I'm not interested in proving anything. I agreed he shouldn't have the surgery for logical reasons. It is the attitude that people seem to be displaying that they are somehow entitled to cast judgement over someone simply asking for help, whether that be surgical or psychological. This is a human being we discussing. The name calling and the assumptions about obese people in general are unnecessary, as is the tone of this thread. It amazes me how people seem to love pointing out other people's flaws, almost as if it makes them feel better about their own.
If all they could eat was McD then they would get fat. A cheese burger from McD is 350 kcal if you only ate a cheese burger when you where hungry how many would you reach?That's because poor people in poor countries eat things like rice with some vegetables, or at least they were until we started forcing them away from their farmlands so now they're also starting to eat the shit we eat and are getting fatter.
rynnor said:Sadly fat apologists like yourself are part of the problem - there are medical reasons for a small percentage of people to get fat but we are in the middle of a societal change where lower exercise combined with an increasingly calorific diet has lead to an explosion in numbers.
Every obese person on the news blames 'medical conditions' rather than themselves - do you honestly believe they are all blameless when it comes to their conditions?
If you create an environment where every obese person is a 'victim' of a 'medical condition' you are dis-empowering them and making them consequently less capable of helping themselves out of the situation by their own efforts.
Your opening post isn't funny or clever, it is cruel and makes assumptions you have no business making.
That'll be because Tohtori hasn't peered in yet.
rynnor said:I disagree - by the arguements some doctors make you'd think it was impossible for a human to starve to death.
If you think that a human can stay alive weighing 22 stone on 4-500 kcal diet and not lose energy from their system then I think your wrong.
You have cherry picked extreme cases in a desperate attempt to win the arguement but such desperation merely reveals the weakness of your case.
You are missing the point and not answering the question - do you think think ridiculing someone who is overweight is in anyway helpful or even ok? That is my argument, if you think it is weak please tell me why we should all be doing the same!
I haven't cherry picked anything, I am merely making the point that there are alternate possibilities.
It would be perfectly plausible to argue the stigma of obesity to be one of the main drivers behind people not only attempting to lose weight, but also maintaining a 'healthy' weight in general.
'Softening' the generic stance on obesity (as you seem to advocate) just paves the way for it to be ultimately accepted as 'normal' or at least recognised as a legitimate illness (as opposed to, the self inflicted issue it really is - for the most part).
The stigma itself has severe consequences for emotional and physical wellbeing. This kind of discrimination causes social isolation, further unhealthy eating disorders, depression, lower levels of physical activity, poorer self image and even suicidal thoughts.
Stigmatizing people is never a solution, it is never a positive thing, and no it isn’t a plausible argument that it will encourage or help people, the exact opposite is all to often true, and often with very tragic consequences.
Historically obesity has been a sign of power, wealth and fertility. In fact it is only relatively recently that society has come to view it as a negative.
And why precisely should everyone be aesthetically pleasing? The assumption that it has to do with health is simply media hype
The assumption that it has to do with health is simply media hype
Frankly I can't see any merit in either that assumption or the argument that to stigmatise someone or a group of people is somehow for their own good.
Historically obesity has been a sign of power, wealth and fertility.
Historically obesity has been a sign of power, wealth and fertility. In fact it is only relatively recently that society has come to view it as a negative.
As I have pointed out, obesity can have complex physical or psychological causes, yet the prevailing assumption always seems to be that it is self inflicted. Frankly I can't see any merit in either that assumption or the argument that to stigmatise someone or a group of people is somehow for their own good.
And why precisely should everyone be aesthetically pleasing? The assumption that it has to do with health is simply media hype
rynnor said:You seem to have come full circle now - from arguing he had no responsibility for his weight because it was a medical condition and now arguing that it isnt a health issue - seems a little confused?
rynnor said:I think theres a decent counter arguement that some things are fundamentally undesirable. Thats not stigmatising anyone but stating a basic fact.
If we have a health campaign against teenage STD's do we stop because we are worried we might stigmatise teenagers or do we state the medical fact that these things are unhealthy and can lead to nasty complications?
I think you can take political correctness too far and this is one of those situations.
andeh said:The historical perception of obesity has little to do with the present. If someone calls you a fat fucker, you can hardly offer "hey 100 years ago this look was in" as a serious retort.
Can have, not has. The physical causes are no doubt legitimate, however, a fair amount of the supposed psychological causes will simply be crutches, clung to in a futile attempt to deflect the blame elsewhere. To stigamatise a group is not necessarily for the good of that particular group, rather for the good of the populace as a whole.
I never stated everyone should be aesthetically pleasing, rather that it is the desire of many to be so (albeit heavily influenced by the media/fashion industry etc).
Oh right I see.along jokes about teenagers with STD's would be a deterrent and would save lives. Hmm yeah, if you say so.
I am not really sure that answered my question either.