Last night..

Wonk

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.. I became single again :( it was my own decision, but it still hurts to disappoint someone you once loved. I still think she's a fantastic person though.

Sorry for the emoness, but the wonkinator can't be too emotional around friends :)
 

Ezteq

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aw wonk, hope you adjust to singleness with ease (it's a very strange thing being an I instead of a we, strange but not a bad thing). Take heart honey, if you feel it was the right thing to do then good on you (better end something that's not right than stay there just because it is easier) take care of yourself.
Have a hug from me my dear
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xxx
 

Wonk

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(better end something that's not right than stay there just because it is easier)
xxx

That's what I thought. She still loved me though. It makes me feel like an absolute ass :(
 

old.Tohtori

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Not gonna say aww etc since you made your own bed, but will ask why?

Cheating?
Not hot enough?
Better one in scope?
"Different places in life" or other excuse like that? :p
 

Wonk

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It felt more like she was my friend than my girlfriend in the end.
 

old.Tohtori

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It felt more like she was my friend than my girlfriend in the end.

Isn't that where most relationships end up in?

First fizzles and bangs(har) out the way, then settle into the gray repetition that is life and share things in a emaningful way yada yada bull bologny :p

Girlfriend, or wife even, is basically a best friend with a nookie privilages.

If that's the only reason to dump her, then it might be a mistake.
 

Wonk

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what's a relationship without love though?

I'm not going to argue about this, however in the end I felt it was the right thing to do :)
 

soze

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Sorry to hear this as a recently single guy all i can say is keep your head up, the minute you start to dwell your in trouble. As it was your choice it should make things a bit easier.
 

old.Tohtori

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what's a relationship without love though?

I'm not going to argue about this, however in the end I felt it was the right thing to do :)

Not at all wanting to argue, just poking some in case you weren't 100% sure. Ofcourse your own choice and you know best for yourself :p
 

Ezteq

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cripes we're all getting dumped or dumping someone on this forum atm, maybe we should all go out for mojitos and retail therapy?..and when I say retail, I mean cheeseburgers.


To all dumpers/dumpees on FH I wish you a splendid summer, health and happiness in whatever form you may find it.
 

Aoami

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Unlucky, i had a great night last night. Saw some old friends, close friends and new friends, got very drunk, was so happy.

sux2bu.
 

Ch3tan

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cripes we're all getting dumped or dumping someone on this forum atm, maybe we should all go out for mojitos and retail therapy?..and when I say retail, I mean cheeseburgers.


To all dumpers/dumpees on FH I wish you a splendid summer, health and happiness in whatever form you may find it.

If you like mojitos, try a caipirinha, much nicer IMO.
 

Roo Stercogburn

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I wanted to try a Mojito after watching Burn Notice. I regret bothering. Its like alcohol with all the fun taken out :(
 

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Roo Stercogburn

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You had a shit mojito, this is common, very few bars make them properly.

This heartens me. As much as I love seeing Bruce Campbell in stuff, lets face it, he's not that good an actor and he really seems to enjoy them :D
 

Bahumat

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Ahh sorry to hear that mate. Hope it all works out for the best.
 

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F*ck me, i think i've just seen soemthing even i woldn't write :p


You need to get in train lad.

Feel for Wonk - it's a bit of an arse situation when you fall out of love but still like them. Can't keep stringing them along though.

(but congrats for apparently having the adulation of all of FH).
 

TdC

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sorry to hear Wonk. my general advice is to keep your head up. I know it sounds hard atm, sorry :(
 

Mey

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My ex said that to me, wtf does that even mean. It felt like you were my friend. I mean seriously?
 

Ch3tan

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My ex said that to me, wtf does that even mean. It felt like you were my friend. I mean seriously?

It means they don't love you in anyway more than a friend any more.
 

Mey

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Then, (thread hijack) they never loved you in the first place.

Love vs. lust i guess.
 

Ch3tan

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No, you are assuming it is impossible to change how you feel about someone. If you can fall in love with someone, you can fall out of love with them too.
 

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