Is being gay treatable?

old.Tohtori

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BEing a bi female is a lot more acceptable by the masses then a bi male.

Fact.

Lesbians seem "cool" and "hot", where as in a male dominated world, gay men are just disgusting and wrong.

These are just the things the masses feel.

Even women, albeit they like a gay guy as a friend and all, seem to accept lesbian relations mroe easily.

Tell me i'm wrong if you like, i just see it like this.

Disclaimer: This is NOT my opinion, just my perseption of the mass.
 

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Mobius said:
No its right here.



Actually you look like the girl from episode 1 of the 1st series of Peep Show. Jez thinks she has leukemia but she is just wearing a wolly hat indoors!

I acctually see nothing. wtf?
 

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I think tankgirl took it offline cos she was beign poke fun at....by me :(
 

tankgirl_ni

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old.Tohtori said:
BEing a bi female is a lot more acceptable by the masses then a bi male.

Fact.

Lesbians seem "cool" and "hot", where as in a male dominated world, gay men are just disgusting and wrong.

These are just the things the masses feel.

Even women, albeit they like a gay guy as a friend and all, seem to accept lesbian relations mroe easily.

Tell me i'm wrong if you like, i just see it like this.

Disclaimer: This is NOT my opinion, just my perseption of the mass.


Its a very valid point. But something i've noticed in n.ireland is that gay/bi women tend to be a bit more shy and reserved compared to the majority of gay men here who come across as being very camp/in-your-face & hand-flappy which can get people's backs up.
don't get me wrong there are a lot of shy/reserved/quiet gay men out there.. its just that more often than not people think they are straight.
 

old.Tohtori

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tankgirl_ni said:
Its a very valid point. But something i've noticed in n.ireland is that gay/bi women tend to be a bit more shy and reserved compared to the majority of gay men here who come across as being very camp/in-your-face & hand-flappy which can get people's backs up.
don't get me wrong there are a lot of shy/reserved/quiet gay men out there.. its just that more often than not people think they are straight.

Quite true. This is probably because gay men seem to have the need to "flaunt" it around. In all honest truth to be told, i bet everyone on these boards has seen or knows gay people, maybe even have bisexuals in their own family, but more then often, you'll know male's before female's of being gay since gay men just show it.

I couldn't tell if a woman is gay/bi/straight. Gay females just don't "show" it.
 

tankgirl_ni

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they show it.. but i guess lesbo-chic has become so accepted within fashion & society these days its harder to notice.

most "younger" gay women that i know are trying to get as far away as possible from the old birkinstock & kd-lang image anyway, and who can blame them?
 

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old.Tohtori said:
BEing a bi female is a lot more acceptable by the masses then a bi male.
Fact.
Lesbians seem "cool" and "hot", where as in a male dominated world, gay men are just disgusting and wrong.
These are just the things the masses feel.
Even women, albeit they like a gay guy as a friend and all, seem to accept lesbian relations mroe easily.
Tell me i'm wrong if you like, i just see it like this.
Disclaimer: This is NOT my opinion, just my perseption of the mass.

i agree with what you are saying.
men are attracted to 2 women getting it on because they think they can get involved. in reality, lesbianity is not the same as lesbianity in porn.
women aren't attracted to 2 men getting it on because they know they can't get involved.
i don't doubt that there are some people that really are bisexual, but a lot of my female friends claim to be bisexual because they know it's gonna get the guy they are with excited. the bi males i know are, imo, just in denial. all my gay friends "claimed" they were bisexual at one point (because its easier to accept than homosexuality). there's still a shred of "normality" then.

old.Tohtori said:
Quite true. This is probably because gay men seem to have the need to "flaunt" it around.

nice stereotype. theres plenty of gay guys that you wouldn't know were gay because they seem 'straight'. sure, there are lots of screaming queens flaunting their camp nature, but there are also guys that just act like guys are expected to that happen to be gay.

but then sexuality isn't a dark secret that should be hidden from other people.
 

old.Tohtori

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haarewin said:
nice stereotype.

Didn't mean ALL. Meant that men do it more often then women.

Also yu'd be suprised how many women like to watch two men getting it on as much as men like seeing two females.

On your take on bi sexuals and them not being "real", like guys being fags or in denial, have to say i can't agree with it.

Bi/gay/straight, in the end, i don't give a fuck, as long as you're a human that i can stand.
 

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The thing I've never understood is why gay people all talk in that camp voice? When do they decide to start doing that?
 

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Mobius said:
The thing I've never understood is why gay people all talk in that camp voice? When do they decide to start doing that?

Round about the same time that they decide that they want some salami in the Gary I would guess.
 

tankgirl_ni

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maybe fooling around with that department affects your vocal chords.. who knows.
 

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