Sleeping with my sister

Calaen

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Anyone watching it?

Its all abit strange, kinda tough calling the couples brothers and sisters when they were seperated at a very early age and met like 20 years later.
 

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Siblings are blood and only blood i say, when sex comes to play.

The real sibling thing comes with time. Brotherly love etc.

I don't think there's anything wrong per say, as in, go ahead if you want, but i would strongly recommend condoms.

(not watched the show as i has no english tv)
 

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mmm odd situation, can just jump in saying its sick, but as toh said said sibling relations come in time and from social pressures, big brother looking out etc... but suppose wouldn't really come into account if not known each other.. however i don't think it has anything to do with what something said on the shows description about being similar biologically just people fall in love with others, none of that soul mate shit, people fall in and out of love all the time however government goto put some boundaries due to the deformities, tough situation to have clear views on thinking about it in depth
 

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yeah and in both instances having children was out of the question.
 

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Does DNA and having the same parent/s cause 2 children to be close (in a non sexual, friendly way).

I think a brother and brother/sister are like best friends (even if they fight a bit). They may not have everything in common, but there is a special bond. Also they are like parents for one another in the sense that you worry about them and want to make sure they are ok.

A boyfriend/girlfriend has alot of these emotional ties. The main difference is something in your childhood must remove sexual attraction.

I personally think if a baby boy and baby girl are seperated at birth, then meet up 20 years later, there will be a bond. It must be something to do with DNA? However without the childhood, it could be 'mistaken' for love.

It's a strange subject.
 

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Oh yeah - I think if 2 people find out they are related they should end it straight away. The main reason is the problems Incest can cause.

If they decide to stay together then I can understand that, but I dont think they should "try" for children. adopt if need be.
 

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Oh yeah - I think if 2 people find out they are related they should end it straight away. The main reason is the problems Incest can cause.

If they decide to stay together then I can understand that, but I dont think they should "try" for children. adopt if need be.

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Without getting into to much of a heated debate:p dont really agree with you bahumut, DNA and genes do not evoke emotion the psyche does which has been trained through socialisation. That brother sister bond you said, that comes with time, love and trust, not through biological attraction, there's plenty of siblings that just dont get on, or simply just arn't really bothered and drift apart, same with any relationship in existence, some people just dont get on while others do. Just like love, people fall in and out of love with many throughout their lives generally, none of that soul mate bullshit. Same with the maternal bond, its all a myth, spend that much time with many people will lead to compasion and love.

Also your reference to removing sexual attraction is also a bit void depending upon your psychology theorist stances, children have a great deal of sexual attraction and behaviour they just express it in a different way, bond with their parents, the change between the stages as Freud talks about, just watch a group of children and how they behave, touching themselves, showing each other their bits :p quite amusing really but its innocent still. Anywho theres my view again:p quite an interesting topic.
 

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Does DNA and having the same parent/s cause 2 children to be close (in a non sexual, friendly way).

I think a brother and brother/sister are like best friends (even if they fight a bit). They may not have everything in common, but there is a special bond. Also they are like parents for one another in the sense that you worry about them and want to make sure they are ok.

A boyfriend/girlfriend has alot of these emotional ties. The main difference is something in your childhood must remove sexual attraction.

I personally think if a baby boy and baby girl are seperated at birth, then meet up 20 years later, there will be a bond. It must be something to do with DNA? However without the childhood, it could be 'mistaken' for love.

It's a strange subject.

Thats pretty deep, probably one of the best theories I've heard about it tbh.
 

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Haven't seen THAT show, but similar things exist over here aswell and really, if a brother and sister are together without knowing their family bonds and if they live a happy life...why change anything about that? If they don't make a big story out of it, nobody will ever know and all that needs to be done is to forbid children to such people, because it's extremely dangerous.

Just imagine the situation for yourself. You've been married to your wife for like 30y and all of sudden someone comes saying that you marriage is canceled and that you should stay the hell away (sexually) from your wife/sister. I don't know how you'd feel, but I can assure you that personally I wouldn't take that so well.
 

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If you don't know its your sister, then what you don't know doesn't hurt you
 

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Don't even joke about that fellow. One of the scummiest pond scum from the scum pond of humanity your ever likely to encounter.

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This is very like my situation at the moment but after watching that, has made me decide whats best for us both and she agree's.
 

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Without getting into to much of a heated debate:p dont really agree with you bahumut, DNA and genes do not evoke emotion the psyche does which has been trained through socialisation. That brother sister bond you said, that comes with time, love and trust, not through biological attraction, there's plenty of siblings that just dont get on, or simply just arn't really bothered and drift apart, same with any relationship in existence, some people just dont get on while others do. Just like love, people fall in and out of love with many throughout their lives generally, none of that soul mate bullshit. Same with the maternal bond, its all a myth, spend that much time with many people will lead to compasion and love.

Also your reference to removing sexual attraction is also a bit void depending upon your psychology theorist stances, children have a great deal of sexual attraction and behaviour they just express it in a different way, bond with their parents, the change between the stages as Freud talks about, just watch a group of children and how they behave, touching themselves, showing each other their bits :p quite amusing really but its innocent still. Anywho theres my view again:p quite an interesting topic.

I agree with alot of what you say. I know of some of the thing's Freud talked about, but this is a subject i'm way out my depth on. Also I retract my dna comments. I explained it quickly (whilst at work) and it was not the correct word to use.

Thats pretty deep, probably one of the best theories I've heard about it tbh.

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Until you do find out, then you've commited incest and feel like crap.

And that's the thing I question. It might be wrong, but if you spend years together and develop a deep bond like a lot of married couples, then I'm not sure if you feel that crap.
 

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bahumat :- "I personally think if a baby boy and baby girl are seperated at birth, then meet up 20 years later, there will be a bond. It must be something to do with DNA? However without the childhood, it could be 'mistaken' for love."

I actually think the mistaking a bond for love is a very good idea, it makes sense to me. Of course there is going to be people on the boundaries who don't fit into it, but thats down to individual differences.
 

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Anyone hear seen 'Oldboy'? Wikipedia it if you're interested.
 

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