girli questions

[Nichneven]

Originally posted by Spinky
Personally I think that people hook up because they pretty much want to screw each others brains out, then the relationship becomes something else when you get to know them, you start to actually care about them and become protective. You find out about the little things that make you see them in a different light, you begin to love them I guess (folly imo ). Pretty much doubt you knew it would happen but it does for some reason, it's the little things that make relationships last.

I think that's very possible but how about a little bit of a twist?

I met my fiance online - we never ever saw each other, but fell in love with each other's personalities. We wrote letters, eventually sent pictures to each other... etc. For us, looks weren't the first, most important thing...

It's a bonus that he just happened to be so cute looking. ^^ We started visiting each other (he's a brit and I'm American) and became more attached than ever. We've been together for 5 years now... almost 6... and we'll be getting married soon!

So, yes, I think at times looks can give a good first impression... and then as u say maybe the relationship will blossom. But it's quite possible to find love before all of the naked romping :moon: :whip:

 

[Spinky]

As mentioned above, i'm in full on bullshit mode right now, name a topic and i'll write 10000 words on how apple sauce flavoured chipolatas and mexican beans prevented WW2 from happening prematurely during the great depression using only a spoon and one chopstick :hat:

 

[Nichneven]

I'm so bored here at work right now that I just might read that
:sleeping:

 

[Munkey-]

I say! Someone else with a cowboy bebop avatar! Pity i lost mine in the computer crash

 

[Nichneven]

Altho I think Faye could use more clothes, i like her character quite a lot

 

[Munkey-]

I prefer Ed, comedy relief and pure innocence in a bun!


Everyone at school hates me now because i keep saying "spike" in the same way Jet says it

 

[Nichneven]

I like Ed, too... makes me laugh over and over again

 

[Munkey-]

I say dear girl, your head appears to have fallen off!

 

[illu]

So has squeakyfrog got back with her man?

I personally wouldn't take back someone that has run off with someone else, even though it might be so very tempting at times....

I think couples split up for a reason, and unless that reason can be resolved, then there is no point in getting back together.

It is a shame to "throw away" 4-5 years of your life, but it is all a learning experience, and even though you may become more bitter, you take the positives out of the relationship and move on looking for the next perfect partner (if there is such a thing).

Women can always get men far easier than men can get women (unless you are brad pitt) as at the end of the day - they have the final say. I think I saw a program once where they got 2 very attractive students, a bloke and a girl and took them seperately to bars, and they had to go up to members of the opposite sex and finish the conversation with "Do you want to sleep with me?". I think about 30% of the women said to the guy - yes, and about 90% of the guys said yes to the woman


Further reading about men and women and whether they can be friends can be found here :-

http://www.intellectualwhores.com/masterladder.html

Anyway I hope squeakyfrog is ok and tries to move on.....

The time it takes to move on from splitting up is proportional to who did the dumping and length of relationship. If you are the "dumper" - you get over it very quickly. If you are the "dumped" - then I reckon 4 months for every year you went out with the person is how long it takes to really start getting them out of your system........

...and some ppl say you never get over some ex's.......

Good Luck

Oli - ILLU