Friends getting pissed off.

Ezteq

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deebs... babe... you know your the light of my life and i'd gladly suck the jam from your toes but change that freekin avitar man its eeeuch!!!


Toht, I honestly can't think of any advice i'll just say i hope it works out to a conclusion that your happy with.
 

Calaen

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Me and my friends are like Tris, we disagree have a bit of a heated debate then thats the end of it. Sitting round feeling sorry for yourself and waiting for someone else to do something is gash. By not doing anything now you are infact adding to the problem. She will be sitting there thinking exactly the same.

Grow a pair and just go and see her, dont even talk about whatever the thing was in the first place, just forget about it.
 

old.Tohtori

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Me and my friends are like Tris, we disagree have a bit of a heated debate then thats the end of it. Sitting round feeling sorry for yourself and waiting for someone else to do something is gash. By not doing anything now you are infact adding to the problem. She will be sitting there thinking exactly the same.

Grow a pair and just go and see her, dont even talk about whatever the thing was in the first place, just forget about it.

Didn't read the thread?

Not feeling sorry.
Did all i could.
She doesn't want to see or even talk.
a right proper huff-out.

F*ck off with your "grow a pair".
 

Calaen

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You asked for an opinion on a forum, I merely gave you a possible solution. Dont worry though I am sure you have already tried everything in the world and simply posted here to pass the time away rather than take anything constructive from it.

A real friend wouldnt even have to go through this shit, it would be finished with. If she does not want to see you move on get a new friend I am sure there are loads of people in Finland.

I was actually using the "grow a pair" term loosely I am pretty sure at your age you have some.
 

old.Tohtori

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You asked for an opinion on a forum, I merely gave you a possible solution. Dont worry though I am sure you have already tried everything in the world and simply posted here to pass the time away rather than take anything constructive from it.

Yes. Opinions are fine, that's why i posted, but getting "grow a pair" style isn't needed. Especially followed with "go and see her", which leads me to believe you just wanted to post quick without reading.

And furthermore, it's not just "leave her and find a new one", if you have any real good friends, you'd know that.
 

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And furthermore, it's not just "leave her and find a new one", if you have any real good friends, you'd know that.

then it sounds like you need to come to terms with the fact that she does not see you the same way. other wise she would of stopped being a twat 5 minutes after the problem started.

if she does not want to be your gr8 m8 anymore, then being a real friend you would do what ever it is that makes her feel happier. by the sounds of it, that would be not to bother her anymore.
 

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then it sounds like you need to come to terms with the fact that she does not see you the same way. other wise she would of stopped being a twat 5 minutes after the problem started.

if she does not want to be your gr8 m8 anymore, then being a real friend you would do what ever it is that makes her feel happier. by the sounds of it, that would be not to bother her anymore.

Well except that not all friends calm in 5 minutes, etc. But otherwise, yes, if she's happier along the line without, i'll f*ck off. I have no intention to force myself on people.
 

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deebs... babe... you know your the light of my life and i'd gladly suck the jam from your toes but change that freekin avitar man its eeeuch!!!

but.. but.. I like it!!!

hmm, what does toe jam taste it?
 

Calaen

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then it sounds like you need to come to terms with the fact that she does not see you the same way. other wise she would of stopped being a twat 5 minutes after the problem started.

if she does not want to be your gr8 m8 anymore, then being a real friend you would do what ever it is that makes her feel happier. by the sounds of it, that would be not to bother her anymore.

Agree with Tris.

I also wasnt trying to be a twat, I had read the post and responded based on how I respond to my friends after a disagreement. The answer is nothing its really not necessary if you are as close as you say you are.

It could be like Tris says maybe she does not view your friendship in the same manner as you see it, if so thats a shame. Anway I hope you sort it out.
 

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