Ack, the problem with seeing 3 women

[dysfunction]

Originally posted by *Exor*
You're a dick.

Quadrupled!

Deal with one women at a time...just cos you can be unfaithful and have 3 women doesnt mean you should.

 

[Wij]

Originally posted by Wazzerphuk
I did.

But there is nothing that will prevent me from regularly *uNF*ing meh Andeh.

What if I beg ?

 

[Wazzerphuk]

Depends on what you suck when you're down there.

 

[old.D0LLySh33p]

Don't agree with it Charly, soz

 

[Wij]

Originally posted by Wazzerphuk
Depends on what you suck when you're down there.

Mmm, butterscotch.

 

[charl8tan]

lmfao. I treat all three of them better than most blokes I know treat their one gf. Ok, if they found out I know one of them would be hurt, the other two, one maybe, the other wouldn't care.
I used to be a very loyal little shit until I got cheated on, kinda changes your perception of the whole thing, what they don't know won't hurt them etc.
All three women are very happy atm, so I'm bringing happyness to three lives, don't see a prob there myself.

Originally posted by Wazzerphuk
I hope they're all secret lesbians, and hate the size of your cock.

There's an easy answer to that but I don't think I'll resort to it just yet.

As for them cheating on me, and it being ironic etc, hell, I'm not bothered, as long as I'm happy and they're happy. It's not like I'm married or anything.

And me being a dick, well, in your opinion maybe, but may I remind you to keep that to yourself as I don't appreciate being insulted, if that's all you can contribute then don't bother. I see plenty of threads on here that are utter arse where my only contribution could be something like "twat", "tosser" or the like, but I keep that opinion to myself, tyvm gg etc.

 

[leggy]

I don't agree with war but hey, who am i to judge?

 

[Wazzerphuk]

Originally posted by charl8tan
lmfao. I treat all three of them better than most blokes I know treat their one gf. Ok, if they found out I know one of them would be hurt, the other two, one maybe, the other wouldn't care.
I used to be a very loyal little shit until I got cheated on, kinda changes your perception of the whole thing, what they don't know won't hurt them etc.
All three women are very happy atm, so I'm bringing happyness to three lives, don't see a prob there myself.



There's an easy answer to that but I don't think I'll resort to it just yet.

As for them cheating on me, and it being ironic etc, hell, I'm not bothered, as long as I'm happy and they're happy. It's not like I'm married or anything.

And me being a dick, well, in your opinion maybe, but may I remind you to keep that to yourself as I don't appreciate being insulted, if that's all you can contribute then don't bother. I see plenty of threads on here that are utter arse where my only contribution could be something like "twat", "tosser" or the like, but I keep that opinion to myself, tyvm gg etc.

Your whole post screams ignorance. If you've been cheated on in the past then surely you realise that it can be the most painful aspect you'll ever have to deal with in a relationship. Pretty much everyone has been cheated on - but most people don't become cheats after and stoop that low for simple personal happiness (although how you can talk so much about happiness with so many lies around you is beyond me). Being cheated on should excuse you for never cheating on someone in your life - not the opposite. "I was cheated on once so it's ok for me to cheat on these people!" Where's the logic or sense in that?

May I remind you that if you behave like a "dick" then you will be called one, regardless of whether or not it insults and offends you. Being called a dick is nothing in comparison with being an ignorant, selfish little boy with no sight on how people and relationships should work.

You are behaving like a retard, moreso every time you post, as it seems to become more and more clear that you think cheating is acceptable and something to be proud of because it's making you happy. Hello shallowness!

 

[ECA]

I'd like to see some arguments for monogamy other than self righteous religious texts thx.

 

[dysfunction]

Originally posted by Wazzerphuk
Your whole post screams ignorance. If you've been cheated on in the past then surely you realise that it can be the most painful aspect you'll ever have to deal with in a relationship. Pretty much everyone has been cheated on - but most people don't become cheats after and stoop that low for simple personal happiness (although how you can talk so much about happiness with so many lies around you is beyond me). Being cheated on should excuse you for never cheating on someone in your life - not the opposite. "I was cheated on once so it's ok for me to cheat on these people!" Where's the logic or sense in that?

May I remind you that if you behave like a "dick" then you will be called one, regardless of whether or not it insults and offends you. Being called a dick is nothing in comparison with being an ignorant, selfish little boy with no sight on how people and relationships should work.

You are behaving like a retard, moreso every time you post, as it seems to become more and more clear that you think cheating is acceptable and something to be proud of because it's making you happy. Hello shallowness!

I was going to write that!!

 

[charl8tan]

Originally posted by Wazzerphuk
Your whole post screams ignorance. If you've been cheated on in the past then surely you realise that it can be the most painful aspect you'll ever have to deal with in a relationship. Pretty much everyone has been cheated on - but most people don't become cheats after and stoop that low for simple personal happiness (although how you can talk so much about happiness with so many lies around you is beyond me). Being cheated on should excuse you for never cheating on someone in your life - not the opposite. "I was cheated on once so it's ok for me to cheat on these people!" Where's the logic or sense in that?

May I remind you that if you behave like a "dick" then you will be called one, regardless of whether or not it insults and offends you. Being called a dick is nothing in comparison with being an ignorant, selfish little boy with no sight on how people and relationships should work.

You are behaving like a retard, moreso every time you post, as it seems to become more and more clear that you think cheating is acceptable and something to be proud of because it's making you happy. Hello shallowness!

May I remind you that this selfish "little boy" is older than you. Also, as for the insults, regardless of whether or not you think they are justified it is still wrong to say them, me smacking someone in the mouth may be justified but I'll still get nicked for it.
This whole "cheating" lark, well, tbh, I don't really give a shit. Callous as it may sound I am looking out for my happiness first and foremost. I've experienced more years of shit than most people and if that's made me selfish and shallow then tough. Society made me the way I am so blame your precious society.
I like women, sue me, but one woman cannot keep me occupied, I sincerely do hope that one woman does come along that can change that and get married, arf kids etc, but at the moment I enjoy the attention (anyone who wouldn't is lying) and I, ok this is low, enjoy leading three lives as it were. Trying to keep one woman happy is a pain in the ass, trying to keep three is sheer madness, but it's a challenge and it is fun.
I can't explain it very well, and I certainly can't justify it, it's simply the way I am, I'm a tart, and I can't help not being happy with one woman. End of the day, you've got a prob with that, fine, but don't tell me about it cos I don't wanna know. I know it's wrong, believe it or not, but so's smoking and I do that because I enjoy it, fuckit, smokings defo gonna kill me as well.

 

[charl8tan]

Oh, one more thing, if it was one of your mates down the pub that came out with how he was seeing 2/3 birds at the same time would you take the self righteous high ground like you are on here, or would you be clapping him on the back as most "lads" do in that situation. I wonder...

 

[dysfunction]

I would not be clapping him on the back. I would be telling him exactly what has been told to you...

 

[Xtro]

I'd call him a selfish bastard who needs to sort it out, sorry m8. I'd have one hell of a go at a mate of mine who did that tbh.

*shrug*

 

[Scooba Da Bass]

Originally posted by charl8tan End of the day, you've got a prob with that, fine, but don't tell me about it cos I don't wanna know. I know it's wrong, believe it or not, but so's smoking and I do that because I enjoy it, fuckit, smokings defo gonna kill me as well.

Why post it on a public forum where you are inviting opinions then?

As for blaming society do please grow up and at least recognise that your actions are your own and no one elses. Society doesn't hold a gun to your head and force you to cheat on 3 women with the justification that it's all fun for you so stuff them.

as Exor said a few posts back

You're a dick.

 

[Sir Frizz]

"Lads" = Piss heads }
"Lads" = Distubers of peace } Cheats tbh
"Lads" = Vandals}

But that's just the way it is where i am.

 

[charl8tan]

Hmmz, never said society held a gun to my head, my reference was more to the side of if I had been treated a tad better, i.e. not like shit for 17 years, maybe, just maybe I would have a tad more respect for other people on this planet.
As it goes I treat my friends really well, women as well, ok, apart from the "cheating" part, but otherwise they get treated like queens, but the rest of the human race can take a flying f*ck as far as I'm concerned.
Why post on a public forum, was looking for help, that's generally what forums are about. Instead of insulting me which is just gonna put my back up as people who know me could testify to, maybe a constructive argument that might convince me the error of my ways, omg, maybe that's what I was subconciously after, ah well, I dunno, but the leading argument so far is, "you're a dick". Wow, maturity amongst gamers.

 

[old.Fweddy]

charl8tan, how exactly did you feel when you were cheated on?

 

[Scooba Da Bass]

Trying to convince people of the error of their ways is a waste of time, especially when they come across as "hopeless cases", cheat on all you want, but don't expect any respect from myself, or others as this thread shows as most people I'd imagine have been cheated on at some point in their lives. How you handle it is a measure of the kind of person you are, the "it happened to me so I'll do it back response" is a child's arguement and I think that's why people have branded you as such. Especially since your first post is the equivalent of 'OMGS ROFFLE LADS 3 LADIES ON THE GO AT ONCE BONZA!'.

*shrug*

 

[charl8tan]

Originally posted by old.Fweddy
charl8tan, how exactly did you feel when you were cheated on?

Ummz, not really bothered tbh, just another situation where I got the shitty end of a stick and I'm used to that. So I thought if other people can do this why shouldn't I tbh.

 

[Wazzerphuk]

Originally posted by charl8tan
May I remind you that this selfish "little boy" is older than you. Also, as for the insults, regardless of whether or not you think they are justified it is still wrong to say them, me smacking someone in the mouth may be justified but I'll still get nicked for it.
This whole "cheating" lark, well, tbh, I don't really give a shit. Callous as it may sound I am looking out for my happiness first and foremost. I've experienced more years of shit than most people and if that's made me selfish and shallow then tough. Society made me the way I am so blame your precious society.
I like women, sue me, but one woman cannot keep me occupied, I sincerely do hope that one woman does come along that can change that and get married, arf kids etc, but at the moment I enjoy the attention (anyone who wouldn't is lying) and I, ok this is low, enjoy leading three lives as it were. Trying to keep one woman happy is a pain in the ass, trying to keep three is sheer madness, but it's a challenge and it is fun.
I can't explain it very well, and I certainly can't justify it, it's simply the way I am, I'm a tart, and I can't help not being happy with one woman. End of the day, you've got a prob with that, fine, but don't tell me about it cos I don't wanna know. I know it's wrong, believe it or not, but so's smoking and I do that because I enjoy it, fuckit, smokings defo gonna kill me as well.

Pure hilarity. It is evident age and maturity do not go hand in hand. I was born in 83, you 80. And? Will I learn to become a selfish prick and not consider other's feelings in those 3 years?
Blaming society for every single one of your problems is even funnier, you sound like a 13 year old nu-metal weenie, complaining about how much everyone is oppressing you.

A LOT of people on these boards have had to put up with years of shit, and much depression. I don't see them treating other people like shit though: for that you will only ever have yourself to blame if you can't feel outside of your own mind.

 

[Daffeh]

can i have one of the 'spares' please?

 

[Durzel]

I murdered someone last weekend, can anyone advise me on how best to dispose of the body? Don't flame me plz I'm just looking for help. I was murdered myself once.

 

[Damini]

You're not really treating the other girls like Princesses though, you're not really giving them happiness, you're just faking it. Making all the right noises, but at the end of the day they're just vagina and entertainment, and when they realise that it will really really hurt them. That whole "but I was making you happy" line would have me clambering to key your car and water your PC. If you really want to let these girls be happy, be up front with them and let them decide whether they want to be your 33% willy warmer, or if they want to find someone who actually wants just them.

No-ones saying you have to lead life altruisticly, but if you just want sex and entertainment then one night stands and penicillen will be your bestest friends. Or a fuck chum that knows that its just that. Dressing up in the sensitive man suit and at the same time being wild oat sowing man doesn't sit well.

I would doubt theres a single person on this board that hasn't been cheated on, hell my ex of two and a half years rammed his tadger in a freshers throat the same day he asked me to marry him, and the icing on the cake was when he assured me he cared so much about me he couldn't bear to finish in her mouth. Touching sweetheart. Maybe you should go into the Valentines Card trade. I Love you *so* much that... I wouldn't let her swallow! My boyfriend after that ended up sending pictures of him in a Speedo to my little sister! She's now a lesbian, and I like to believe that my exes are half the reason.

Long and short of it is, having been hurt so badly in the past I couldn't bear to inflict that on someone else. People who are reacting strongly in this thread have no doubt been hurt badly themselves, and thats why they they think you're a bit of an arsehole for doing this.

 

[old.Fweddy]

lol Daffeh.


So are you not bothered about the feelings of these three women at all then charl8tan? Do you have any strong feelings for any of them?

 

[stu]

Basically the whole reason you created this thread was to brag about how you've got 3 women on the go. It backfired, and everyone thinks you're a cock. If you don't want people to call you a cock when you act like one, don't go bragging about what a cock you are on a forum.

Good day to you sir.

 

[charl8tan]

Oh dear, ok, gloves off. Right retarded little fuck nut. I am not treating them like shit, get that through your miniscule dust mote that passes for a brain. They get treated better than most women and they are happy, very happy, they should never find out and even if they did well, tough, they've had plenty of happiness and they'll get over it and eventually look back upon it with some fond memories.

 

[leggy]

Originally posted by Damini
they're just vagina and entertainment

Can we have less of these dictionary definitions please?

 

[Damini]

I do feel kind of sympathetic because you're so badly out numbered in your opinion charl8tan, but I don't think they will look back on it with affection. They'll look back on the happy times and see them all as a complete sham.

 

[charl8tan]

They joys of having to leave my comp halfway through typing a post
Think what you want tbh, if they find out I'm the one thats gotta deal with it, so I don't give a rats ass about all these self righteous replies. As for them being cheated on, tough? Different people react different ways, deal with it. It's funny how people go on a mission about me seeing three women but yet those same people who would want to kill me are against going to war with a tyrant and mass murdering fuck nut.
End of the day I'm bored of this whole flame shite, gg etc.