old.Tohtori
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So, there's a girl(as there always is). Man that sounded like a nice start for a story
Anyway, she's spoken for, boyfriend, whatnot. Long distance i believe.
She's also goodlooking, fun, cool, etc, nice all around. Thinks i'm fun to hang with too, flirty as hell for all reasons added.
Now my moral code(if there is one) has always, ALWAYS kept me away from women who are in a relationship. Don't want to be that guy,m dont want to cause the trouble, don't need the trouble and so forth.
We've been hanging on various bar outs, had fun, and look behold, i'm interested in her. Always really have been, but put that aside after i heard she was involved. There's no "looooove" thing here, just interest, more perhaps then "i want that" interest.
So, hmm, what to ask. Experiences? Screw past morals? Go for it?(honestly would you?, not just "go for it cause it's not me")
I've never -reslly- put the moves on her, even jokingly told her i haven't or she'd be in trouble. Which was appropriately met with a laugh and a wink.
It's fun, all around, and i'm not really sure if it would be worth to go for it. Worst case; she'll bolt like a bullet from a .50 cal. I could ofcourse just leave it "es ist".
Bah.
Ofcourse this thread is basically useless as it's "go with gut" thing, but maybe there's some insight, revelation, warning out there.
Anyway, she's spoken for, boyfriend, whatnot. Long distance i believe.
She's also goodlooking, fun, cool, etc, nice all around. Thinks i'm fun to hang with too, flirty as hell for all reasons added.
Now my moral code(if there is one) has always, ALWAYS kept me away from women who are in a relationship. Don't want to be that guy,m dont want to cause the trouble, don't need the trouble and so forth.
We've been hanging on various bar outs, had fun, and look behold, i'm interested in her. Always really have been, but put that aside after i heard she was involved. There's no "looooove" thing here, just interest, more perhaps then "i want that" interest.
So, hmm, what to ask. Experiences? Screw past morals? Go for it?(honestly would you?, not just "go for it cause it's not me")
I've never -reslly- put the moves on her, even jokingly told her i haven't or she'd be in trouble. Which was appropriately met with a laugh and a wink.
It's fun, all around, and i'm not really sure if it would be worth to go for it. Worst case; she'll bolt like a bullet from a .50 cal. I could ofcourse just leave it "es ist".
Bah.
Ofcourse this thread is basically useless as it's "go with gut" thing, but maybe there's some insight, revelation, warning out there.