Ways to turn men down

[elisera]

Honestly now, how often does that happen?

I've done it countless times tbh...

 

[Lamp]

I do the cooking, washing and ironing and my bf does the dishes, hoovering and general tidying

Umm...can both of you come over to my place ? You'll have to decide which one of you dusts the tops of my door frames ofc...

I've leave a pizza or Chinese / Indian take out on the side.

Leave the key under the mat !

Thanksh

 

[Eeben]

But would you take offence if she offered to pay?

hmm not really

 

[Eeben]

Honestly now, how often does that happen?

you got a point!

 

[Spis]

I've done it countless times tbh...

Wanna go out with me sometime? *blush*

 

[elisera]

Then you would come under the gentlemanly side of things Eeben, not out of thinking it is your role to pay

 

[elisera]

Wanna go out with me sometime? *blush*

Sorry but I have a boyfriend

 

[Kathal]

I guess things must be different in Copenhagen...

It might be. I think it's like that in many big cities. I have had this discussion before and I got the feeling that it’s like that when it’s easy for a girl to just sit back and expect everything will come to her. Btw remember that we are very beautiful here in Copenhagen
Lots of tourists say that about us anyways.

I don't think either party should feel like they HAVE to pay every time.

I couldn’t agree more.

EDIT. AAAAAGH!!!! This is going too fast. I got to work. brb.

 

[Lamp]

*finishes reading the posts*

LOL and people are surprised when they have a massive argument about money and break up !

Send your problems to Elisera_and_Lamp@FreddysAgonyAuntPage.cum

 

[elisera]

It might be. I think it's like that in many big cities. I have had this discussion before and I got the feeling that it’s like that when it’s easy for a girl to just sit back and expect everything will come to her.

In my experience alot of girls feel uncomfortable with guys paying all the time as it makes them feel like he will expect something in return...

 

[Eeben]

Lots of tourists say that about us anyways.

by tourists you mean drunk swedish ppl so that dont count

 

[elisera]

*finishes reading the posts*

LOL and people are surprised when they have a massive argument about money and break up !

Send your problems to Elisera_and_Lamp@FreddysAgonyAuntPage.cum

LOL Just think of all the relationships we could save Lamp

 

[Eeben]

In my experience alot of girls feel uncomfortable with guys paying all the time as it makes them feel like he will expect something in return...

Think most men always expect something doesnt even matter if you have talkt to them yet

 

[Spis]

Sorry but I have a boyfriend

Will have to remember some of these for future use Lots better than the plain old "Sorry I have a boyfriend"...

Confused again

 

[Lamp]

In my experience alot of girls feel uncomfortable with guys paying all the time as it makes them feel like he will expect something in return...

In my experience feeling uncomfortable paying for guys....no thats not it....in my experience feeling alot of girls all the time....dammit thats not it either....ah sod it...

 

[elisera]

Confused again

Didn't dare use one of the OP ones as I might get attacked! lol

 

[Lamp]

LOL Just think of all the relationships we could save Lamp

Hello Samaritans ?

 

[elisera]

Quit while you are ahead Lamp...

 

[Naetha]

Btw remember that we are very beautiful here in Copenhagen
Lots of tourists say that about us anyways.

Since when has what you look like got anything to do with how you should be treated, or how you expect to be treated?

If I was a supermodel, or if I was a complete munter (I like to think I'm somewhere between the two) I'd still expect to be treated the same. I wouldn't object to having doors held open for me etc, but I wouldn't expect it all the time. Same goes for paying for stuff, just because I was good looking I wouldn't expect to pay for stuff.

Imo generally couples should take it in turns to pay for bills (but generally agree it beforehand or you could be left in a sticky situation); if one person is phenominally richer than the other then I don't think its rude for them to pay for the majority of stuff, as long as a) they don't mind, and b) you make the effort to offer.

If you are paying for someone all the time because they are beautiful, then why are you going out with them? Are you essentially paying them to look pretty on your arm? If so, then I feel sorry for you, and hope you find a meaningful relationship soon.

 

[Lamp]

Quit while you are ahead Lamp...

/sheepish

 

[Kathal]

by tourists you mean drunk swedish ppl so that dont count

Naa, actually heard a few older tourist say it on the news a month ago. I'm not sure what it was about. Guess it was something with "What do you think about Copenhagen"

 

[Spis]

Didn't dare use one of the OP ones as I might get attacked! lol

You br0ke my heart

- Naetha, up for a date?!

 

[Kathal]

Since when has what you look like got anything to do with how you should be treated, or how you expect to be treated?
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I'll have to get back to you on that . . . .




afk

 

[Naetha]

You br0ke my heart

- Naetha, up for a date?!

I'm married, sorry




(see, thats even better than "I've got a boyfriend!")

 

[elisera]

Since when has what you look like got anything to do with how you should be treated, or how you expect to be treated?

If I was a supermodel, or if I was a complete munter (I like to think I'm somewhere between the two) I'd still expect to be treated the same. I wouldn't object to having doors held open for me etc, but I wouldn't expect it all the time. Same goes for paying for stuff, just because I was good looking I wouldn't expect to pay for stuff.

Imo generally couples should take it in turns to pay for bills (but generally agree it beforehand or you could be left in a sticky situation); if one person is phenominally richer than the other then I don't think its rude for them to pay for the majority of stuff, as long as a) they don't mind, and b) you make the effort to offer.

If you are paying for someone all the time because they are beautiful, then why are you going out with them? Are you essentially paying them to look pretty on your arm? If so, then I feel sorry for you, and hope you find a meaningful relationship soon.

Damn not being able to rep you any more!!

:worthy:

 

[Lamp]

Maybe I was in the wrong place at the wrong time but last time I was in Copenhagen (April 5 years ago - Tivoli was shut ) I didn't see that many stunning goddesses.

Then again I was with my gf...

 

[Eeben]

Damn not being able to rep you any more!!

:worthy:

i will be a gentleman an do it for you then

 

[Spis]

I'm married, sorry




(see, thats even better than "I've got a boyfriend!")

This is getting old

 

[Naetha]

This is getting old

Whats more, I'm married to a geek and a gamer

(Thats why I got so high a score on the geek test!)

 

[elisera]

Well, I'm afraid I must love you and leave you all dissecting the finer points of realtionships as I must go home and get dinner on!

See you all tomorrow!