When you come from home from uni?

[Everz]

Is it common to literally be out of the loop with everything?

Sucks ass, I want these 2 months to fly by.

 

[aika]

you have uni in the summer?

 

[Everz]

well came back home 3 weeks ago, and to say I seem to have no mates left here would be an understatement, everyone seems to have gone on in life. lame.

 

[Preatoria]

yes summer is so boring, they should make uni through the entire year ... no breaks , just learning & classes for x years non stop !
haha dude wtf is wrong !

 

[old.Tohtori]

Can relate to that. Time to start poking peeps for beer or just solo flight

 

[Fafnir]

Bah grow up and get a job

 

[Garaen]

Get a summer job?

 

[pikeh]

Aye during Uni summer breaks I just wanted to see my Uni mates all the time. After we finished though, inevitably we grew apart and I've seen my best mates like 3 times since leaving (2 years ago). Im glad my home mates are still around though, they havn't changed a bit, and thats something that takes some getting used to, as I am a completely different person from when I started uni.

 

[Moriath]

i only ever went home my first summer at uni .. found it so boring even tho i got a summer job .. so rest of the time i spent as much as i could at uni town heh

 

[megadave]

i'm not a complete loser so i still have loads of friends, just most of them have jobs and i'm completely skint

 

[Everz]

Job has been something i cant find, don't help how high unemployment is in wolvo, but yeh I got a good few mates, most buggered off on hols/working or just generally settled down. But I seemed to have missed out on sorting out on everything that was going on this summer (though fairly as they were under the assumption I wouldnt be back).

Sucks ;d.

 

[CorNokZ]

Living on campus and losing your friends, lol

 

[Everz]

That made no sense coke.

 

[CorNokZ]

I live 40minutes from my uni, so I still hang out with all my regular mates on a daily basis and my uni mates, even during the summer

 

[Everz]

bastid.

 

[Aoami]

i dont go home from uni now

 

[megadave]

u have no mates at home or at uni !

 

[Aoami]

at least i have a job at uni!

 

[Everz]

but aoam is ginger :<.

 

[Aoami]

great primary school insults here lads, keep it up while u play daoc together ololol

 

[Dukat]

well came back home 3 weeks ago, and to say I seem to have no mates left here would be an understatement, everyone seems to have gone on in life. lame.

I can relate to this - I joined the Army

To be honest I dont miss some of the 'mates' I had back at home, and the fact that they've moved on in some cases has been a bit of a blessing in disguise. Sure there are a few who I've looked up and tried to orginise a night out on the piss for old time's sake, but in most cases its never really worked out as I'd imagined it - they've gone thier way and I've gone mine.

I think the trick is to keep looking forward, leave the people who have become disinterested in the past and remember that there'll always be people about that you'll work and study with, some of whom you'll grow to call friends

Take Uni as it comes and after its done you'll move into circles where you'll most likely be mixing with much more like-minded people, as far as I can see, anyway.

 

[Saraden]

My closests friends are still the ones i had at upper primary school / high school. So while spending a month at my hometown scratching my belly, I've got a lot of possibilities to see em. Hanging out at the seaside, summer cottages and so.

Don't get me wrong tho, i've got lot of people at my uni town too, but the closests ones, and the ones i'll most likely stick with at the future too, are the old ones from my hometown.

Kind of wierd actually, since the people i've met at my uni town are probably more "like minded", but still i prefer this mixup of different people i have here.

Maybe this has something to do with my hometown being a quite small place, so people tend to grow up together more than in a bigger place where you end up being in with a lot of different people anyways.

 

[megadave]

just went to a festival with the exact same 14 people i went to afestival with at the start of college, like 6 years ago

 

[Punishment]

Hai Everz ill be your friend

 

[CorNokZ]

Don't get a dog and go off to uni..

 

[Everz]

Could be the mindset of people in Wolverhampton tbh, quite thick and cliquey, unfriendly at that tbh.

 

[old.Tohtori]

Don't get a dog and go off to uni..

Actually that really gets on my sore spot, people who get a pet of any kind and then think it's ok to go off with their life.

 

[megadave]

what about cats? they couldnt give a fuck

 

[aika]

this doesnt compare to what I felt when I came back after 3 years in the army.
However in uni atm , I don't go home often, but most of my friends are in uni too, so we seem to be on even ground

 

[Laddey]

great primary school insults here lads, keep it up while u play daoc together ololol

haha nice one