What to do if your gf's house is a total mess...

[Darksword]

You really just make more of a dick of yourself in each post.

just a simple fuck u tilda i obviously wasnt being serious if u read my real response above. Dick-head.

 

[haarewin]

Remember relationships are all about compromise, have a think about what shes compromising with to be with you

her standards may already be compromised just by talking to you.

 

[eggy]

I'd say;

"you're house is a student shit hole, let's clean it the fuck up"

=

--> Honesty
--> Advice (caring)
--> Sympathy (helping her)
--> Forcefulness (you are manly, you are the trousers)

=

--> BJ

 

[Jjuraa]

--> Forcefulness (you are manly, you are the trousers)

So manly he has to stop seeing a girl becuase of a few unwashed dishes? Personally i think youre being a bit pathetic, suck it up and deal with it. Aint like she's asking you to move in with her. Maybe its easy for you to be tidy when you live at home with both parents, but try to be a bit understanding? you most likely dont know exactly what her family life is like (even if you dont live with both parents, different people go through different things).

And in the end, if its that much of an issue where its either the mess goes or you do.. do her a favour and leave maybe point her in the direction of an actual man on the way out

 

[eggy]

So manly he has to stop seeing a girl becuase of a few unwashed dishes?

I never said that?

 

[Bahumat]

stay with her for a month or 2 then bring it up, if you say it too early she may tell you to sod off!

 

[Chronictank]

burn it down..

erm did i say that out loud ?

Ez it wasnt me, honest!

Back on topic:
As said before by various people, best way imo take her out and then be honest

 

[Rediknight]

reset her rep and postcount, that'll sort her out

 

[Mybuddies]

Get a new GF. Honestly, you will thank God in the long run.

 

[Bugz]

Good news pepps.

Her mum's is a nice clean house which is gd for me. Secondly, the girl in question realised her dad's was a mess without me even mentioning it and said she'd clean it with him

Best of all, i'm off round there next weekend for some 1 on 1 time

Cheers for advice, I think you was right in the sense I shouldn't approach it in such a rude way.

Bugz (a happy lad)