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GimmlyTheDorf

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Elkie said:
Ive had plenty of fights but never in school had load out of school but never went to the police, but when you fight someone should always let em hit you first as they get charged with assult and you are using self defence
Yep but try and avoid the fist hitting you're face though :( .
 

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If you did nothing too provoke the reaction from the 2 peope and your "friends" sat by and didnt chirp up a single word in your defence they are not real friends.

I define a friend as someone who is as close too you as too be concidered almost family you may only have one or two of these all the way through your life, all the rest are just aquaintances who will come and go and most likely shit on you at some point along the way.
 

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if a friend of mine got into a fight i would help out if they got into a fight because they provoked it i would only help if they were outnumbered, at the end of the day dont start something if ur not prepared to finish it.
 

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Real friends stand up for each other. So imo they aren't real friends. Unless you did something bad and deserved some hits :d


Elkie said:
PS. Bugz i dont suggest fighting to you unles its the absolute last resource you do it in school you risk getting expelled and if you do it on the streets youl have the Police on you

So true and you are way too skinny to fight :D
 

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Elkie said:
Ive had plenty of fights but never in school had load out of school but never went to the police, but when you fight someone should always let em hit you first as they get charged with assult and you are using self defence

No wonder you get into alot of melee fights with your shitty positioning! :D <3
 

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GimmlyTheDorf said:
Maybe he's talking about Elkie, but I have seen a pic of you and you do look too small to fight :p

Meh, I'll shoot up from 5'6 pretty soon (hopefully) xD
 

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Bugz m8 - you have got to decide for yourself whether what happened today has irreversibly damaged your friendship with these people. If so, I would suggest you weren't particularly close in the first place.

I know LOADS of people, but the number of true, life-long friends for ever I have I can count on one hand. I have lost count the amount of shit that has gone on between us, but at the end of the day, our friendship was more important than anything else. Some people can forgive, others can't or won't. Just depends what these people mean to you.
 

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Meh, my dad is 5'5 and is a strong ****.

Power to the small!
 

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doriboor, maybe if you werent such a twat people wouldnt stab you in the back.

friends are the people you can 100% trust, i can probably count 5 people who fit into that slot, though ofc i have many more other not so close friends.

Hey, I'm just experienced in life and know what it will through it me, 90% of the people in this thread are unexperienced. You will learn in time.
 

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Bugz said:
Meh, my dad is 5'5 and is a strong ****.

Power to the small!

I'm only 5'8 hieght dosn't really matter majority of the times, just make sure you bring them down to your size first, so I suggest nice swift kick to the kneecap usuhally does the job xD
 

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noaim said:
No wonder you get into alot of melee fights with your shitty positioning! :D <3


Play your sm more noob. This is a off topic discussion no daoc shit here.


Again Bugz you may think you will reflect to be like your dad but it takes work to get strong and when your having a fight 50% of it is phsical strength 50% of it is mental I cant tell you how many stupid people dont even think about what their doing when fighting
 

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Bugz said:
What do you, as an individual, define friendship as?

This thought occured to me today when I was started on and my two mates, who id consider good friends, literally sat back and did nothing. Afterwards, they just offered me their sympathy as though, 'yeah, it was harsh mate but shit happens.'

In your view of this situation, would you consider these two fellows friends?

Do you think friends should stand out for one another at all costs or do you leave the individual to sort out his own problems.

Discuss.

It all comes down to "flight and fight". I have some really close friends who I know, if it kicked off, wouldnt back me up, but I dont think any less of them because I just know they arent the fighting type and dont have it in them. However, if they were on the receiving end, id shed blood for them. I wouldnt jump to conclusions about them nick, based on a fight. You see, my "hard" mates, dont really listen to me when I have problems if you will. They are no good at being "a shoulder to cry on". Again, I dont think any less of them. Thats why I like my circle of friends. I feel I have the best circle of friends in the world as they all have their different plus points. My truly bestest mate in the whole world however, is a mix of everything. Is there if I need him emotionally, and is always there if its about to kick off (not that it ever does, I just know he would have my back if it did)
 

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Elkie said:
when your having a fight 50% of it is phsical strength 50% of it is mental

This bit is not 100% right fighting is usually more mental then physical.

Elkie said:
I cant tell you how many stupid people dont even think about what their doing when fighting

This bit I agree with but then again people that don't fight alot are not going to know what to do and adrenaline takes over and some stupid shit happens eg windmilling :p
 

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Docwolfe is my friend. Well when I say friend I mean more along the lines of lackey really, I only let the guy hang around with me in the hope that my coolness will rub off on him. Sadly after 6 years it doesn't seem to be working, he is as dorky as ever and is such an embarresment when I take him out for walks on a lead.

He does try bless his little cotton socks and I suppose trying to live up to the expectations of someone as profoundly great as myself cannot be easy.
 

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Elkie said:
Play your sm more noob. This is a off topic discussion no daoc shit here.


Again Bugz you may think you will reflect to be like your dad but it takes work to get strong and when your having a fight 50% of it is phsical strength 50% of it is mental I cant tell you how many stupid people dont even think about what their doing when fighting
So true, you either have the mental state to win a fight or you just don't and the other is on strength you can't win a fight even if you fight like Mike Tyson on you’re feet if someone is stronger then you and knows how to use it you're screwed. You can be as good as puncher as you like but if someone is holding your arms or puts you on the floor, its night night time :(

The amount of fights I have seen or had with people that are a black belt in kick boxing or karatu or what ever art, lose fights and get there ass kicked by proper street fighting. Boxing is the only really useful one for the cardo and learning how to punch and how to avoid punches I really enjoyed it for the year I done it when I was 16 or so.

Bugz because of you’re size you will get hassle from people inside school or outside school, someone will always been trying to improve there thug rep in front of there g/f or mates or just being a general fucktard or chav. I would suggest you do some weight training and get some nice muscle and a bit of weight you can’t count on people to save you in fights or RL for that matter. If you want a training program just ask, I am sure Elkie doe’s training and would be willing to help you with stuff also.

Good bless weight training and being 6.3ft
 

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Gotrag said:
lol at that guy just spin mid air :p

Damn I so should of played Rugby :p
Rugby was good fun in secondarily school years for local club and school and up to 16 or so. But after that people just take it so damn seriously thinking there going to be pros etc so it just loses its fun.
 

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GimmlyTheDorf said:
If you want a training program just ask, I am sure Elkie doe’s training and would be willing to help you with stuff also.

Good bless weight training and being 6.3ft


I dont mind helping but the fact is hes a bit to young atm, best bet for him is to get some fighting skillz preferbly street fighting boxing is good for your stamina, been doing it for long time but things like boxing and crazy wrestling take downs mixed together = good street fighting

Or be like the crazy chav's that are round who pick off anything round them like metal bars and stuff. Wouldn't suggest that thoe
 

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Elkie said:
I dont mind helping but the fact is hes a bit to young atm, best bet for him is to get some fighting skillz preferbly street fighting boxing is good for your stamina, been doing it for long time but things like boxing and crazy wrestling take downs mixed together = good street fighting

Or be like the crazy chav's that are round who pick off anything round them like metal bars and stuff. Wouldn't suggest that thoe
He's like 16 isn't he? His pic made him look like 10 though :p . I agree Boxing is great on the cardo and he should learn how to punch probably :)
 

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GimmlyTheDorf said:
Rugby was good fun in secondarily school years for local club and school and up to 16 or so. But after that people just take it so damn seriously thinking there going to be pros etc so it just loses its fun.

funny that. In my 14+ years of playing rugby, ive never seen anyone with that attitude (well when I played pro I did but thats understandable).
 

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