confidence at its worst...

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caLLous

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Kez, I can actually see you as someone who really doesn't care. And a wanker.

Both counts. :D
 
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anonomous

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lets focus all the attention on moi yeh? :D :cool:

only joking, carry on.... :rolleyes:
 
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anonomous

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god those smilies look small with my resolution, it looks like a pellet for a bb gun
 
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Scooba Da Bass

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I'm scared people are agreeing with me, ignore my advice, pour beer on girls, IT WORKS
 
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FatBusinessman

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Originally posted by Scooba Da Bass
I'll go and chat to a fine lady dressed in a pair of paint covered combats, an old hoody with holes in and a pair of grubby kung fu slippers, I'll probably get her number as well, simply because I'm a great conversationalist, and have a talent for empathy.
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And extremely modest as well... ;)
 
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bodhi

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Originally posted by old.Kez
You're all schmucks.

I'm told by all who meet me that I'm this sort of person. On both counts.
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Funnily enough, I get a lot of that aswell. On both counts.
 
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anonomous

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so it appears as the following

  • get a hair cut
  • practise talking to strangers
  • some new clothes
  • more practise
  • meet up with the same girl i went to chill with
  • talk about anything, if it works, then carry on
  • expand the communication and hope for the best
lol :) it looks so easy
 
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nath

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Yes. Also, get a larger cock. And perhaps a ferrari.
 
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dysfunction

Guest
Conversation is an art form.

If you want to become good at it you have to practice!! Some people are naturals, however but most people have to learn....just like everything else one does...
 
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PR.

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My main problem is trying to get out the house...

An example. Went to get my hair cut (sorry shocko ;)) and as soon as I pulled up and went to get my parking ticket my heart starts racing and I get panicy the feeling won't go away til I'm back at home :(

Tried an image change a while a go... didn't work.
 
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cosmos

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lol! I think a change of image isnt going to help you be more chatty. Just because someone has confidence issues didnt mean they dress/look crap does it?

"go to the gym" is the most lol thing ever :<
 
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Sar

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Mewiz/anon:

10 years ago I was the same, I had serious self-confidence issues, I was very quiet in company and never volunteered information in meetings in work - so much so that my manager at the time (a wanker but nm) suggested I take courses in improving my self-confidence.

Now however, I'm a loud mouthed bastard, full of himself tbh. I speak my mind and have very strong opinions which I will back up to the death (Hi Bodhi! ;) ).

Why the big change?

Two reasons: I became an adult in a working environment where I had to become more socially adept - both in the office and online ironically.

And secondly I became a man. Knowing yourself and your own mind is the first step to self-confidence.

LISTEN TO TEH ORALCLE IN TEH MARTIX!!!1`

;)

In short: Know who you are first of all before anyone else really can.
 
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Mellow-

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I am drunk yet again, out clubbing, and did I make conversation wuth random girls, YES!

... the reason follows:

I saw a so called "live" performance and I took the piss. Ha, I thought, these lovely ladies have got to agree with me on this! and guess what, they did ... voila, the art of communication with people of the opposite sex.

Smiles and a happy tone of voice. Talk bollocks if you need to, get a smile and you're in there.

*runs off with girl wearing hotpants*
 
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Sir Frizz

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House parties.

These are of utmost importance in building on a relationship with said friend. I've had about a couple, and in all but one (no ladies) someone managed to get it on with their beloved.

Invite her to one of yours, or try and go to one of hers. With the atmosphere and and other factor's (;)), conversation is a piece of piss, you both talk crap but you feel as though you're Romeo and Juliet. Then invade the parent's double bed...:cool:

You are pretty much free to do crazy shit when you're fucked on some Vodka, and she won't really care.

Alcohol, helping ugly people have sex since 1862*

*to my knowledge ;)
 
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anonomous

Guest
wise words by everyone :D and theres only been a few flames!

and Sar, stop calling me mewizard, i dunno who he is :cool:

well im pretty suprised that most people have gone through the same thing, oooo reassurance! :)

whered you take the course Sar? and how much £££££ ? i might consider it myself
 
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cosmos

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I think the course is probobly for adults with real confidence issues. Most teenagers grow out of it?
 
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FatBusinessman

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Originally posted by the-frizz
Alcohol, helping ugly people have sex since 1862*
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Hasn't beer been around since the nth century BC?
 
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anonomous

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shit

ooo im fucking pissed off... :( :( :(

me and lynsey (the girl i was chillin with), were quite close and cool m8s, and she did start lovin me, but now shes told me she doesnt ne more, i am so fucking pissed off

omg
 
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S-Gray

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Theres Plenty More Fish in the Sea...... (Or so i have been told.. :/)
 
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Shocko

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"love"? Surely your objective was to shag her... This rejection is simply a minor hindrence in the scheme; I'm sure someone else knows more about this than me, but i'd guess your chances of finding her in a weak moment, or drunk, in the right location, are just as high as if she thought she loved you :)
 
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SLiC3R-

Guest
indeed.

don't tie yourself up to one girl and think "this is my only real chance of happiness and a lot of fucking" cause it ain't.
 
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