A question about the female of the species.

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Xtro 2.0

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Originally posted by old.ignus

Problem is I don't know what, any suggestions?

I'm lucky enough to live near a great comedy club (the MC is Toby Foster from Phoenix Nights). Cracking atmosphere and you can't fail to have a laugh even when the acts are bad its fun watching them die on stage. Anything like that near you? Makes a change from cinema/meal etc, nice ice breaker.

/edit: NEVER, I repeat NEVER, sit at the front! They always banter and then rip the piss out of people sat at the front - wouldn't want your date watch you die of embarrassment in front of her on the first date :)
 
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Jupitus

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Originally posted by Xtro 2.0
wouldn't want your date watch you die of embarrassment in front of her on the first date :)

... unless you're going for the sympathy shag tactic ....;)
 
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Delboy

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Right, things to do:

First date? Make it no longer than 2hours. That's enough to get a taste of you, but not long enough for the date to go pear shaped.

So you leave on a good note, they are left with some good memories which they'll associate with you when you meet up next.


Have a plan, be prepared, how well do you know the area you're going to? Check some places out, so you can change things on the spot if need be.

When making decisions, dont go "Well,what do you want to do? Where do you think we should go?"

Take the lead, be decisive, but that doesnt mean"Right we're going there and thats that" :) Just make the decisions seems "easy" to you. (That impresses folk)

Ok, on the date.....

Get her to talk about herself, and tap into good times she's had, even romantic times. when that happens, there's more of a chance she may think of you that way and associate you with good memories.

People are attracted to folk who have a passion for life, who have direction and seem in control of their lives, as well as not taking it too seriously. Something to bear in mind.
 
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old.ignus

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fantastic suggestions but unfortunately no comedy clubs here which is a shame because we share the same taste is comedy, the wonderful genius that is Eddie Izzard. Just phoned her now and she's already going to the cinema with a friend so missed out there, have to wait until wednesday now.
 
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Jonny_Darko

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Well, for a start, you've phoned her too early. You shouldn't even have done that until Wednesday.

This comes across as overly knowledgable for the guy that started the thread whinging about his lack of skills with the ladies, but despite everything that's been said, I know women. (My problem lies in the 10 seconds or so that it takes to meet one.)

Don't be too keen!
 
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old.ignus

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Originally posted by Jonny_Darko
Well, for a start, you've phoned her too early. You shouldn't even have done that until Wednesday.

This comes across as overly knowledgable for the guy that started the thread whinging about his lack of skills with the ladies, but despite everything that's been said, I know women. (My problem lies in the 10 seconds or so that it takes to meet one.)

Don't be too keen!

Yup well aware of being too keen but let's face it, after a night out said girl came and got into bed with me, well I'll let you decide that one yourself. Anyway I think she liked me before and she's already agreed to go for dinner with me tommorrow night, now I have to decide where to take her.
 

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