6 orgasms in just over an hour! (Necro-thread!!!)

[Yoni]

I think the main issue is that the overwhelming majority of people on this planet are total and utter fuckwits. It's not that women are this and men are that, people are self-serving arseholes and on the whole best avoided. Welcome to the gospel according to Nath™.

What on earth made you so angry with the world?

 

[nath]

I'm not angry with the world, it's nothing so angsty. I just genuinely believe that most people are shitbags. I take a fairly scientific view to it though, it's just I have a hypothesis and it's gradually becoming more and more accepted (by me). Kinda like evolution!

 

[Yoni]

I think if I thought like that I would question my existence... I hope I can make a difference to some of the shitbags you talk about....

 

[nath]

I think if I thought like that I would question my existence... I hope I can make a difference to some of the shitbags you talk about....

Well good luck, you've got your work cut out for you

 

[mycenae]

thats a massive over generalisation isn't it Nath? If thats your opinion, then surely that makes the majority of us shitbags? I meet a LOT of people from all walks of life in my job, and I have to say that very few of them are really unpleasant people. Perhaps you've just been very unlucky in meeting only tosspots recently.

 

[Ignition]

Well good luck, you've got your work cut out for you

There's always hope nath. What made you so cynical dude?

Fundamentally people are decent ya know!

 

[nath]

It is a massive generalisation, but then again I give people a fair go when I meet them. I just find that I'm usually right. This isn't a recent theory, nothing so fleeting - something I've gradually realised over about 15 years ish.

Ignition, sorry but I really *massively* disagree with that.

 

[mycenae]

In which case, if thats what you truly believe, I can only humbly apologise on behalf of the human race, cos if thats what you think, you must have really met everyones share of scumbags. And I'm not being a cocky gobshite, I really mean that I am sorry for your experiences that have led you to feeling this way.

 

[Scouse]

What I don't get Nath, is what this has to do with s3x0rz!!!1111 Are people massive gobshites because they don't put out?


...or am I being inappropriately thick again and have I missed something?

 

[nath]

Nah Scouse, my only point is that there were a few posts here saying that women were this than and the other. And a few that actually men were this that and the other. I've heard this several times and I was merely pointing out that actually gender has nothing to do with it. People are tosspots full stop.

Mycenae - no need to apologise, I don't feel victimised or anything.

 

[Scouse]

Nath m8 - I have to agree with you!

As I've mentioned in previous posts - English are fucktards. Both men and women. It's a poisonous little country.

However - leave these previously fair shores and you'll find that the rest of the world is populated by genuinely lovely people. Honestly!

And to bring the conversation back to sex - if you leave Blighty and go pretty much anywhere but South Africa you'll get laid like nobody's business because of your accent

 

[rynnor]

As I've mentioned in previous posts - English are fucktards. Both men and women. It's a poisonous little country.

However - leave these previously fair shores and you'll find that the rest of the world is populated by genuinely lovely people. Honestly!

Much of life is about our own perceptions - if you expect everyone around you to be a shit then you will see it everywhere.

When you go abroad you are relaxed and suddenly the world and people are good - its you that has changed - people are pretty much the same everywhere in terms of distribution of scumbags its just when you are abroad you lack the local knowledge to spot them as well as at home.

I still see people offering their seats to old people/pregnant women, helping mums carry their pushchairs down steps - peoples fundamental goodwill has not evaporated overnight despite doom mongers who say otherwise.

 

[Sparx]

I think if I thought like that I would question my existence... I hope I can make a difference to some of the shitbags you talk about....

Me and my friends totally believe in helping one person and they will pass it on theory so we do agressive generosity.

For example if your on the tube/train and you see a pregnant woman at the other side of the carriage standing up and no-one giving her a seat, shout over as loud as you can to tell her she can have yours. will then walk past everyone who ignored her, making them feel bad for not getting up and still giving her a seat. She will then help someone else out even if its just holding the door for someone with too many bags. And hopefully just one of those selfish bastards will remember how embarrased they felt and will help the next person

 

[old.Osy]

Or you could simply not care, and cater only for the people you know, and/or owe something to, from any standpoint.

Life is too short to be a saint.

 

[Scouse]

Much of life is about our own perceptions - if you expect everyone around you to be a shit then you will see it everywhere.

When you go abroad you are relaxed and suddenly the world and people are good - its you that has changed - people are pretty much the same everywhere in terms of distribution of scumbags its just when you are abroad you lack the local knowledge to spot them as well as at home.

Disagree completely. I'm a relaxed person pretty much all the time but the English are under-educated compared to pretty much most of Europe, selfish, inconsiderate etc.

I'm under no pressure at home (not had to work since last december) so life should be peachy - but it's just not. This country is full of chavvy fucktards who aren't a pleasure to interact with. Go somewhere else and that's not the case...

 

[Scouse]

Life is too short to be a saint.

Aargh! it said the message I have entered is too short! Ignore these words...

 

[Sparx]

Or you could simply not care, and cater only for the people you know, and/or owe something to, from any standpoint.

Life is too short to be a saint.

If everyone done that then the rest of the UK would be like London. Believe me London can be a very lonely place. I've seen a woman get punched full force in the face by a guy on a bus and EVERYONE just looked at the floor. Me and a mate ran to the front of the bus and jumped in.

Would you want that woman to be your mum/girlfriend/sister??

 

[Yoni]

I dont believe that people are different anywhere else and that there are genuinely good people in England as there are in all countries... being more selective over your partner will ensure that you are both on the same wavelength... if the basics are right ie you find each other attractive, you can laugh, cry, share any emotion with each other, you click sexually then the relationship just needs effort to keep it going. Rushing into a sexual relationship in my opinion is bad very bad a lot of good stuff is overlooked as well as understanding whether you are indeed made to go down that route. It could be that you were just meant to be great friends who find each other remotely attractive. (yes I also believe that men and women who are great friends have to have some kind of attraction to each other as I believe nature works that way).

I really do believe it just takes a small amount of effort to maintain a healthy sexual relationship with your partner.. albeit on a day off getting dressed up for your partner for when they get home, or cooking a meal that you know that they will enjoy, setting the atmosphere, indulge in some flirting, bringing flowers occasionally (not all the time)... arranging day's / evening out.. indulge in both of your fantasies (not necessarily sexual)..

When I read some of the posts here I just feel that some of you have lost your way (I am not flaming).. it is easily done I historically have been guilty of this also... all it takes is a bit of self reflection.

 

[russell]

Some people are selfish shit bags, some people are kind. Regardless of the country that they live in.

I blame the media and the government. They drown us daily with doom and gloom and the worst incidences/injustices/corruption etc. This facilitates a shift in our cultural values and this has a knock on effect on individuals morals over time.

Personally, I take a holistic viewpoint in life on many levels and I go out of my way to be kind to people and I frequently get overwhelmed by people being kind to me.

There is good out there if you look for it, but I can also see that if you are repeatedly let down and shat upon it can change you.

Life can be shit, but it is made better by good people doing kind things and making someones day.

Mmmm... back to sex, and interestingly the same applies...

Sex can be shit, but it is made better by good people doing kinky things and making someones day

 

[russell]

Or you could simply not care, and cater only for the people you know, and/or owe something to, from any standpoint.

Life is too short to be a saint.

Its not 'being a saint', its just basic human nature, compassion and goodwill? Jesus I am far far far away from being saintly, I just try to be kind.

 

[Scouse]

I dont believe that people are different anywhere else and that there are genuinely good people in England as there are in all countries...

Do you just 'not believe' that or do you have evidence for it? My experience (and the experience of my peers) tells me that, yes, there are nice people in England - but they're harder to find. Hence me having friends who discount English girls for long-term relationships.

10% of English people now live abroad permanently! Tony Blair said it was because they "could afford to". But, lets face it, you don't leave a country you like. When I ask people who live abroad why they moved they tell me it's because "Britain is full of wankers" or somesuch. Pretty conclusive to me

I blame the media and the government. They drown us daily with doom and gloom and the worst incidences/injustices/corruption etc. This facilitates a shift in our cultural values and this has a knock on effect on individuals morals over time.

You're not too far off the mark there. The media is definately to blame for the shift in our cultural values, but you have to dig a little deeper to understand why the media is such a horrendous pile of shit. (I'm not going to open that box tho). If people disagree that there's something wrong with the media I'd point out that we now have young anorexic boys - just living in Blighty is such a strain that kids have terrible pressure on their self-image. Imagine what else is fucked up...

Anyway...

Mmmm... back to sex, and interestingly the same applies...

Sex can be shit, but it is made better by good people doing kinky things and making someones day

Never said "no" to any request yet

 

[Yoni]

with respect Scouse i have to wonder about the women you and your peers bump into. Yes I see horrible individuals in the street but the chances of me getting into a relationship with them are like zero.

I also work currently with an amazing bunch of individuals, none of which appear to be fundamentally bad people and most would go out of their way to help me if I were in trouble.

The same goes when I am away I meet courteous and shite individuals. I spend a lot of time in Sweden as my partner lives here.. this was not some intentional move that all men in the UK are crap but one of those things where you meet a person and you click and then decide that persuing a relationship is worthwhile for all its complications... I will also be working in the Netherlands from November.. again not a planned move more of an opportunity which arose which is exciting and good for me personally and my career.

 

[Belgerath]

It could be that you were just meant to be great friends who find each other remotely attractive. (yes I also believe that men and women who are great friends have to have some kind of attraction to each other as I believe nature works that way)

repped

 

[elisera]

I don't think you can ever say one country has nicer people than another - shit happens everywhere.

And the comment about 10% of British now living abroad means absolutely nothing when you consider how many foreign nationals choose to live here permanently..

Yoni - too soon to rep you again but as always you speak sense!

 

[Belgerath]

You could rep me as i make no sence? :lol:

 

[elisera]

You could rep me as i make no sence? :lol:

Repping you only makes you worse!

 

[gunner440]

I dont believe that people are different anywhere else and that there are genuinely good people in England as there are in all countries... being more selective over your partner will ensure that you are both on the same wavelength... if the basics are right ie you find each other attractive, you can laugh, cry, share any emotion with each other, you click sexually then the relationship just needs effort to keep it going. Rushing into a sexual relationship in my opinion is bad very bad a lot of good stuff is overlooked as well as understanding whether you are indeed made to go down that route. It could be that you were just meant to be great friends who find each other remotely attractive. (yes I also believe that men and women who are great friends have to have some kind of attraction to each other as I believe nature works that way).

The problem with this is that there are very few people today that understand the concept of 'love' or 'relationships' in this way.

Having come from a family where both 'love' and 'relationships' meant nothing and only ever ended badly, I have become too paranoid. I'd like to think that I am one of those who do understand these concepts but my paranoia always takes over (my last few relationships were ended by me and I can stand up and say that it was definitely me and not her in each of the cases).

It may sound terrible but as much as I enjoyed 'being with someone' there hasn't been a greater feeling for me as that of 'not being with someone'. I'm financially secure and have no commitments and whenever the question of why I am still single comes up I don't know what to say. I usually answer by giving a blank look and mumbling something alone the lines of English women scare me.

My female friends seem to confide in me a lot as I think they do realise that unlike most of their male friends, I don't talk to them while the back of my mind is trying to work out whether they're wearing thongs or boy shorts and weather they are more a silk or lycra person.

There was an occasion where a couple thought I was gay and when I told them I wasn't and that I simply didn't find them attractive (not in the purely asthetic sense). One of them laughed and said she'd believe me for now but that I could come out of my closet in my own time and the other took it badly and hasn't spoken to me since.

Maybe it'll make more sense when I'm in my 50's?

Mmmm... back to sex, and interestingly the same applies...

Sex can be shit, but it is made better by good people doing kinky things and making someones day

With how I interpret 'kinky' there's a 50% chance that I'll get called a freak and get an eyeful of mace

If she is in the 50% that doesn't, chances are I would want to run away!

 

[elisera]

One of them laughed and said she'd believe me for now but that I could come out of my closet in my own time and the other took it badly and hasn't spoken to me since.

Why is seeming attractive the be all and end all to some women? I just don't get it...

Feeling unattractive for the first 20 odd years of my life means that now that i actually like myself i couldn't give a shit if a guy does or doesnt find me attractive!

 

[gunner440]

Why is seeming attractive the be all and end all to some women? I just don't get it...

Neither do I.

Feeling unattractive for the first 20 odd years of my life means that now that i actually like myself i couldn't give a shit if a guy does or doesnt find me attractive!

As a good friend of mine called Christina once said:

We're all beautiful in every single way...


...unless we are crosseyed and have 3 heads.

 

[Belgerath]

I've got to 2 head's so im ok thank god



There does need to be a certain amount of physical attraction though imo.

Far from the be all and end all, but there does need to be enough