Health and Safety gone mad, again.Tough, it's been shut down by the state.
A pregnancy test later and we were both smiling from ear to ear, semi-unplanned but who gives a fuck, she is the one for me and I knew that all along so I was delighted. That said, we are going to try again right away, on Valentines Day we got engaged and are now looking at planning a wedding for June 2014 god willing. We will have been together almost 2 years by then, it's plenty of time to figure everything out and prepare, alot of friends/family think we have rushed it but balls to them all, we both know how we feel and things were electric before the miscarriage but since it happened we are so much closer in every way and so it's time for the old boy to marry the girl of his dreams.
Wish me luck!
I understand where you are coming from bud, however we are both rapidly approaching 38 and the odds of it happening again are low to start with, we don't have years to waste figuring all this out. So, we are taking a risk yes but we are nuts about each other, neither of us has been in a relationship anything like this close and so we both want to try now and risk the consquences. She has alot more to lose than me really, she owns her own home, has a middle managament job that she has been working towards for 20 years with the same firm. Once we got over the initial bumps though she was adamant that she wanted me and this life, I 100% knew the same about her and so fuck it, here we go.
I don't think you have rushed it at all. Me and the wife were engaged after about 3 months of being together, married 18 months later...that was 11 years ago this year. Her parents were married within 3 months of meeting, that was 40 odd years ago (still together)
Sad to hear about the pregnancy
Good luck to you cHodAX especially given the earlier part of your post. Life is too short to worry about what has come before or what others may say.Wish me luck!
Start + Pause = System info window. Other than that, not a whole lot nowadays.
