Right, i'm looking for advice here cuz i totally have no fuckin idea what to do.
Scenario: I like this girl. I went round her house (dad's house - her parents are divorced) and need-less to say it was a M-E-S-S. The pots and pans from the breakfast hadn't been washed, the rooms were a mess and needed hovering and worse of all the toilet was nasty. Strange thing is, the girl in question manages to keep herself looking in top-shape.
Now I'm a very fussy person when it comes to hygiene. I love everything to be TOTALLY CLEAN. I'm not asking for her house to be 'totally clean' but rather it to be nicer and cleaner.
Can anyone suggest whether a) asking this is ok and b) how the hell I actually ask it without sounding rude, disrepsectful etc. May I add that i'd even give her a hand tidying it up if she agreed to it.
Thanks in advance.
Scenario: I like this girl. I went round her house (dad's house - her parents are divorced) and need-less to say it was a M-E-S-S. The pots and pans from the breakfast hadn't been washed, the rooms were a mess and needed hovering and worse of all the toilet was nasty. Strange thing is, the girl in question manages to keep herself looking in top-shape.
Now I'm a very fussy person when it comes to hygiene. I love everything to be TOTALLY CLEAN. I'm not asking for her house to be 'totally clean' but rather it to be nicer and cleaner.
Can anyone suggest whether a) asking this is ok and b) how the hell I actually ask it without sounding rude, disrepsectful etc. May I add that i'd even give her a hand tidying it up if she agreed to it.
Thanks in advance.