What

[Amphrax]

do you look for in a woman?

I look for these in this order

1. Breasts First
2. Blonde Second
3. Arse
4. Personality

I dont really look for things like that irl Personality first ftw but still dont hurt me thinking in that order though

NOW YOUR GO!

Amphrax/Arauddry

 

[Himse]

looks
tits
dress sense
shy or not
then personality ;d

 

[old.Tohtori]

Well these things are in an order from far/near as we see people in real life:

1: Haircolor(redheads rule, dark second, blonde is a bit meh)
2: Legs(if any shown, if not, skip to 3)
3: Eyes.

All those titties and *ss and such are covered and to see them in their true form(female clothing lies!), you need to get the girl naked. So, bottom of the list really.

Now, the REAL "what do you look for" list would be something like:

1: Eyes - (can't help it)
2: Looks - (have to have some "show" value. As in, don't want to show friends chewbacca or wake up next to one)
3: Personality - (Again, like with *ss and titties, this has to be last as it's the last thing you notice)

NOW...the "what are key elements in a girl you'd like" list would have to be:

1: Sense of Humor.
2: Non stressful.
3: Can handle her own.
4: Bonus feature: Non jealous/jealous enough.

 

[CorNokZ]

Naked or not.. I always go for the naked girls first

 

[Azurus]

A pulse

 

[Naetha]

I go for big fat cocks in my girls.

 

[Killswitch]

I go for big fat cocks in my girls.

I knew there was something fishy about that husband of yours...

EDIT: Having reread that, that could also mean that you're a pimp, depending how you read "my girls"...

On-topic, I tend to look for lots of strong alcohol in my women or a certain kind of wide-eyed naivety about the world that makes it easier to fill them with alcohol, leading back to point one.

 

[NikonL]

I think maybe it'd work better if you split looks/personality into two columns. I'd never look at any girl who had one without the other.

Looks:

1. figure: skinny/curved plz. not THAT fussy, but there's definitely an upper limit.
2. arse: can't stop myself, gaze always just goes doowwwnnn...
3. hair: "WTF not boobs?!?!" yeah i know, but i can't stand girls with really short hair (halle berry for teh suck). has to be shoulder length-ish.
4. boobs: it was coming. size not really important so long as they're present/not down south.
5. dress style: a girl who's used to dressing casually, doesn't always wear high heels etc.


Personality:

1. intelligence: my sense of humor isn't that sophisticated, but i really don't like making a funny joke, and having her go "what?".
2. open/honest: trying to prise the truth out of a girl when she has a problem but would rather you guessed than just told you is damn annoying >.>
3. comfortable but not conceited: girl who refuses to be naked within 5 feet of you unless the lights are off is tough ditto for girls who are totally aware of their bodys and show off. a balence is prefered.
4. rational: please god, don't let me date another drama-seeker as long as i live. problems can be solved by talking, rather than her screaming "YOU'RE WORSE THAN MY FATHER".

I don't kid myself for a second that I have the luxuary of being this picky when it comes to a girl. but we're talking ideals i aim to go for as many of the above points as possible.

 

[tris-]

depends is it someone you just seen and wanna fuck -

eyes
smile
brunette
body shape
height

probably around that order

someone for a longterm bitch friend

im still going with eyes im afraid, shallow as it is. but if a girl has good eyes it sucks me in
this hoe has to be funny AND clever not one or the other.
she also has to be straight up and not take things personally. like if i say "bitch go get me a fucking drink" ideally shed laugh and say "fuck off, get it your self".
the face in general
then hair.

 

[Overdriven]

Hair (Bright red is just omghot, then redheads and the darker.. Blondes maybe)
Eyes
Face structure
Ass/Legs ()

 

[Gamah]

Will they shag me?

95% is a no as I am a overweight uggo :O

 

[Killswitch]

Right...serious answer...let's see if this gets any comments;

1) Personality

That's it...if I get talking to someone and we hit it off, that's all I'm bothered about.

 

[Eeben]

Right...serious answer...let's see if this gets any comments;

1) Personality

That's it...if I get talking to someone and we hit it off, that's all I'm bothered about.

depens imo! if im looking for a gf then personality first but if its a quick fuck i couldnt care less about her personality

 

[Killswitch]

depens imo! if im looking for a gf then personality first but if its a quick fuck i couldnt care less about her personality

To be honest, I'd rather "get it on" with Mr Hand than with some vacuous, self-obsessed, pig-ignorant woman from a club whose only achievement to date is managing to put on a short skirt and drink 20 litres of VK. Nothing beats having some blonde tell you about her ex-boyfriend over and over again while burping Irn-Bru-flavoured wind into your face and then begging you to buy them a kebab...

Maybe I'm just weird...well, I am just weird! I'd only sleep with someone I was attracted to and attraction isn't just tits and ass.

 

[old.Tohtori]

Anyone who says "People who look for looks are shallow", are either A: Butt ugly, B: Really REALLY goodlooking. C: Lying sons of b*tches.

Sure, you can fall for an ugly/tonkatruck girl(i mean REALLY big, not "meaty"), but honestly it's not your first choice.

You only fall for ugly/fat chicks if you get stuck talking to them. Or are friends with them first. Or it's an online buddy. Or you happen to prefer tonkas.

Anyone claiming "Oh i JUST look for a personality", is honestly a lying bastard.(Killswitch, admit it)

Sure, personality IS more important in the long run(or even short run), but come on...anyone given the choice will look for a good looking/moderate one with some flaws instead of the chewbacca with exactly perfect personality.

 

[Laddey]

Under 12

 

[Killswitch]

Nah, that's not true Tohtori, at least not for everyone. I certainly don't think I'm arse-ugly or super-good-looking...nicely average I reckon.

The way I've met pretty much all my GFs has been that I've got talking to them, had a good time, kept talking, had a great time, had a date and gone from there. I've dated what most people would call good-looking lasses, but I've also dated my share of "big" girls and whatever else.

Now, I might be a special case due to my circumstances, but I dunno.

 

[old.Tohtori]

Nah, that's not true Tohtori, at least not for everyone. I certainly don't think I'm arse-ugly or super-good-looking...nicely average I reckon.

The way I've met pretty much all my GFs has been that I've got talking to them, had a good time, kept talking, had a great time, had a date and gone from there. I've dated what most people would call good-looking lasses, but I've also dated my share of "big" girls and whatever else.

Now, I might be a special case due to my circumstances, but I dunno.

And when say, you're at a party, or a bar, you go for the chewbacca in the corner instead of the normal/good looking girls right?

That, is the point.

And by a tonkagirl, i do mean one that is as wide as tall, not just " a bit fat". Those can look good too.

But NEVER, EVER(if it's not a preferance of the individual) would you start to get to know an ugly a** woman instead of a "normal" one.

 

[Killswitch]

And when say, you're at a party, or a bar, you go for the chewbacca in the corner instead of the normal/good looking girls right?

That, is the point.

And by a tonkagirl, i do mean one that is as wide as tall, not just " a bit fat". Those can look good too.

But NEVER, EVER(if it's not a preferance of the individual) would you start to get to know an ugly a** woman instead of a "normal" one.

I wouldn't "go for" anyone...I certainly wouldn't go and start talking to a random stranger. So it would be whoever I was there with and whoever I got introduced to or whoever came and talked to me and looks, seriously, wouldn't be an issue. If there were 2 woman and one was "fine" and one was "rough", if I enjoyed talking to the rough one more, the fine one would be getting ignored.

No-one ever believes me...bastards!

 

[old.Tohtori]

I wouldn't "go for" anyone...I certainly wouldn't go and start talking to a random stranger. So it would be whoever I was there with and whoever I got introduced to or whoever came and talked to me and looks, seriously, wouldn't be an issue. If there were 2 woman and one was "fine" and one was "rough", if I enjoyed talking to the rough one more, the fine one would be getting ignored.

No-one ever believes me...bastards!

It's just not the point.

The point is about who you'd go for, if you went for anyone. This is not about "how do you approach, if you approach, or do you approach women/men".

People who say "physical attraction means nothing" or "personality is EVERYTHING" are simply, in denial or trying to come off as holier then should.

I get what you're saying, that if a ugly woman has a good personality, you might and probably would date her and even marry her. But you have to admit that if given the choice with A: Woman you get along with perfect, who is ugly/fat. and B: Woman you get along with perfect, and looks really good. You'd go for B every day of the month.

Ofcourse personality is in some ways the better thing, but you can't in honest way say, that looks don't mean anything.

 

[tris-]

ofc youre right. but most good looking girls are also twats because they know they can be. they are dramatic, over the top, too bla bla, you know the story.

now get your self an average girl who looks hot, and shes a different person to this super sexy girl imo.

 

[Shadowss]

AHEM when im casually walking around and i see the girl i look at:

1) face
2) hair
3) If shes sexy and not fat
4) BOOOOOOBIES
5)Butt

Kinda works from top to bottom

If i begin talking to the girl (personality)

1) if shes funny ( always a good thing )
2) if shes shy ( puts me off tbh.. way too much effort if they are shy)
3) If she talk really fast and i have no idea what shes saying.. ( hate it Garr!)
4) if shes the type who wants to get jiggy on the first date etc
5) if shes commited ( dont wannit that one, want one whos like yeah lets get jiggy but like not go out.... ill look for the commited type when im like 30 Lol! )

 

[Killswitch]

I think I just don't understand this whole thing. If there were two women, one fat one and one gorgeous one who were both equally "accessible" (ie up for it) and who I liked equally? I'd go for the one who I thought would be a better long-term bet for a relationship, regardless of looks.

I should add at this point that I have a variety of longstanding mental problems that might cause this behaviour. I'm really not sure.

I have no interest in "casual sex" or just shagging for it's own sake...I know it sounds ridiculous, but without having feelings for a person, sex with them seems so pointless when I have porn right at home.

 

[Imgormiel]

For me I assess it as randomly as I am likely to be assessed, if overall she looks dandy then i am good at window shopping, but otherwise, if i am moving then she's gotta move with me too else i look at pizza pie all night and get drunk at home

 

[old.Tohtori]

ofc youre right. but most good looking girls are also twats because they know they can be. they are dramatic, over the top, too bla bla, you know the story.

now get your self an average girl who looks hot, and shes a different person to this super sexy girl imo.

Aye, good personality over looks is the thing, but also looks are an issue.

I don't need a model who's a b*tch, but i wouldn't start hooking up with, like i said, chewbacca either.

I think I just don't understand this whole thing. If there were two women, one fat one and one gorgeous one who were both equally "accessible" (ie up for it) and who I liked equally? I'd go for the one who I thought would be a better long-term bet for a relationship, regardless of looks.

But there's the problem, you're not looking at them equally, setting looks aside.

Let's say that the only difference between the two women would be their looks or size, you'd go for the lighter(not talking skinny here) and more good looking one.

ONLY difference.

Personality, same brain, exactly the same person, in a different package.

And that's what i was talking about. Looks DO matter. No matter how people talk that they don't.

Just in a same way that, two equally hot women with totally different personalities, you'd choose the one with a better personality.

 

[Killswitch]

Let's say that the only difference between the two women would be their looks or size, you'd go for the lighter(not talking skinny here) and more good looking one.

ONLY difference.

Personality, same brain, exactly the same person, in a different package.

And that's what i was talking about. Looks DO matter. No matter how people talk that they don't.

Just in a same way that, two equally hot women with totally different personalities, you'd choose the one with a better personality.

I think this might be a slightly hypothetical situation. Even if we took two identical twins and fattened one up, you'd still have to choose between the good one and the evil one.

If they were the same exact person with the same brain but in different bodies...we could do this all day. If the skinny version dressed badly and the big version dressed well to flatter her "fuller figure", then the bigger one would probably be a better choice.

However, the situation of seeing two women who are completely identical except that one is fat and one is thin is NEVER GOING TO HAPPEN. Well, unless you're in one of those rooms at the fair with the funny-shaped mirrors. There will always be difference, subtle differences maybe in the way they talk, their accent, their smile, their world view, their hobbies and interests...and all those things are more important to me than whether they look good in hotpants or not!!

That said, larger women should NOT wear hotpants. If Golena reads this, he knows what I'm talking about!

 

[old.Tohtori]

So you're saying, you never say "Hey she looks hot" or look at someone and think "I'd like to get to know her because she looks like this or that"?

Looks have ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with you, you have no preference in what kind of women you'd want to date?

Even if the ugliest woman sat down at your table, one that would repulse even guys who repulse themselves, you'd get to know her and date her if she had a "nice personlaity"?

If you can honestly say that, then i could believe that looks mean absolutely nothing to you.

But i doubt it.

 

[Naetha]

Stop being a nob Tohtori, what does it matter? You're bringing up a hypothetical situation which is as likely as...something not very likely (sorry my simile dictionary got lost).

Why don't you just take the guy at face value where he says he goes for personality over looks? If there are two girls at a party, one is sexy as fuck, but isn't doing things to mentally turn you on (i.e. has negative body language, complete lack of social skills etc), and the other is not well endowed in the looks department, but you're having a great conversation with her about existential uncertainty, then you're going to be more attracted to her, regardless of looks, unless her looks really are at the more extreme end. (and I'm talking extreme facial deformities, being over 25 stone here)

I'd always go for personality over looks - I got lucky in my feller in that I got both. If you like someone's personality though, you spend time talking to them, and you do notice things about them that may not be classically attractive, or stand out like Ms Airhead Sexor's boobs.

I'll admire a buff guy any day of the week, but I think my feller has the sexiest smile that I wouldn't necessarily have noticed if I wasn't turned on by his personality first.

By turned on btw, I don't mean entirely sexually, just that connection you get.

/rant over.

 

[preacherboy]

They all the same, Bring em on i do em all

 

[Bugz]

I think they mean to the non-extremes tohtori - like Naetha explained above.

That said, I look for a mix of face & personality. Body is a bonus but I originally met the other half from msn convos w/ webcams so the only thing I got to see was her face. I think that made me appreciate the situation more as I grew attached to her personality, her smile & her eyes rather than her bum, boobs and legs ^^.