old.user4556
Has a sexy sister. I am also a Bodhi wannabee.
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That's just fucking weird.
Getting engaged to someone you met on Tinder
But seriously. Weird. And that must suck.
It's clearly making him (or his missus) question their own life choices if it's making them feel uncomfortable. I just don't see what you could possibly get worked up about.
Does he live in the sticks? Sounds to me like tinder's pretty much the default way to date if you live in a city nowadays...
I think it’s a combination of tinder and that we got engaged quite quickly. Not that it needs justified, but having spent 10 years with someone and only ever felt ‘meh’ about marriage, I had a solid frame of reference going into this relationship. We’re both in our 30s and want to start a family in the next 2-3 years, throw in the lead time for wedding venues and it was more sooner than later. Dating in your 30s is very different than when you’re 21 when you literally have time to kill with someone, particulary when the women is 30+ and interested in having a family.
Regarding him, his missus has low self esteem, insecure and neurotic with it. She took an instant dislike to my girlfriend because a) she’s very, very attractive and b) she hugged her husband when they first met (the look of horror on her face). I also get the feeling that the ease in which I met someone so gorgeous on tinder may have set the women of my mates on edge about their own relationships, like somehow their husbands would think “wow, I’m missing out!!”. Join the dots and you can see what’s driving this behaviour....