what do women want?

Huntingtons

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well, ez you've said yourself you've had some hardon wankers as bf's - how come you chose them?

anyway, its not as easy as saying this guy did this and that then say: leave him he's an asshole. there's always alot more to it. maybe the thought of them being able to help the guy or smth like that
 

Jeremiah

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I'm obviously not able to talk from experience, but knowing many close friends who have stayed with guys they shouldnt be with:

Most of the time, its all psychological. They dont want to be lonely. They know the shouldnt be with them, and will cry to all the friends about wanting to leave them, but they cant do it cos it will mean they are alone, probably for the first time in a long time. And they'll do anything to convince themselves that they are going to break up with them, including trying to line themss.elves up the next boyfriend so they can just go from one relationship to another.

Another reason is the "chance" that their men will turn out to be good. Like one good day is worth 29 bad days. Women always believe they can change their men, even worse, they get married still believing it. One glimmer of hope of their man turning into their dream man is enough to keep them going through months of absolute torture.

I think all they want is a guy who is genuine, not afraid to show his feelings (within reason ofc, no one likes a cry baby!) and knows when the right time is to keep his mouth shut and give her a hug.
 

echome

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From my experience it also has a lot to do with age.

When girls are young, they want someone tough, someone who can defend them.
But as they get older they start to look into other things.
Someone that they can laugh with and live with but also support them, in anyway needed. - In more longterm relations.

Ofc one can not say how all girls think, and thank God for that.
We can't live with them, nor without them.:wij:
 

Dillinja

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Women are evil, sadistic, heartless creatures. They play these cruel little games that eat away at your very soul until you sit there in your room with a gun in your hand wondering where it all went wrong and if it's even worth carrying on.

They give these games innocent little names like playing hard-to-get, when really it's just plain old head-fucking. Sometimes I think they just want you to kill yourself so that they can go back to their mates and say "Well I had a guy kill himself over me once!" and they'd all be like "woooo you go girl!" etc.

Obviously they all hate men because of their terrible fathers and they then want to take revenge on the general male population, and they do this by destroying our very hearts, minds and souls.
 

Ezteq

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well, ez you've said yourself you've had some hardon wankers as bf's - how come you chose them?

ha the bastards tricked me!

but to be fair i did leave as soon as i found out they wernt what they pretended to be.

Toht your right i think we do want from someone else what we want to give to them... you know what i mean lol

Amanita good on you tbh i hate people who are all "oh noes i gotta have a gf/bf!!" and cant survive on their own no matter how crap said gf/bf is, they really annoy me.


Dill rofl wb long time no see, sooo i take it you just broke up with someone then?
 

tris-

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Women are evil, sadistic, heartless creatures. They play these cruel little games that eat away at your very soul until you sit there in your room with a gun in your hand wondering where it all went wrong and if it's even worth carrying on.

They give these games innocent little names like playing hard-to-get, when really it's just plain old head-fucking. Sometimes I think they just want you to kill yourself so that they can go back to their mates and say "Well I had a guy kill himself over me once!" and they'd all be like "woooo you go girl!" etc.

Obviously they all hate men because of their terrible fathers and they then want to take revenge on the general male population, and they do this by destroying our very hearts, minds and souls.

rofl, classic as usual from you.

just found this quote which seems relevant and true

DragonflyBlade21: A woman has a close male friend. This means that he is probably interested in her, which is why he hangs around so much. She sees him strictly as a friend. This always starts out with, you're a great guy, but I don't like you in that way. This is roughly the equivalent for the guy of going to a job interview and the company saying, You have a great resume, you have all the qualifications we are looking for, but we're not going to hire you. We will, however, use your resume as the basis for comparison for all other applicants. But, we're going to hire somebody who is far less qualified and is probably an alcoholic. And if he doesn't work out, we'll hire somebody else, but still not you. In fact, we will never hire you. But we will call you from time to time to complain about the person that we hired.
 

Krait

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What women want is.........


Not to hear our opinion about what they actually want. :(
 

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