Ack, the problem with seeing 3 women

[Oranj]

heh. some people have far too much free time

 

[WPKenny]

Originally posted by charl8tan
Ok, here's the prob:
You've got three gfs, all in different towns and counties, except one of them moves into the same town as one of the other ones. It's not a big town either, chances are they will see each other on a saturday night, more to the point you with the other on said saturday night, what do you do?

I think the problem is that you don't like the replies you're getting.

Without getting directly involved it seesm that the general trend of this thread is that in answer to you question "what do you do?", the seem to think you should decide which girl you like the most and let the other two down gently.

 

[old.Fweddy]

Originally posted by charl8tan
Oh dear, ok, gloves off. Right retarded little fuck nut. I am not treating them like shit, get that through your miniscule dust mote that passes for a brain. They get treated better than most women and they are happy, very happy, they should never find out and even if they did well, tough, they've had plenty of happiness and they'll get over it and eventually look back upon it with some fond memories.

To whom is this reply aimed?

Surely if they're so happy now they'll feel a lot worse if they find out? The sense of betrayal would be magnified by the good times you shared, not cancelled out by them, as you seem to think.

they should never find out and even if they did well, tough

So you don't give a shit what they feel then?

 

[dysfunction]

It appears as though he doesnt care about anything...only pleasing himself.

So not much point talking about it any longer as he doesnt care.

Or does he....cos he's getting a bit annoyed with all the negative response he has received

 

[Perplex]

A) Date women, not girls.

B) Grow up. We've all done the multiple partners thing. It's not big, it's not grown up, and it's not clever

C) I sincerely hope one of them is cheating on you, contracts chlamydia or something similiar, passes it to you, and in turn you pass it to the rest of them - thereby exposing your transparent life/personality

D) I sincerely hope all 3 end up pregnant, leaving you in the depths of CSA hell for the rest of your life

E) I don't know your family background, and I shan't be politically correct. Imagine if you caught your father fucking the next door neighbour, and he told you "hey! don't tell mom son! what she doesn't know won't hurt her!"

F) You can play the big man all you like, but I'd stake money on the fact that you would be bothered if you walked in on one of them sucking your best mates cock

 

[Perplex]

oh, forgot...

G) You're a dick

 

[Mr^B]

This is similar to the threads you read about on urban-myth sites, where some enterprising soul ends up contacting the 3 women, telling them the details - and then an unidentified body of a man is dredged up from the Thames, minus his testicles.

You ARE treating them like shit, because you are being "economical with the truth".

Stop seeing all three - go and find someone else, and hope that she isn't seeing 3 other blokes herself.

A little empathy for the three women involved wouldn't go amiss.

Mr^B

 

[~Lazarus~]

Jesus Christ Perp.

For once will you say what you mean instead of tiptoeing round the edges

 

[raw]

What if all 3 women are serious about you? where as you couldnt give a fuck about all 3.. imagine how you'd feel if it was vice versa, probably like a right twat for one and also very hurt.

Sort it out, it aint big and it aint clever and i dont give a fuck what excuses you have, what you're doing is wrong.

 

[old.Fweddy]

Charlatan - A person who makes elaborate, fraudulent, and often voluble claims to skill or knowledge; a quack or fraud

A fraud you say?

 

[Perplex]

In total contrast to you charlatan, and this is how it *should* be done, or someone with a clue would do it. I've been dating a bird from essex uni for a few weeks now. It's cool, it's casual, but she brought up the whole "where are we" thing and I told her straight that I didn't want to put a label on it and that we'd see what happens. Oh, and that I wasn't "in that place".

In the meanwhile - I've been carrying my life on as normal, odd one night stand here and there. The difference is, my young friend, that I haven't made her out to be my one and only, I haven't promised her the moon and the stars - as you so evidently have to the three poor mugs you've hoodwinked.

Another thing - everything you're presenting to those ladies is a sham, meaning the relationship will *never* go anywhere. In effect, you're wasting their time. Now, consider this - do you have the fucking right to waste YEARS of a persons life simply because you weren't loved enough as a child? Maybe you were denied the breast as a child?

You're a cock

 

[charl8tan]

Actually....I liked perps response, made me laugh a bit.
Anyway, as I was going to say before I got dragged from my desk to do work, lets say I carry on seeing them, eventually splitting up with them as normal relationships go, and they end up happy etc blah blah, there's then no problem is there. The only problem stems from if they find out, I didn't intentionally start seeing three women btw, it just happened, oh and perp, they are women, not girls, two of them are older than me, one is the same age.
Also, dysfunction, I did actually state in an earlier post that I do care about my own happiness above all else.
Anyways, thx for giving me something to do this afternoon, was bored shitless but this was a good laugh.

 

[charl8tan]

Actually perp I do take offence at that, I've never promised them anything, I've never said it's exclusive, and they've never asked. Admittedly I should have told them, but I didn't, coward, etc, whatever, but there you go.
old.Fweddy, well spotted, you know how long I've had this name and noones noticed that. *pats fwed*

 

[Perplex]

Originally posted by charl8tan
oh and perp, they are women, not girls, two of them are older than me, one is the same age.

Doesn't mean a thing. I know some 40+ year old girls, and some 18 year old women.

Just as I know some 40+ year old boys, and some 18 year old men. You fit into the category of 'boy' I'm afraid

 

[doh_boy]

these them?

 

[charl8tan]

Fair point, but they are women regardless.

 

[Nos-]

charl8tan LOVES the cock

 

[dysfunction]

Originally posted by charl8tan
Actually perp I do take offence at that, I've never promised them anything, I've never said it's exclusive, and they've never asked. Admittedly I should have told them, but I didn't, coward, etc, whatever, but there you go.
old.Fweddy, well spotted, you know how long I've had this name and noones noticed that. *pats fwed*

Just because people dont mention anything doesnt mean they have not noticed

 

[charl8tan]

only yours Nos-, ok, maybe -Adz-, dolly, jobs, ok ok ok..I love cock

 

[charl8tan]

Originally posted by dysfunction
Just because people dont mention anything doesnt mean they have not noticed

lol...easy to be clever and not have the balls to point it out incase you are wrong? Even easier to pretend you're clever after something has been stated..."yea man..I knew that all along"

 

[dysfunction]

Originally posted by charl8tan
lol...easy to be clever and not have the balls to point it out incase you are wrong? Even easier to pretend you're clever after something has been stated..."yea man..I knew that all along"

You got me pegged...

 

[charl8tan]

One thing I have been meaning to say is that I don't actually want to hurt any of their feelings.
If I didn't care about them at all I would just split up with at least two of them, if not all three. God knows I've been trying to split up with one of them for the past 3 months, but she gets really upset and so I never end up doing it.
I'll admit that I'm not bothered that what I'm doing is wrong, but, I do know it is, I never set out with the thought "Right, I want three women HOTDANG!! I did it", it just happened. The third relationship is purely sex btw, so I don't see a problem at all with her.

 

[Durzel]

You talk so much shit its unreal. Its funny really, now that you've realised that the weight of public opinion is against you, you're backtracking by saying you actually care deeply for each of them. Comedy.

I bet any money that had everyone replied saying "go on my son", "whos the man", etc - as you no doubt expected - you would be singing a completely different tune. But because virtually everyone thinks you're a twat, you're trying to make out that you aren't just being a cunt, which you are.

At the end of the day, whatever you say to the contrary, one presumes that each of these women are being monogamous with you and presumably has no idea what ultimately awaits them (i.e. the inevitable messy breakup) and you're just treating them like pieces of meat - plain and simple.

Stu hit the nail on the head really, you clearly created this thread with the sole intention of bragging, the alternative - that you really are too stupid to realise what your limited options are in your situation - is almost impossible to believe as logical. What "solutions" do you think anyone could provide?

All you've done with this thread is serve to let everyone know what a self-centred cock you are. Hopefully one or more of the things Perplex has mentioned will come true, particularly the CSA one.

 

[Wazzerphuk]

*watches charl dig the biggest hole he's seen yet*

"If I didn't care about them I'd dump them". So caring for someone is stringing them along and fucking about with them? Wow, please show me some of that genuine caring!

Plus, that line completely contradicts your last line. "It's just sex so it's fine". Evidently you DON'T care about at least one of them, stop pretending you do care about them and the reason you're stringing them along and lying to them can never be seen as caring.

You are a dick.

 

[Wazzerphuk]

Originally posted by Durzel
All you've done with this thread is serve to let everyone know what a self-centred cock you are. Hopefully one or more of the things Perplex has mentioned will come true, particularly the CSA one.

There's nothing like an STD to put into perspective what a twat you've been. I think STDs should be handed out free, on the NHS.

 

[old.Fweddy]

I care for you Wazz.

 

[Wazzerphuk]

<charl>I care for me, too.</charl>

 

[charl8tan]

lmfao. Ok, maybe the wrong words used, what I mean to say is that I don't wanna hurt their feelings and find myself in a pickle.
On a side note I've always freely admitted I'm a cunt and have never tried to hide it.
I wouldn't try back tracking, just explaining myself better, it's also funny to see how self righteous you lot can get tbh. Anyway, I'm eating into my time now so laters.

 

[Wazzerphuk]

"I don't want to upset them because if they get upset then no doubt it will all come back down onto me!"

Welcome to the real world, dick.

 

[Daffeh]

this is just like a soap opera!


when do we find out that woman #1 is woman #2's mother?

ooo and women #2 and #3 could be sisters!