Erm, said nothing about self benefit :S The opposite for "dont expect anyone to do anything for you" would be "expect everyone to do everything for you" and the opposite for "be ready to put lots of effort in it" would be "dont be ready to put any effort in it", no? (hint: expect is the keyword here)psyco said:eh? doing stuff for self benifit contantly is selfish... witch is what you said, dont expect any one to do anything for you
The fat kid for example is expecting others to make him a group because he cant be arsed to put any effort to make one by himself. Get it?