Amanita
Part of the furniture
- Joined
- Dec 23, 2003
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I think its rather nice that Tilda rode in on a white charger for me, but then I have a large case of "damsel in distress" syndrome which might account for my main classes ^^ Some of those remarks that were made about Haggus made me a little uncomfortable and I thought they were OTT, but I was far from offended just a little... weirded out. And I made a post to that effect which Tilda acted on, which I almost meant light heartedly... almost.
The thing is a lot of stuff is different between male and female, for example if I "score" a different guy each night then I am a slut while a man gets lots of praise and "omg how coooooool are you!". If a guy gets comments about masturbating over his picture he has perfectly within his rights to be upset about it and request a mod helps him out a bit.
But this is all up to the target of the comments that are being made and that is entirely individual. Ezteq might not mind any of the remarks you are describing but I was feeling a little unhappy with some of the stuff that was said following my picture post.
Saying I am gorgeous is great, I ofc have as low self esteem as the next girl ^^ But there's a strange and undefined line between jokey and creepy.
The thing is a lot of stuff is different between male and female, for example if I "score" a different guy each night then I am a slut while a man gets lots of praise and "omg how coooooool are you!". If a guy gets comments about masturbating over his picture he has perfectly within his rights to be upset about it and request a mod helps him out a bit.
But this is all up to the target of the comments that are being made and that is entirely individual. Ezteq might not mind any of the remarks you are describing but I was feeling a little unhappy with some of the stuff that was said following my picture post.
Saying I am gorgeous is great, I ofc have as low self esteem as the next girl ^^ But there's a strange and undefined line between jokey and creepy.