Sharma
Can't get enough of FH
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I thought the title would be appropriate. 
(Hey Big G done it too, i'm going to have a shot at it as well)
I've been having a weird week so far.
The situation goes something like this.
Sunday night, I was talking to a friend of mine and her brother and they were on about going for a drink etc and I said i'd be down a bit late due to band practice and such, so 10:30pm, I turn up, and see that they're all there, merry, bit tipsy and i'm basically out of cash, i'm good friends with this girls brother as well as her and I ask if someone can grab me a drink, he offers, we go to the bar and get a few shots and he grabs me a pint.
I'm greatful for that, and it's all good, he grabs some wine, shares it out so I leave the place with this girl, couple of friends, her brother and we go back to a mates house.
Ok, I thought, I sat down, had some more to drink, watched some red dwarf had a bit of a laugh, starts getting late and i'm sat on the sofa with her, she pulls the cover over and we start getting a bit cozy. Soon enough everyone leaves to go upstairs and sleep etc and we end up left alone and things happened.
The main situation i'm in at the moment is I like another girl as well, make no mistake I liked the girl I was with on sunday night also but she was one of those girls I considered more of a friend than anything else but I picked up some signals on Sunday night which were somewhat undeniable and I felt very comfortable through the whole fiasco. After what happened on the night, it's 5:30am and she sits up and starts saying how much of an idiot she was because she knew I liked another girl, I basically told her she had to be sorry for nothing of the sort and that it was ok.
Post sunday i've been suffering from major anxiety, a weird feeling because i'd not been in this situation before and I was confused over it and I needed to sit down and talk about it to a close friend and it helped me make up my mind over what to do about it and i've decided im going to talk with this girl on Thursday when I head out on my usual weekly night out since shes a regular there.
I'm proper fucking shitting it, i've had some reassurance from a good friend of hers that I talk to often that she's good about it but i'm still wound up over it.
I still consider myself young as far as most of you lot go, so hopefully you can shed some advice from the years of your dealings with women since i'm still a bit new to all this rubbish!
What her friend has told me though is that she's been used a lot in the past and has been thrown around like a rag doll and she doesn't consider herself to amount to much, which is saddening really.
I felt the need to get this off my chest and hopefully someone can lend some advice over how to handle this situation, that's my sob story and I hope to god this goes ok, wish me luck.
(Hey Big G done it too, i'm going to have a shot at it as well)
I've been having a weird week so far.
The situation goes something like this.
Sunday night, I was talking to a friend of mine and her brother and they were on about going for a drink etc and I said i'd be down a bit late due to band practice and such, so 10:30pm, I turn up, and see that they're all there, merry, bit tipsy and i'm basically out of cash, i'm good friends with this girls brother as well as her and I ask if someone can grab me a drink, he offers, we go to the bar and get a few shots and he grabs me a pint.
I'm greatful for that, and it's all good, he grabs some wine, shares it out so I leave the place with this girl, couple of friends, her brother and we go back to a mates house.
Ok, I thought, I sat down, had some more to drink, watched some red dwarf had a bit of a laugh, starts getting late and i'm sat on the sofa with her, she pulls the cover over and we start getting a bit cozy. Soon enough everyone leaves to go upstairs and sleep etc and we end up left alone and things happened.
The main situation i'm in at the moment is I like another girl as well, make no mistake I liked the girl I was with on sunday night also but she was one of those girls I considered more of a friend than anything else but I picked up some signals on Sunday night which were somewhat undeniable and I felt very comfortable through the whole fiasco. After what happened on the night, it's 5:30am and she sits up and starts saying how much of an idiot she was because she knew I liked another girl, I basically told her she had to be sorry for nothing of the sort and that it was ok.
Post sunday i've been suffering from major anxiety, a weird feeling because i'd not been in this situation before and I was confused over it and I needed to sit down and talk about it to a close friend and it helped me make up my mind over what to do about it and i've decided im going to talk with this girl on Thursday when I head out on my usual weekly night out since shes a regular there.
I'm proper fucking shitting it, i've had some reassurance from a good friend of hers that I talk to often that she's good about it but i'm still wound up over it.
I still consider myself young as far as most of you lot go, so hopefully you can shed some advice from the years of your dealings with women since i'm still a bit new to all this rubbish!
What her friend has told me though is that she's been used a lot in the past and has been thrown around like a rag doll and she doesn't consider herself to amount to much, which is saddening really.
I felt the need to get this off my chest and hopefully someone can lend some advice over how to handle this situation, that's my sob story and I hope to god this goes ok, wish me luck.
