Antisocial behaviour....

ebenezer

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Not often i get angry or letting emotion take me in this game, at least not so that i get upset or angry. But when people express totally uncalled for and antisocial behaviour like this guy Gemah did yesterday i do get pissed off.
We were having a nice rvr evening after the long Marathon all day...two fgs set out and we had a few random guys with us as well. Most were on ts , but the randoms and a few others werent so we created a bg for them.
We have good time talking and laughing anjoying the game as we should, dont see many albs/mids around...and when we do a couple of the first times we are killed but still just laughs and head back again . Then slowly other people joins the bg thinking it a keep take bg or rvr bg. Still nps with that. They asking for detail about were enemy are etc. We answer that and try t help out. Then slowly the tone of one of the guys called Gemah change...after one fight in alb land he sais in bg: I just wish people would leave the mids there in alb land alone...so the rvr situasion becomes better....some people cant see the whole picture. I didnt realize he was adressing us so we just kept silent and kept looking for albs/mids...then he said something similar again. I thought i would just explain why we were trying to have fun in case this guy was really adressing us, so i said: Well im not sure if u mean us Gemah, but we have a hard time finding any albs/mids...and the ones we do find we are fighting ofc, thats why we are out here running now:)
Then the antisocial behaviour kicks in. Gemah sais: Are you clueless/ cant play the game? Or just new to game? pick one of the following.
I read it again and again trying to figure out if im really right??...oh yes it seems he is adressing us...and insulting us too for that matter. Im trying to figure out what we have done wrong to make someone go out of his way to angre a whole guild and make enemies out of people he will face and play with very often ...but i cant come up with any excuse for him to say what he just said. This guy obviously dont have a clue himself....why oh why would you wanna get to odds with people in a game cause others in a game is playing it differently then you. Im telling myself that this must be a kid....plz tell me he is so i can just treat him like that and say: There there son...it will get better when you grow up:) then all that testo stinn anger will turn out into a bit more clear reality showing you that you cannot always act first without thinking it through a bit. But im fearing for the worst...that he or someone else will say he is a nice guy and la grown up etc. Cause then im starting to wonder what the heck is wrong with him? I would like to see this guy behave like this in rl....im sure he have the guts to do that:p Thats the problem...dont hide behind a computer and try to be someone ur not punk. Karma you little boob...karma..Ur meeting real people here in game...dont try to act like a bully if ur not just cause you think you will never meet the guys in rl and hide behid the screen. seen to much of that shit lately....
So a little hint to the rest of the idiots out there trying to be bullies and are not in rl...stop trying to make other people in this game play it the way you like,,,period...you are making enemies out of others....and if you want that..ok bring it on. But it is really worth it cause a game?
over and out...
 

Adlatus Hellbringer

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Gemah is ilaya from hearts of fire i believe.

We took a tower in alb land for sum rvr fun and decided to claim it... 5 mins later we recieved nothing but abuse from gemah.

Really pissed me off and a few guildies off aswell making wat could have been a fun night into a rather sour one.

/ignore ftw

cheers,

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ebenezer

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He was the third in game who got to be on ignore list after yesterday:p
 

sphir

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hard to read eben, but seriously its a game gemah have fun !
 

Frozodo

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The love betweens hibs are so lovely... seriously it is a game nothing to get urself upset about or try make DAoC into ur whole life.
 

Aetius

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lol, if he d asked me, I d go with alternative d) All of the above. :drink:

But seriously agree, is a game to relax and have fun, and ppl have fun in different ways. Should respect that :)
 

Tierce_

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Took a while to read, but I agree. Some people have to realise the game wasn't created for themselves alone.
 

Ronso

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Not saying its right or wrong but Ilaya is just back from a long break and tbh when he was here before ..we had a solid alliance - Vigilance and Vengeance LA and DH were all active and we rarely had any problems securing our own keeps ..Always on /as drumming up interest for raids and defence alike ..he always took the progress of the realm v.serious and for him to come back after a break and find that hib are full of easy mode shit bridge camping players loosing all their keeps prolly upset him a bit ...

and make no mistake ..we have a lot of shit players ..who only care for scabbing a few rps of a stealther dual or leeching scraps from crau bridge with no clue of whats going on ..

Ilaya is friendly and youll find that he will be the one ( and generally the only one ) that will open a cg or bg for rvr and get your keeps / towers back . He doesnt care about ure equiptment ..ure rr ..if ure an eleetist or not ..as long as you play sensible and listen in cg ..thats it .

Now ..he might have been right or wrong for what he said but to me and most who know him ( that have played the game for 2 years plus ) it doesnt matter as he brings the realm more good than damage ..

so ebeneezer and co. - dont lose sleep over this one cause your going to be seeing lots more of him and if you want your keeps back you AND you want to take alb and mid towers and FINALLY get some proper fucking bonuses ..you will find you have a lot in common and just started on the wrong foot ..
 

ebenezer

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il give anyone that proves he is an ok guy a second chance. But i dont like that initial attitude...
One dont just asumes everyone else play the game the wrong way and insults them...that wont make me follow his lead in future.
I will follow someone in rvr just cause i 1. like them and respect him...2 is a good leader that respect me and makes me believe i follow him for a fun/good cause.
But he might still prove he had a bad day or is a nice guy....time will show.
 

Huntingtons

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ronso, gives him no right to join their bg and start yelling at them because they dont please him -.-.
If he wanna take keeps, fine, he should make his own bg where he can yell at people as much as he likes.
 

Deadnala

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i got the first pm of this HOF dude adlatus is talking about, i thoud wtf? He sweared at me becouse we released a tower (wich we claimed again later that night) wtf he think he is anyway? if he still cant handle the game its time for a new brake imo..perhaps a permanent one :twak:
 

Unleashed

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Ive been in a few bg's with gemah also.

the guy seems to spend all night yelling in bg, telling people what to do.

cant see you getting far with your new /as, if thats the way you are going to treat people.
 

Drav

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Wow I thught only Alb had these sorts of problems sucks that its gamewide tbh, hope you guys dont get that "too many cooks" feeling very often.
 

Boni

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Ronso said:
Ilaya is friendly and youll find that he will be the one ( and generally the only one ) that will open a cg or bg for rvr and get your keeps / towers back . He doesnt care about ure equiptment ..ure rr ..if ure an eleetist or not ..as long as you play sensible and listen in cg ..thats it .

Now ..he might have been right or wrong for what he said but to me and most who know him ( that have played the game for 2 years plus ) it doesnt matter as he brings the realm more good than damage ..

/agreed

and hey we all have bad days, if Ilaya has one fault its taking our realm defence a little bit too seriously (esp after a few beers), thats really no shock to most, and there are a lot worse character traits to have...
 

ebenezer

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played the game more then 2+ years...and do remember his name. But cant remember if i liked him earlier or not:p Im getting old^^
 

Ronso

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You have a choice ..

If you chose to play your character well or badly

If you chose to live for your realm or disregard it

If you want to win or lose

If you want to be a cocky leetist , a medium passed player or a layed back crafter

But one thing is for sure ..if you want to see Hibernia win something and bea dominant force LIKE IT WAS and dont mind a bit of hard work keep taking and listening and EVEN taking a order or two ..then its Ilayas company you should be in..

Everyone takes one for the team at some point ..I dont take orders from people but there are a selected few in the game that know better than me and ill jump if they say jump ..IE ..Vulcan / Ilaya / Boni / Gargo etc ..
certain people I will let lead me for the sake of winning against the enemy and If i do something wrong that might jeperdise the group or the realm winning then feel free to FUCK me out of it and ill take it like i earned it .
 

Alan

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I get the impression the following line would have resolved all of this.

/bc hi guys, anyone up for some keep takes / defence ? If so ill start a new BG
 

Kami

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Personally find it a tad odd that hibs go to hadrians rather than reclaim bolg. Would have taken at most 30mins last night to clear out the towers and retake the keep with albs being so busy with mids in their own realm. :-/
 

Kalid

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You probably were getting the abuse due to release a tower in Hib. Though it maybe in it self is not worth getting abuse it's not very good or smart. Having unclaimed towers in your own realm is not good. Since we are not that big realm altogether and we struggling to have all the towers and keeps claimed as it is. Which towers are being targeted first when the other realms going on an offensive? Why claim a tower in hib realm if you are releasing it at will?

All in all releasing a tower is not good for a realm, which Ilaya really cares for. Maybe he went a little over the step but it's probably because he cares for hibernia that much.
 

ebenezer

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Kalid said:
You probably were getting the abuse due to release a tower in Hib. Though it maybe in it self is not worth getting abuse it's not very good or smart. Having unclaimed towers in your own realm is not good. Since we are not that big realm altogether and we struggling to have all the towers and keeps claimed as it is. Which towers are being targeted first when the other realms going on an offensive? Why claim a tower in hib realm if you are releasing it at will?

All in all releasing a tower is not good for a realm, which Ilaya really cares for. Maybe he went a little over the step but it's probably because he cares for hibernia that much.

Actually i happy someone cares about the realm. And no we didnt release the keep, i could have had some understanding if he wondered a bit why if that had been the case. We were just killing mids in albion that we met. He must have seen the deathspam and he saw red:p
But as people said....open a bg would have solved this and wouldnt have caused this strange discussion we had^^
 

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Huntingtons said:
ronso, gives him no right to join their bg and start yelling at them because they dont please him -.-.
If he wanna take keeps, fine, he should make his own bg where he can yell at people as much as he likes.


tru he seemed to have changed and didnt seem to be a once off angry thang
 

angrysquirrel

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ilaya gets a bit loud after a beer but its all in the interest of the realm, he's gone out of his way for years for people in this game so dont judge him harshly, he certainly doesnt deserve it!
 

Saje

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Pfft another thread where i dont get the point, cause I cba to read more than 3 lines.. :touch: Dont write that long threads! I wanna be able to join a discusion ! xD
 

Kalid

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ebenezer said:
Actually i happy someone cares about the realm. And no we didnt release the keep, i could have had some understanding if he wondered a bit why if that had been the case. We were just killing mids in albion that we met. He must have seen the deathspam and he saw red:p
But as people said....open a bg would have solved this and wouldnt have caused this strange discussion we had^^

Was more directed to Deadnala/Sabre :)
 

Deadnala

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Kalid said:
Was more directed to Deadnala/Sabre :)
some guilds dont even bother to claim anything so why wouldnt we release a tower to have some alb/mid fun?
 

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