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[Iceforge]

remember no matter what you decide to do with her, to go shopping, to go to a cafe, bowling, tennis, bungee jumping, whatever, be nice even if she is totally not your type when sober, with looks or personality, don't lead her on either: if you know after 20 minuts that this is just not working, tell her straight forward, but don't cut off the date, say she can go/leave if she want to, but be open to just have some fun, make her a friend...

Even ugly/anoying chicks can have a nice friend for you

 

[Samaroon|Terracotta]

take her shopping, u buy all the things then she will think ur rich then u get to fuck her

HAhah, wow :O

 

[CorNokZ]

Even ugly/anoying chicks can have a nice friend for you

I can only agree with that! Super hot chicks hang out with uglier ones to look better themselves..

 

[Huntingtons]

I can only agree with that! Super hot chicks hang out with uglier ones to look better themselves..

or they're annoyed at having to butt around with the ugly chick so they dump them on the first and best man they see - or they try and hook you up of pity

 

[old.Tohtori]

remember no matter what you decide to do with her, to go shopping, to go to a cafe, bowling, tennis, bungee jumping, whatever, be nice even if she is totally not your type when sober, with looks or personality, don't lead her on either: if you know after 20 minuts that this is just not working, tell her straight forward, but don't cut off the date, say she can go/leave if she want to, but be open to just have some fun, make her a friend...

Even ugly/anoying chicks can have a nice friend for you

Yes, 'cause that's how the world works. In p*ssywhipped world!

If she's not your type, try to get some, then dump her. Life's too short to gather up a buttload of friends, there's more then enough in a handfull to maintain allready. If you "say she can leave if she wants to" you're getting whipped.

 

[Iceforge]

Yes, 'cause that's how the world works. In p*ssywhipped world!

If she's not your type, try to get some, then dump her. Life's too short to gather up a buttload of friends, there's more then enough in a handfull to maintain allready. If you "say she can leave if she wants to" you're getting whipped.

Nothing to do with being pussywhipped, it is about having standards?

I sure wouldnt have sex with someone I didn't find attractive from her looks or personality, I honestly prefer my hand than sex with someone unattractive.

And saying "she can leave if she wants to" has absolutly nothing to do with being whipped either, I am not one to decide anything, if I just said "Hell no, you ugly, biatch!" went up and left I did:
1) Make an ass out of myself and ruined options later, as she could ruin any attempt I have later with one of her friends by telling about that
2) I wasted my time by going there, sitting around and then going home

If I do it my way, she might leave, in which case:
1) I wasted my time by going there, sitting around and then giong home

Or she stayes and I:
1) Had some fun, I can have fun with people I am not attracted too
2) Maybe create new oppertunities for the future by her perhaps setting something up with one of her friends

Can't get guys who say "if you dont like her/she is ugly/no attracting just try and get some and then dump her", are you THAT desperate?

 

[Imgormiel]

Original mac donalds. Or KFC!

In her ass.

same place tbh ..

 

[old.Tohtori]

Iceforge, this is a total stranger, met in a pub, made out allready...i'm assuming she's no binger since the guy allready made out. A stranger telling her friends means sh*t all in that situation really. And no matter WHAT happens and how you act, she's more then likely to say you were obnoxious etc anyway.

If she is a total b*tch on the other hand(which is why the date is on, to see if she has a personality to go with the fine curves), why waste time?

I think you're talking about meeting someone from a social circle, not a complete stranger.

Why would you go out, if it's not a blind date, with someone "not attractive" if you wanted more then friends?

Your talking about a different thing then me.
No need to go into the whole "are you that desperate" thing, since you twisted my words to make me sound like one of the p*ssyhunters.

 

[Gamah]

Lol at the sex starved posters who obviously have no idea what a womens fanny looks like )

 

[Iceforge]

Iceforge, this is a total stranger, met in a pub, made out allready...i'm assuming she's no binger since the guy allready made out. A stranger telling her friends means sh*t all in that situation really. And no matter WHAT happens and how you act, she's more then likely to say you were obnoxious etc anyway.

If she is a total b*tch on the other hand(which is why the date is on, to see if she has a personality to go with the fine curves), why waste time?

I think you're talking about meeting someone from a social circle, not a complete stranger.

Why would you go out, if it's not a blind date, with someone "not attractive" if you wanted more then friends?

Your talking about a different thing then me.
No need to go into the whole "are you that desperate" thing, since you twisted my words to make me sound like one of the p*ssyhunters.

I was trying to refer to the guy who said that she might not be good looking when the beer vision was off... he was drunk when he made out with her, and as I dont know HOW drunk, I can't say how good a judgement he had in that situation.

And if it was someone from my social circle, I wouldn't go on a date unless I knew attraction was there from my side, rly...

My suggestions might be more suitable for a blind date set up through the internet through.

Amazing how girls who use dating sites have friends who are also looking for dates, so it can pay off to show your nice side to them when you find yourself unattracted.
I quickly tell them I am unattracted through, as else they will fell lead on and "cheated" out of something, and will think in unpositive ways about you, or atleast you risk that.

Hence my "tactics"

And sorry for the desperate remark, your segment "If she's not your type, try to get some, then dump her" sorta sounded like someone who would get it on with someone they was unattracted too, hence desperate in my book...

 

[old.Tohtori]

Yeah, figured we were on a different page really.

My bad to quote on the part and then going on about my different point

But yes, on a blind date your "tactic" is sound and being polite ain't nothing to be ashamed of.

BUT, i do keep to my stand that if you meet a chick in pub(and you're not hammered) and find her "fox worthy", then there's no shame in trying to get some before dumping a bad attitude hottie to the curve

Ugly women? Usually on a blind date let 'em know it ain't gonna happen, and probably tell that i don't have time for more friends. Well, in a more polite manner. I've slept with 'em, everyone has, any "partying outgoing" guy who sayes they haven't are A: Lying, B: Virgin. :kissit:

It's just like sh*tting your pants when drunk.

 

[Imgormiel]

Lol at the sex starved posters who obviously have no idea what a womens fanny looks like )

Given your avatar, I wonder what type of women you have been with ;p

 

[NikonL]

It's painfully obvious from reading peoples attitudes who gets sex on a regular basis and who doesn't.

You make yourself sound like one of the "Pus*yhunters" tbh Toh, you seem to think that if/when he decides that he doesn't want to have sex with this girl, that all bets are off and he should just give her the finger and walk off, because manners or standards no longer come into it? Yes, he may want to get out of there, and yes, there is no shame in that. But it's still very easy to be nice about it.

That's a sad way to live your life. No twisting of words is needed to see that.


Edit: In the time it's taken me to post you've basically 180'ed your view irritating when people do that. I'd have more respect if people at least stuck to their guns, even if their opinion was one I didn't agree with.

 

[[NO]Subedai]

Well i saw her, was nice chatting etc, i didnt feel the chemistry as much as the previous night, she was still attractive though- thank god

We only kissed on cheeks, also my spanish and her english aint awesome so it didnt help that much, but was nice and i will probably see her again. Morning dates sure are wierd though

 

[Imgormiel]

Hmm, shouldn't this thread be some where like ehm....a dating forum? xD

 

[Kagato]

Well i saw her, was nice chatting etc, i didnt feel the chemistry as much as the previous night, she was still attractive though- thank god

We only kissed on cheeks, also my spanish and her english aint awesome so it didnt help that much, but was nice and i will probably see her again. Morning dates sure are wierd though

As I said before, morning dates just don't work well, can't get the atmosphere and there options on where to go are very limited, you have to have a great imagination or know the place very well to figure out where you can take a girl and have a good time together in the morning.

I dread it when a girl insists on meeting during the day instead, it usually means they are on the defensive in the first place and dead set against getting close to soon.

Shopping malls still seem to be the safe bet though if theres plenty of cafe's etc you can have a chat in.

 

[old.Tohtori]

Edit: In the time it's taken me to post you've basically 180'ed your view irritating when people do that. I'd have more respect if people at least stuck to their guns, even if their opinion was one I didn't agree with.

There's a difference in 180 a view and explaining what i meant.

You misunderstood my post as did Ice, i never said anything about "if you don't want sex, dump her." i said quite the opposite, what i said was: "If she's hot, but not one to hang with, try to get sex before splitting ways"

I mean come on! No shame in getting some if you can, has nothing to do with desperation, if or not is getting some or not.

 

[Ezteq]

wow this thread has grown dramatically and i cba to read all the posts but has anyone actually come up with the radical idea of meeting this girl then saying "So what would you like to do" (at this point you can add a M'lady if you like but if you say it wrong youll end up looking like a foo)

I mean we can all tell you what we'd like to do but we're not her so its a bit pointless lol, also by finding out how she likes to spend her time rather than you choosing the event youll find out how much you have in common with her

 

[Laddey]

You were?

It worked fine for me last time I tried it..

Admit it, when was the last time?!

 

[tris-]

It's painfully obvious from reading peoples attitudes who gets sex on a regular basis and who doesn't.

and you can tell who is trying to gloat about getting it regularly too

 

[Bugz]

I mean come on! No shame in getting some if you can, has nothing to do with desperation, if or not is getting some or not.

People would try to use the whole 'demoralising women' shit but hey - I agree with you!

 

[DocWolfe]

just fucking fist her

 

[tris-]

just fucking fist her

lol, nothing like being blunt.

 

[Bugz]

lol, nothing like being blunt.

An ugly phrase too.

 

[CorNokZ]

Admit it, when was the last time?!

January..



2003

 

[Infanity]

Anywhere will do tbh. If your gonna get along with her it shouldnt matter if your at a park or cinema or what. Dont do anything that you usually wouldnt dream of doing with a lass cos someone sugested it, Cos she aint getting 2 know you etc ;d Shes getting to know "joe blogs" from FH who told you to buy her flowers serenade and parachute with "Iloveyou" on it.

xD

 

[Samaroon|Terracotta]

Given your avatar, I wonder what type of women you have been with ;p

Same goes for your avatar?

 

[Litmus]

just fucking fist her

haha ;o

 

[tris-]

An ugly phrase too.

you fuckin prude.

 

[DocWolfe]

An ugly phrase too.

Ugly is beautiful. Thats why your mother loves you.

HAHAHAHAHA... fuck me I'm funny as shit.