Is this acceptable?

The ONLY rule you should be thinking of is the spitroast rule.

You are young, fuck it, see 7 ladies if you want, I personally could never do that due to me not being arsed.

 

I think you have to be officially seeing (Bf/Gf) someone for you to be classified as cheating.

If you're just sort of in an open relationship, I wouldn't say there were rules, more etiquette.

 

Pfft I should so be ahead of Teedles, he runs out of steam after 4 thrusts.

 

If its fine with both sides then do whatever you like, when He/She turns around and says they want an exclusive relationship either do so or get rid of them If you like the person that much i am sure you will be willing to stay exclusive.

 

You are completely right Teedles! Most men would indeed pale to insignificance beside your vast stamina!

 

you could always use the rule of "if it moves fuck it"..."if it doesn't move fuck it anyway"

 

Can't see any problems to be honest, just don't tell them about each other. My only issue is the fact there's only two of them. That's just lacking ambition

 

i think its fine untill one of you asks the other if you are commited.

happend to me recently. i met some girl while i was working, got her number and went out on a 'date'. we went out on another one then a few days later i got a message asking if we were "together". i was obviously quite scared by this and promptly told her NO. then i didnt speak to her for 2.5 weeks and she text me while i was on holiday asking if i was back.

thank fuck she doesnt know where i live, stalkers are scary

 

Hah, if I started seeing you, and then discovered you were covertly sliding your dangleys into another woman, but it was okay because I hadn't yet stumbled across the secret password of [fourteen year old at the disco]Will you go out with me[/fourteen year old at the disco] then I would poo in your cupboard and leave.

But hey, maybe I'm just an angry woman, and other girls would be delighted.

 

The issue of this is quite complicated, since people(no offense, but women in particular) several stages of being together.

Dating, seeing eachother, exclusive, this and that.

I once had a girl almost bite my head off because i mentioned in a bar discussion, when someone asked if we are together, that "Yes we are."

She thought we were only seeing/dating.

It's a personal, individual thing and the best thing to do is to talk about it, as is with all things.

 

i wouldn't do it because i think it's a bit harsh. but then i'm a big softie

 

I so want you right now.

 

you cheating bastard

 

*poohs on Mank*

 

That's the American view. It's accepted for men over there to date as many women as they like at the same time.

Personally, I think only selfish ***** do it. But that's just me

If you're looking for a more serious reason why I think it's wrong then it's because it commoditizes women (amongst other things).

Seems fair to me




Flip it around to get a different perspective.

How do you feel when you find out that the bird you quite liked has actually been getting the shaft from 3 other guys that week? (Hopefully none of them your brother or best mate).

Apart from the fact that I don't like stirring porridge, or feeling like a throwaway commodity, I have always found that women who act this way are emotionally broken.

Evidence?

If she did nearly bite your head off for such a small and inconsequential verbal mishap then that shows you how much value she attributed to your feelings. That's possibly because if you objected she could be bouncing on someone else's in 5 seconds flat and she knew it?

Looks like you walked away from a high-maintenance nightmare.



Still. I wish I'd boned more women

 

Exactly.

Will we lie on our death beds wishing we had been faithful or wishing we had boned more womens?

It isn't for me but it is for other people. Horses for courses tbh.

 

I don't know.


If I'd done it a lot I can imagine that I'd have problems forming lasting relationships, because halfway through any argument I'd be thinking man it's so easy to find a replacement...

It's probably a small part of the reason why half of marriages are failing nowadays? (Not that I believe in marriage anyway)


Who can tell.

 

apparently were supposed to shag 20 people in a lifetime.
if you dont want to be wondering on your death bed, just get the quota in and then settle down.

 

Well, duh. Its acceptable to see as many people as you like if they know you're doing it. If they don't, then 'seeing' or 'dating' or any other word you care to use is just bullshit.

When did they pass that law then? Will I get fined for exceeding my quota?

 

Seriously every other person that posts in general is a mod :|

As for "seeing 2 ladies" Why not..you're young as long as one of them doesn't think you're in a commited relationship.

 

i've had 4/5 on the go no sweat, once you say to each other lets date properly then you should stop the others

also i never want to know if the lass is doing the same rules

 

Dont believe that, i smacked that by the time i was 19