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[bodhi]

Originally posted by Wazzerphuk


Indeed, it's fucking incredible the amount of people that are so utterly ignorant about depression.

It's even more amazing the amount of people who seem to think depression is serious and even "cool" ever since Radiohead made OK Computer.

 

[(Shovel)]

Indeed, it's fucking incredible the amount of people that are so utterly ignorant about depression.

Nothing to say, just felt the need to echo that.

 

[xenon2000]

Umm... what's the argument here exactly? I've read this thread through twice and still can't figure the reasons behind the flames.

 

[Wazzerphuk]

Originally posted by bodhi


It's even more amazing the amount of people who seem to think depression is serious and even "cool" ever since Radiohead made OK Computer.

I don't think anyone with half a brain thinks it could be cool.

However though, depression CAN be a very serious and restraining illness, that, like any other illness needs caring, time and treatment for. There's no miracle cure for it: anyone who thinks this and backs it up with their miracle cure hasn't suffered or been involved with other people who have genuinely seriously suffered from it.

 

[nath]

And thinking that depression isn't serious is quite retarded. You can't possibly know how bad it is for individual people. Perhaps there are people who think it's cool, and are just putting it on, but there's plenty of people out there who have it for real and it IS serious.

Just because you've felt a bit glum and subsequently sorted yourself out, doesn't mean that everyone who suffers from depression is a shit twat for not being able to get through it without help.

 

[Sar]

Originally posted by bodhi


Dear oh dear. What problem does the moral high-ground have with having a casual sex partner?

You do, I hope, realise that there's a difference between using someone for sex and casual sex partners?

There's also the strong likelihood of repeat chances. You've got yourself a regular yo-yo girl here, my man. Keep tugging that string.

I'll leave you to figure out into which category that statement quite blatantly falls...

 

[-Dreama-]

My god your mothers must be proud of the way you CHILDREN think of and treat women. I ashamed that you are the future men of this world.

fuck her and dump her....omg. I wonder how you would feel if this girl was your sister or your daughter.

 

[(Shovel)]

Originally posted by littledreama
fuck her and dump her....omg. I wonder how you would feel if this girl was your sister or your daughter.

They'd feel completely different, obviously.

 

[L_Plates]

Originally posted by old.ignus
she's bi sexual and I was looking forward to a threesome.

Erm get yeh threesome m8 ... then tell us all about it

 

[bodhi]

Originally posted by littledreama
My god your mothers must be proud of the way you CHILDREN think of and treat women. I ashamed that you are the future men of this world.

fuck her and dump her....omg. I wonder how you would feel if this girl was your sister or your daughter.

I would have already fucked them and dumped them.

 

[stu]

I got about 10 lines into a reply, but realised it really wasn't worth it.

Besides, bodhi knows he's an ignorant fuckwit already.

 

[Munkey-]

i suffered from this until recently. Getting out of britain has made me open my eyes and pull myself out.



i could say some more stuff but its private. basically. i know, i've been there

 

[Wij]

depression is a serious illness. the cynicism is obviously caused by the ppl who put it on. i know a few ppl who whine about depression who i'm pretty sure do it for effect. i also know a few ppl who genuinely suffer from it. you're arguing about two different things. no problem really.

 

[stu]

Zuttrefend wij. Most people who actually suffer from depression don't make a big deal about it - it's debilitating and in a way embarassing, and bragging about it would be a bit like going round shouting "hey!! I've got hepatitis!!" Generally the people who go on about it are attention-seeking (with self-harming being a recognised element of that). That's not to say that the causes of the two aren't necessarily analogous, and an attention seeking personality can be a sign of emotional instability - but it tends to be that element of it that annoys people.

 

[Stazbumpa]

Originally posted by bodhi


It's even more amazing the amount of people who seem to think depression is serious and even "cool" ever since Radiohead made OK Computer.

I fucking love you Bodhi


He has a point though, most people I know that are "depressed" do it for attention and it bores the fuck out of me. No teenager should be on anti-depressants for fucks sake, what in the name of sanity do they have to be depressed about? Go on, name one fucking thing. Teenagers live the life of fucking riley for the most part but they still appear to want to be a morbidly depressed bore.

My dads girlfriend is a manic depressive and he went through the concerned-and-supportive phase that most people with a heart go through. But the love and support that depressives say they need is never EVER enough.
Thesedays he tells her to fuck off 90% of the time because she is a: annoying and b: boring as hell.

The girl that Ig started this thread/argument with is one of those annoying types that nothing goes right for and is either as happy as larry or about to pull the trigger.
Which of course she never does, or not properly anyway. Too many episodes of Dawson's fucking Creek I reckon. Always got something to be dpressed about.

My point is that people should stop analysing life and fucking start living it instead. You'll wonder what the fuck you were playing at when you do.

 

[doh_boy]

just a few contradictory coments!

I'm sure I heard somewhere that manic depression is a chemical imbalance?

I wonder if the "girl in question" has been watching hollyoaks a lot recently? .......

<Anti-Flame Suit on>

 

[(Shovel)]

There are two types of clinical depression. One is, as you say, caused by chemical imbalances and is treated using anti-depressants for as long as it takes for the body to stop producing the imbalance.
It can happen at any age and there is no "cure" as such beyond this persistance.

There is a second sort of depression that is different. And caused by something else relating to the emotive part of the brain (I think..). The only way to treat this is through councelling, once again for as long as it takes.

Then there is a third type when the doctor can't work out which type you've got and puts you on both treatments with his fingers crossed. Nice eh?

This, of course, is completely different from being depressed which is a phrase now of different meaning and completely useless for describing any real state of mind or body thanks to teenage angst becomming popularist.

It is also different from the S.A.D. syndrome that some people get over the dank winter months making them 'depressed'.

Please, please pay attention to the fact that there is a difference between 'depressed' and 'Depression'. Bear in mind that as much as many of you don't acknowledge it, anyone who IS faking it for attention seeking purposes probably doesn't know the difference either and that will be clear enough to people who actual meet the person and interact with them on a daily and real life basis. Not, however, to people sitting any number of miles away communicating with a biased account of events.

 

[mank!]

what Shovel said, as well as the chemical is called Seratonin (sp?)

 

[(Shovel)]

Norepinephrine, serotonin, and dopamin according to: http://www.nami.org/helpline/depress.htm

*fluffles* Google

 

[Xtro]

Originally posted by Stazbumpa

Too many episodes of Dawson's fucking Creek I reckon. Always got something to be dpressed about.

that REALLY did make me nearly piss myself laughing

 

[Mellow-]

Originally posted by littledreama
My god your mothers must be proud of the way you CHILDREN think of and treat women. I ashamed that you are the future men of this world.

fuck her and dump her....omg. I wonder how you would feel if this girl was your sister or your daughter.

bodhi
I would have already fucked them and dumped them.

The first time I read this, it looked like he was admitting he'd fuck and dump his sister and daughter. Made me chuckle anyway.

 

[stu]

Originally posted by Stazbumpa
He has a point though, most people I know that are "depressed" do it for attention and it bores the fuck out of me. No teenager should be on anti-depressants for fucks sake, what in the name of sanity do they have to be depressed about? Go on, name one fucking thing. Teenagers live the life of fucking riley for the most part but they still appear to want to be a morbidly depressed bore.

You're ignorant, child. Educate yourself.

 

[Wij]

Originally posted by old.Mellow




The first time I read this, it looked like he was admitting he'd fuck and dump his sister and daughter. Made me chuckle anyway.

I thought that was what he meant. Humour or just a frank admission. Either would make sense in the ker-razy world of Bodhi

 

[xenon2000]

Originally posted by old.Mellow
The first time I read this, it looked like he was admitting he'd fuck and dump his sister and daughter. Made me chuckle anyway.

I read it several times and couldn't come to any other meaning tbh

 

[Mellow-]

Perhaps I read it correctly then.

(and now for my reaction)

"eeewwwww man, that's sick!"

 

[throdgrain]

Originally posted by stu


You're ignorant, child. Educate yourself.

No he aint ignorant. You're telling me loads and loads of teenagers from around the country, a fair old percentage, are all so depressed they need fucking happy pills or summat ? Get a grip man for god sakes. You're living a bloody easy life most of you. Try living in Rhuanda or somewhere, then you got something to be fucking depressed about. "Oh I dont know whether to take Geography or Biology A level, Im so depressed gimme a prescription". Rofl.
I fully accept there are people out there who are clinically depressed, i used to know a bloke like that, but dont tell me suddenly every fourth teenager coming out of school needs prozac cos it dont fucking wash.

/rant over.
/sorry folks .

 

[(Shovel)]

You didn't read my post did you?

There is a difference between being depressed and Depression

Being depressed does not require happy pills. Depression (in one type) does. Stop treating them as the same.

And yes, there IS a percentage of people of ALL ages (including teenagers and even younger children) with depression. Get used to it.

Also, yeah, there is always someone (and many more) worse off than you, but thinking that actually makes it worse cause you fight an internal guilt battle for having depression in the first place. Everything is relative and trying merge the worlds worst problems into someone elses condition is not fair on them or the world.
They are completely separate issues and should be treated as such.

 

[Damini]

Usually I love these forums, and love the people. Then I read threads like these and decide that quite a few of you are fucking morons.

 

[Hashmonster]

here ya go damini



all better

 

[old.ignus]

I cannot believe that Stazbumpa has been home long enough post a message on here let alone 2. Hes usually with his girlfriend day and night. (he's under the thumb you see)