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old.Tohtori

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*looks left*

*looks right*

Nike it dude, nike it!

EDIT:

Seriously though, if you got a girl who's willing to live with YOU* for the rest of her life, the rock doesn't matter. With 200 you could add plenty of romance in there; find her stone(you know, amethyst etc) and get a ring made out of that. Personal and something different.

If she's into the worth of your relationship via the worth of the ring, she's not for you.

* - had to :D
 

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edit:// I tried hard not to, so hard. But I must.

Laddey, Elizabeth Duke from Argos?
 

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All i want is to make her happy
 

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I don't think an engagement ring will help her, if she's unhappy :) she'll just get confused
 

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Haha i smiled before i even seen your post you cock. I knew it'd be something stupid.

I don't think an engagement ring will help her, if she's unhappy :) she'll just get confused

we've never been as happy, i've never been as happy and nor has she. So lets take it to the next level. I love her man, i want to spend my life with her.
 

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Then, without trying to sound rude, do both of you a favour and do not propose.

So many things to consider before marriage, you are what, barely 20? Do you need the success rate for marriages in this country? It is not something you should just jump in to.

Do you live together, how long for? If you don't then how do you know if you'll be able to? Do you want the same things from life, are you financially secure?

I could go on, but I have a feeling that there is no point and that you would not be able to answer even those few questions.
 

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Then, without trying to sound rude, do both of you a favour and do not propose.

So many things to consider before marriage, you are what, barely 20? Do you need the success rate for marriages in this country? It is not something you should just jump in to.

Do you live together, how long for? If you don't then how do you know if you'll be able to? Do you want the same things from life, are you financially secure?

I could go on, but I have a feeling that there is no point and that you would not be able to answer even those few questions.

I understand mate.

It's not engaged to get married in like 6months. It's be engaged to show my commitment, dedication to our relationship.


I show it as much as possible already. She knows im dedicated.


Laugh if you must you bunch of puffs. I love my girl!
 

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That is not a reason to get engaged, you get engaged with a view to getting married. Getting engaged and saying it's just another way of showing my commitment is ridiculous.

I'm giving up now, my brain hurts to much. I am sure the FH OT will be full of enlightening views on this, but I'm sure you will do what you want anyway.
 

old.Tohtori

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Laddey how about a promise ring then?

I know it's pretty much high school etc, but consider the facts;

A: It's not an actual engagement.
B: It won't freak her out(if it would).
C: It would show more commitment.
D: It would show your plans without being "too much".
 

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That is not a reason to get engaged, you get engaged with a view to getting married. Getting engaged and saying it's just another way of showing my commitment is ridiculous.

I'm giving up now, my brain hurts to much. I am sure the FH OT will be full of enlightening views on this, but I'm sure you will do what you want anyway.
Yeah you're right, i'll do what i want lol. I was asking for advice not a lecture on if i should be engaged or not.
 

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get an eternity ring or commitment ring BUT make it clear what it is so that she doesn't go out buy a dress, make a cake and call all her friends before its on her finger lol

fuckkit toht beat me to it
 

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What about finding a place to live together first?

Agree with the others though, proposal is a big step :p
 

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Yeah you're right, i'll do what i want lol. I was asking for advice not a lecture on if i should be engaged or not.


Yeah - advice... advice does not always go along the route you expect.
 

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get an eternity ring or commitment ring BUT make it clear what it is so that she doesn't go out buy a dress, make a cake and call all her friends before its on her finger lol

fuckkit toht beat me to it
Thanks.


I'm not like gonna get down on one knee infront of an audience and ask her to marry me. It's gonna be like a nice romantic meal, give her the present. Oh i havn't got a clue but i know what i & she wants.
 

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That is not a reason to get engaged, you get engaged with a view to getting married. Getting engaged and saying it's just another way of showing my commitment is ridiculous.

I'm giving up now, my brain hurts to much. I am sure the FH OT will be full of enlightening views on this, but I'm sure you will do what you want anyway.

i dunno my aunt and "uncle" have been engaged for 20 years now lol clearly never gonna get married but being engaged makes them slightly more commited than just dating
 

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I say good on you Laddey, If you feel its the right thing to do, then do it. It is about making a commitment, and if you love her that much its the gesture that should be worth more than any material shit like how much you earn.

I got one for my fiance for much less than £200, but I didn't have a proper job at the time.
 

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I say good on you Laddey, If you feel its the right thing to do, then do it. It is about making a commitment, and if you love her that much its the gesture that should be worth more than any material shit like how much you earn.

I got one for my fiance for much less than £200, but I didn't have a proper job at the time.

was it made of plastic and did it come out of the little red 20 twist machiens outside the shops?



thats what i'd do, or i'd rock it out like homer simpson and propose with an onion ring
 

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tbh its not how much it costs its the personalisation of it, i mean you could get a £300 ring from argos...big whoop wow every gal in the street gets one of those or you could look in to getting one thats her fave stone and design etc maybe even go enrole in a college jewellry course and make or design and commission it yourself Oo

that would beat the arse off anything tbh.

and byw toht...ITS YOUR TURN SOON!!!!!...getting odl i mean, though if your really unlucky i'll hex you and make you get engaged! Muwahaha
 

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I suggest you get her this one

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you can fill it with chocolate/little kids, if you need a snack somewhere.
 

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Laddey, you already know what I'm going to say since people have already said it. But, most semi-decent jewellers would do them, they kinda have to right now.

Hope it works out though, being dumped I can handle. Being dumped/breaking up after engagement would totally kill me. Hope you know what you want man :cheers:
 

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Haha i smiled before i even seen your post you cock. I knew it'd be something stupid.



we've never been as happy, i've never been as happy and nor has she. So lets take it to the next level. I love her man, i want to spend my life with her.

What is the next level? Are you happy? stay happy and spend the money on something more productive than a freaking ring :)
 

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and byw toht...ITS YOUR TURN SOON!!!!!...getting odl i mean, though if your really unlucky i'll hex you and make you get engaged! Muwahaha

Oi! No need to get rude! I'd rather have the daleks around then a potential wife.
 

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I found some really nice ones for less about 150-200 smackers Laddey (my own was only 150 - us students have to budget :)) By nice I mean they sparkle a lot and don't look cheap.

That was from a proper jewellers too - so prices aren't that intimidating tbh.

Best of luck with the missus :)
 

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I understand mate.

It's not engaged to get married in like 6months. It's be engaged to show my commitment, dedication to our relationship.


I show it as much as possible already. She knows im dedicated.


Laugh if you must you bunch of puffs. I love my girl!

Get her a collar then!
 

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