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Jonny_Darko
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Some of you may remember I was going to give this a go...
...well, it was very enjoyable, if a bit weird.
However, I think it has back-fired - this was supposed to be my last hope for getting my confidence back, but out of 26 women, none of them liked me...I don't know how I'm supposed to move on from here. It's like, I had a problem talking to women because I don't think I'm what they want, everyone told me I was being daft and making it up, but this seems to prove it all. Over 80% of men get a match, and the average is about 4 matches, which has made me feel like a complete freak.
Dammit I'm a good looking, intelligent and funny lad who's something a bit different from the rank and file bloke. Looking at the blokes there I would have said I was one of the better catches. I would have thought that three minutes wouldn't have been enough time for me to say something daft but I must have done.
I must be doing something fundamentally wrong. Smiling? I was. Listening? Yes. Eye contact? Yep. I thought I did fine.
However, I did lose my form. Which had comments boxes for every lady. Now I'm certain I had it at the train station, but it's always possible I left it at the bar...and if one of the ladies found it and showed it around it would explain everything.
I was there on my own, I was a bit tipsy, and I tried to amuse myself by writing comments such as "chubby but I would" and worse things that are actually quite out of character for me...how could I be so stupid?
So either a) I lost my form elsewhere and maybe they just all disliked me.
or b) they all looked at my comments, thought I was a prick and decided not to tick me even if they already had.
I prefer b) although I'm angry at myself if that did happen. I'm going to try again though so if I did leave my form I can only pray that none of the girls are there again from this time.
...well, it was very enjoyable, if a bit weird.
However, I think it has back-fired - this was supposed to be my last hope for getting my confidence back, but out of 26 women, none of them liked me...I don't know how I'm supposed to move on from here. It's like, I had a problem talking to women because I don't think I'm what they want, everyone told me I was being daft and making it up, but this seems to prove it all. Over 80% of men get a match, and the average is about 4 matches, which has made me feel like a complete freak.
Dammit I'm a good looking, intelligent and funny lad who's something a bit different from the rank and file bloke. Looking at the blokes there I would have said I was one of the better catches. I would have thought that three minutes wouldn't have been enough time for me to say something daft but I must have done.
I must be doing something fundamentally wrong. Smiling? I was. Listening? Yes. Eye contact? Yep. I thought I did fine.
However, I did lose my form. Which had comments boxes for every lady. Now I'm certain I had it at the train station, but it's always possible I left it at the bar...and if one of the ladies found it and showed it around it would explain everything.
I was there on my own, I was a bit tipsy, and I tried to amuse myself by writing comments such as "chubby but I would" and worse things that are actually quite out of character for me...how could I be so stupid?
So either a) I lost my form elsewhere and maybe they just all disliked me.
or b) they all looked at my comments, thought I was a prick and decided not to tick me even if they already had.
I prefer b) although I'm angry at myself if that did happen. I'm going to try again though so if I did leave my form I can only pray that none of the girls are there again from this time.
