The Best Dilemma of All - opinions please

[Uncle Sick]

Who would you pick and what would you do etc etc?

The old one... time to get steady. You gonna break a hip or something on that young one.

Ah, and if you ever travel to Bumfuck/Maine... give me a shout and I'll introduce you to the local ale. Which isn't half as good as German beer but twice as good as the English stuff. Heh

 

[.Wilier.]

Strangley enough, Mrs Wil is my "Old Friend" except she did all the travelling stuff before we met again, and lived down in the smoke for 10 years before setteling in the back of beyond with me

New Friend sounds like she would wear you out before your 40.

Tank Girl sounds great, but unsettled.

 

[old.Tohtori]

Ah, and if you ever travel to Bumfuck/Maine...

You are not serious about the name....

 

[tRoG]

Old Friend. My wife is an old friend that I've known since I was about 13. Met her again by chance in my mid twenties and... er... married her.

 

[Paradroid]

NONE OF THE ABOVE !!!!!!

At the age of 33 (which, coincidently, I am too) wtf are you going to do with a 20 year old (appart from the obvious)? What the hell will you have in common with a 20 year old? What do you talk about? Unless, of course, you can manage to get both the 20 year olds together (2x20), no time to talk!

The old flame/fancy: you're obviously in a delimma regarding the travel, simply put it to her straight....you want to emigrate. To be honest, she sounds "settled" in that regard. Are you sure the old friend isn't triggering other feelings too, you mentioned the old town where you used to live (etc), perhaps it's best if you steer clear of that altogether.

I remember a quote/saying from years ago, from my early Uni days studying engineering:"The solution to every problem is in the question, you just have to know what the question is."
ie WTF do you want to know?


It really sounds like you're the one with you're head up your arse. The mere fact that you're on a public forum voicing your concerns, over 3 totally different ladies, says it all.

If you really wanted one of these ladies to be your "Main Beach" then you'd have made your decision, you obviously don't want any of them that much. Think of it like this; there's no clear winner, so restart the race!

Therefore, NONE OF THE ABOVE.


:touch:

 

[Addlcove]

since he´s already shagging new girl that post is a bit too late.

and kinda rude in my mind but maybe I´m reading it wrong

 

[Uncle Sick]

You are not serious about the name....

Heh... well, it literally is.

I live in the boonies, the sticks, the arse end of space, people have to push the moon with a pole here, etc.

Maine, the land where bears shag deer and deer shags moose.

I like it, though. If I manage to get cable or DSL, it will be paradise.

 

[Xtro]

Oddness.

Paradroid - like Addlcove said mate, already chosen, and enjoying it 100%. Totally made the right decision. Head up my arse for asking people I know for their advice? Hmm. I'm Barrysworld old school - I dont mean oh look at me look at me I've been around here ages - I mean I actually know some of these people who post and trust them!

Sicko - heh mate...I'd LOVE to visit Maine!

Tips hat to Addlcove and wishes him good day.

/edit: the age thing. You'd be suprised. New Girl is incredibly intellectual and I could talk to her all night. Add to this the fact that she is gorgeous and I want to get jiggeh with her = the w1n.

 

[Jupitus]

I've been around here ages - I mean I actually know some of these people who post and trust them!

*hugs Xtro*

 

[Bodhi]

NONE OF THE ABOVE !!!!!!


It really sounds like you're the one with you're head up your arse.

Oh no. It really doesn't. At least he can notice when people have already made their mind up, and stop offering advice at this point.

Please.


Thanks.







bye.

 

[mr.Blacky]

Oh no. It really doesn't. At least he can notice when people have already made their mind up, and stop offering advice at this point.

Please.


Thanks.







bye.

Welcome back freaky one and watch your words for a change

 

[Paradroid]

Oddness.

Paradroid - like Addlcove said mate, already chosen, and enjoying it 100%. Totally made the right decision. Head up my arse for asking people I know for their advice? Hmm. I'm Barrysworld old school - I dont mean oh look at me look at me I've been around here ages - I mean I actually know some of these people who post and trust them!

Sicko - heh mate...I'd LOVE to visit Maine!

Tips hat to Addlcove and wishes him good day.

/edit: the age thing. You'd be suprised. New Girl is incredibly intellectual and I could talk to her all night. Add to this the fact that she is gorgeous and I want to get jiggeh with her = the w1n.

This was one of the few ocassions where I've skipped to the end, without reading the whole thread...soz.

...Head up my arse for asking people I know for their advice? Hmm. I'm Barrysworld old school - I dont mean oh look at me look at me I've been around here ages - I mean I actually know some of these people who post and trust them! ...

I'm sorry Xtro, I was conferring my attitudes on you. I just can't imagine asking for advice on this subject, and then listening/acting upon it.

It kinda reminds me of that old story about the 80 year old guy, who goes to his doctor and complains to him that he's recently married a 20 year old woman, the young woman demands sex from him morning, noon, and, night, to which the doctor asks "what exactly his problem is?", and, the old guy replies; "Nothing! I just had to tell someone!".