time she did, and i dont think she would of pretended. but to end it in such a way, well you understand.
the last email really ended it in a flaming fireball of slaggery. she was going with the whole good riddance thing. to me, good riddance is a pretty strong thing to say. i ended it with something like "because you are a fucking idiot and you deserve to stay in your shitty job for the rest of your misserable life. good riddance indeed!"
even for me i think its pretty harsh, but should i feel guilty?
the thing that really fucked me off is she dumped me via a text! shes always said "i love you" and said she cares about me, but did she? can you dump someone via text if you give a shit about them? and then has the cheek to ask if we can still be friends? obviously i said no and she should go fuck her self.
this initiated a slagging match, started by her. calling me immature, spoilt etc
i kept telling her each time "please stop texting me" but she kept on doing it anyway. then says shes sent me an email.
so i reply to the email ending with "please stop contacting me" but she keeps replying, and so i reply and say ^^.
obviously it was more of the same, slagging. her saying "yes i did care about you" and me saying "of course, thats why you dumped me with a message" etc. all i can think because of that is she fained caring, and i feel like ive been played for an idiot. she gave examples of how she cared for me. sure she visited me in hospital and helped me through recent medical problems. but i cant see how she actually cared, if she can dump me with a txt. i did honestly think at the time she did, and i dont think she would of pretended. but to end it in such a way, well you understand.
the last email really ended it in a flaming fireball of slaggery. she was going with the whole good riddance thing. to me, good riddance is a pretty strong thing to say. i ended it with something like "because you are a fucking idiot and you deserve to stay in your shitty job for the rest of your misserable life. good riddance indeed!"
even for me i think its pretty harsh, but should i feel guilty?