Ack, the problem with seeing 3 women

[old.Fweddy]

'Show how much you care for someone by cheating on them.'

You dick.

 

[Wazzerphuk]

I spy with my little eye something beginning with.... D....

 

[old.Fweddy]

Is it a dog?

 

[Wazzerphuk]

Close but no coconut!

 

[old.Fweddy]

Hmm. can you give me a clue?

 

[SilverHood]

Originally posted by charl8tan
Ummz, not really bothered tbh, just another situation where I got the shitty end of a stick and I'm used to that. So I thought if other people can do this why shouldn't I tbh.

Maybe you know how it feels to be cheated on, and wouldn't like that to happen to people you know and care for?

 

[*Exor*]

Let's face it charl8tan, only only posted in the first place to brag about your amazing conquests. That makes you a real retard.

 

[bodhi]

Originally posted by charl8tan
Ok, here's the prob:
You've got three gfs, all in different towns and counties, except one of them moves into the same town as one of the other ones. It's not a big town either, chances are they will see each other on a saturday night, more to the point you with the other on said saturday night, what do you do?

Go out Friday with one, Saturday with the other.



Tbh, charl8tan you really did pick the wrong place to ask. Emotional cripples tend to get upset when they see someone who can keep one relationship together, never mind three. I'm fairly sure that if you added up the total relationships most of the people giving you shit have been in, you'd probably get a total result of about 3 months. So you're getting shit for being well-adjusted enough to keep three close relationships going.


The Internet seems to be the only place where not having issues is a problem. God bless the Internet eh?

 

[Wazzerphuk]

Re: Re: Ack, the problem with seeing 3 women

Originally posted by bodhi
Go out Friday with one, Saturday with the other.



Tbh, charl8tan you really did pick the wrong place to ask. Emotional cripples tend to get upset when they see someone who can keep one relationship together, never mind three. I'm fairly sure that if you added up the total relationships most of the people giving you shit have been in, you'd probably get a total result of about 3 months. So you're getting shit for being well-adjusted enough to keep three close relationships going.


The Internet seems to be the only place where not having issues is a problem. God bless the Internet eh?

Ahh once again you fail to understand why people are angry. Some people have compassion for others. Some people don't like to see other people fucked around. Some people aren't totally self centred and judgemental.

 

[throdgrain]

Wow the moral high ground has (as usual) been full reached here !
I bet some of you need a telescope just to see poor ol Charly down there !
However , on this occasion I confess i agree with em char, sort yer life out mate .


ps still luv ya tho

 

[bodhi]

Re: Re: Re: Ack, the problem with seeing 3 women

Originally posted by Wazzerphuk
Ahh once again you fail to understand why people are angry. Some people have compassion for others. Some people don't like to see other people fucked around. Some people aren't totally self centred and judgemental.

You were doing quite well until you stuck judgemental in there, considering you've spent 4 pages judging charl8tan.

 

[Wazzerphuk]

I'm making a judgement on charly from what his personality, and the way he views things and behaves. This is how you should judge a person, because how a person is inside is what they should be judged on.

You judged a whole load of people on the basis they happen to use the internet, some forums and aren't pleased with charl's actions and thoughts.

There's being judgemental (what you just did), and there's judging someone on what they ARE, not what they appear to be.

 

[Trem]

Nowt wrong with Charly as far as I'm concerned, don't care what he does, its his life, all I care about is how he is in irc and on here, hes a good lad.

 

[bodhi]

Originally posted by Wazzerphuk
I'm making a judgement on charly from what his personality, and the way he views things and behaves. This is how you should judge a person, because how a person is inside is what they should be judged on.

You judged a whole load of people on the basis they happen to use the internet, some forums and aren't pleased with charl's actions and thoughts.

There's being judgemental (what you just did), and there's judging someone on what they ARE, not what they appear to be.

Yes, the moral high ground are talking shit in this case because they use the internet. Obviously.

judg·men·tal
adj.
Of, relating to, or dependent on judgment: a judgmental error.
Inclined to make judgments, especially moral or personal ones: a marriage counselor who tries not to be judgmental.

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judg·mental·ly adv.

Learn what words mean before you use them eh?

 

[old.D0LLySh33p]

Originally posted by throdgrain
Wow the moral high ground has (as usual) been full reached here !
I bet some of you need a telescope just to see poor ol Charly down there !
However , on this occasion I confess i agree with em char, sort yer life out mate .


ps still luv ya tho

What he said...

You awp whore

/me fluffles Charly.

 

[Summo]

 

[~YuckFou~]

Originally posted by *Exor*
Let's face it charl8tan, only only posted in the first place to brag about your amazing conquests. That makes you a real retard.

That would be bad would it ?


*looks up to moral high ground*
It's a long way up there, and its already full.

It's clear from the responses who is in a full time loving relationship. Me too, and would never think of straying, or doing anything that would upset my missus.
But charl8tan isn't married, and is free to do what he likes.

 

[Wazzerphuk]

He is free do as he likes.

He is allowed to be a dick if he wants to be, none of us can change this.

Not being married is no excuse to treat people like shit though, is it You?

 

[stu]

Originally posted by ~YuckFou~
That would be bad would it ?

Yeah, because getting a new car is really the same as seeing 3 women isn't it...

Unless you think it's an "amazing conquest" to buy a car.

 

[dysfunction]

Buying a house these days is an amazing conquest

 

[leggy]

Originally posted by Wazzerphuk
He is free do as he likes.

He is allowed to be a dick if he wants to be, none of us can change this.

Most of us think this about you. Tbh most of the guys here probably think the same about me.

At the end of the day Charly asked for help and the geeks here thought it'd be a good idea to make a moral stance. The only one here that spoke sense was bodhi because either way he probably gives as much a fuck about you lot as charly does.

How about you drop the judgmental shite and give the boy advice.

Don't get me wrong I'm as hipocritical as the next but i personally like the guy.

I've lost the point and i'm off to have sex with girl i'm cheating on.

gn.

L.

 

[Trem]

OMG LEGZ0R IS TEH DRUNK!!1BAN*BAN*BAN!1

 

[PhaZeY]

It'll all end in tears, one way or the other.

./P

 

[gremlin]

class avatar phaze

 

[PhaZeY]

I always liked the trout slapping dance

./P

 

[Trem]

Edited......lifes too short!

 

[charl8tan]

OOOO. Just got into work and I see all these responses. May I say that regardless of what people think I wasn't trying to brag at all, if I was gonna do that I'd go to the pub, I'm not a braggart, never have been.
leggy is right, I don't give a shit about the people on here, apart from the people that are my mates, same as in rl, I treat my mates well, everyone else can fo
As for Wazzerphuk, have you got any other argument other than "He's a dick, he's treating them like shit", because I've seen you post that at least four times now. As for the way you're judging me wazza, how you can think you are judging me on the way I view things and the way I behave, not to mention on what I really am is amazing considering you've seen less than 10 posts by me in all likelyhood. Wish I could look into the depths of peoples personalities from 10 posts, about one subject, and know their mind etc. And only 19 as well, wow, amazing. Go experience more of the world lad then come back with these vaunted opinions you have. Ok, I'm a bit of a bastard to these women, but the don't know it, they probably won't either, so they'll be happy, I'm only a bastard because I'm getting away with it atm, and probably will get away with it totally in the end.
I liked bodhis post btw, never thought about it like that lol. "Emotional cripples tend to get upset when they see someone who can keep one relationship together, never mind three" and not forgetting "So you're getting shit for being well-adjusted enough to keep three close relationships going", I never even considered that, now I'm wondering what would happen if I dedicated myself to one woman, how happy would she be \o/. Ah well, that's probably my final note on this, though I'll probably read through and see something else I haven't commented on properly.
I may be a bastard when it comes to this sort of thing, but the people who know me, I think would agree that I'm actually a decent person on the whole and a good mate. We've all got our quirks/fuck ups and this is mine :/.

 

[nath]

You admit it's a fuckup, so do something about it?

 

[stu]

it's hammer time

 

[Durzel]

How about you drop the judgmental shite and give the boy advice.

The point is, there is no advice you can give other than the obvious - which is to break up with 2 of them. Any fool knows this is the only logical (and only morally acceptable) solution, so why did he ask a rhetorical question in the first place?

If, instead, he was genuinely asking how he could avoid getting caught and further deceive these 3 people, then well... it's difficult to be "nice" about someone in circumstances like that.