Jjuraa
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Serosh said:You don't put yourself in both sides, Jjuraa, you put yourself solely in the side of the victim, you allow hate and revenge to consume your person, it sounds like a hollow, pointless existance to me. Frankly, I wonder if you have a fucking clue what you are talking about.
And I pity you for your bloodlust, I hope you're just using an "on-line character" here, if not, well, I'll just pity you some more.
I have lost friends, family, people I knew only by name but still managed to touch me in some way. I lost them to cancer, murder, accidents, suicide. I've seen my best friend almost destroying herself trying to come to terms with her being sexually violated by a family member, only to find herself raped again. I learned from it how fickle fate can be, I mourn the passing of those I lost, I feel anger to those things and people that took them away, but I don't hate them, hate is such a pointless, futile exercise in the end. In the end, they are still 6 feet under, decomposing, what I do, or believe, will not change that.
You chose the values of death and revenge, people like you make me glad I chose life. One day, I hope for your sake, you will realise that all that anger you carry will not bring your hypothetical loved ones back. You are only sullying their hypothetical memory with your calls for revenge.
You want, as a hypothetical dad, see the murderer of your hypothetical daughter executed? Bugger that, how about comforting your hypothetical wife? How about keeping your hypothetical other kids on track? I'm sure they'd love their hypothetical daddy brooding over the death of their hypothetical sister all day.
The weak are consumed by hate, the strong find a way to carry on with their lives.
Yes, you hit a snare, I'm not going to allow myself to be called emotionless by tossers like yourself who think they are da shiz by insulting those who hold different values.
For someone doing their best to make a structured point, you failed horribly at what i like to call the first hurdle:- Not being a complete hypocrite.
From just one forum post from me you've had to resort to name calling and irrelevant insults to try and "get at me". Now this says to me you can't even keep your cool on an online forum, so what chance do you have in real life after your daughter has been chain raped?
I thought so.
I dont think I'm "da shiz" and i am looking at things from both sides, it's hard for me to look through the eyes of a senseless killer because i don't have that inside me, but i try. And i dont see why i should deserve to live after doing something like that.
Serosh said:you allow hate and revenge to consume your person ... hate is such a pointless, futile exercise in the end
This is not starwars, you are not the emporer, i don't know how many times you have seen that movie or why you have drummed into your head the illogical conclusion that hate is pointless. Why do you think hate is here in the first place? For the same reason as anger, fear, happiness.
They are useful emotions, use them.