Aada
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Last year i had an incident at work:
I went to my manager about another employee a lot of other employees were fed up with the special treatment she gets i told the manager what i thought and what other employees on his department thought and left it at that and i assumed the discussion would have been in confidence and left it at that as i was just bringing matters to his attention.
A week or two later the woman's husband came in and threatend me at work i kept my cool and went to the duty manager and he was thrown out and i asked to put a complaint in to which the duty manager advised me to do.
To cut a long story short the whole thing was brushed under the carpet and was a complete farce.
Fast forward to this point and i believe i am suffering from depression/anxiety as ever since that incident i cannot stop thinking about it, especially when i am trying to sleep things just go over and over in my head and i am awake till usually 2am in the morning baring in mind i have to be up for 5am for work.
I'm just at the point where i've tried to deal with it but i can't and it's severly effecting me physically and tomorrow i'm going to the doctors and see what she say. In our employee hand book it states that transfers can be arranged but because the incident was a year ago give or take i don't know how to speak to my personnel manager about it.
I feel stupid for feeling like this but i can't stop thinking about the whole thing.
Why am i posting about my personal life? no idea but i just wanted some opinions or advice
Thanks.
I went to my manager about another employee a lot of other employees were fed up with the special treatment she gets i told the manager what i thought and what other employees on his department thought and left it at that and i assumed the discussion would have been in confidence and left it at that as i was just bringing matters to his attention.
A week or two later the woman's husband came in and threatend me at work i kept my cool and went to the duty manager and he was thrown out and i asked to put a complaint in to which the duty manager advised me to do.
To cut a long story short the whole thing was brushed under the carpet and was a complete farce.
Fast forward to this point and i believe i am suffering from depression/anxiety as ever since that incident i cannot stop thinking about it, especially when i am trying to sleep things just go over and over in my head and i am awake till usually 2am in the morning baring in mind i have to be up for 5am for work.
I'm just at the point where i've tried to deal with it but i can't and it's severly effecting me physically and tomorrow i'm going to the doctors and see what she say. In our employee hand book it states that transfers can be arranged but because the incident was a year ago give or take i don't know how to speak to my personnel manager about it.
I feel stupid for feeling like this but i can't stop thinking about the whole thing.
Why am i posting about my personal life? no idea but i just wanted some opinions or advice
Thanks.